Are there particular things that your sexual partners say that cause you to go all limp?  Here's my experience with a Chinese woman (not a working girl) that I hooked up with in Beijing   She's a divorcee, late 30s, short, firm body, about 20 years younger than me.

OK, we're making love, it's going really well!  She's getting very vocal.

"Oh, you are my God"  - makes sense, fits in my self-image
"I'm in heaven" - yep, if I'm her god then that's where I'm going to take her
I'm dying, I'm dying - how else do you get to heaven?

Oh my father, my brother! while kissing me deeply.   WHOA!!!  I'm driving my Porsche along an autobahn at 150kph and accidentally throw it into reverse gear.  That's the effect!   I've now found that if somebody calls me father when I'm making love to them my brain goes all funny.  What is this woman thinking?  

Luckily the subconscious part of my brain remembers that in the Chinese classics it is quite common for wives to call their husbands "father" or "brother" as a mark of respect.  Subconscious brain tells conscious brain to go back to business, she isn't a bunny boiler.  I tell her I just went slow for a bit to make it all last longer.

Has anybody else had their partner say unusual things that almost derails them?

LOL.  I've never been in a situation w/ talk like that.  We tried to do the dirty talk, but nothing got me more excited was when she just said things like.

"Do what you want".  "Do as you please".  

She literally let me do that.  Just the scene of her w/ my hands on her ankles, spreading her out is enough for me.

That gets me more going than the orchestrated stuff, seriously.  And when engage, it sounds like a BMW redlining..'.  It's pure symphonic silk ripping in rhythm. LOL

The dirty talk stuff to me means its fake. lol  If I had heard stuff like, Oh my father, or 'hail mary'. my wood would just shrink.

I had an ex tell me just as she was starting the first bj of our relationship that ... "Don't cum in my mouth because I will probably throw up".  Not only did this turn me off, it pretty much got me looking for another future ex which I found not long afterward.

[ Last edited by  Jimstevens at 4-1-2012 11:56 ]

It's not so much the sounds that turn me off but some facial expressions.  I used to have a fuck buddy whose ecstasy expression looked like she was in terrible pain.  I used to stop and ask her if she was OK.  "I'm fine, damnit, she'd yell - stop stopping!"

It happened more than once - but not every time - it was just automatic to ask.

I had a girl friend text me wanting to meet and "do it like rabbits" she was a great fuck aand sucked like a goddess
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Hmm, one thing that turns me off is fake moaning. When I haven't really done anything, and she already started moaning. it really exudes a weird feeling.

Another thing is dead fish on a bed. A WG who does nothing but just lay down on the bed getting banged. Not saying anything, no facial expression. No interaction whatsoever besides my dick getting in and out of her hole.

For WG, overly fake moans/ dirty talk

With the SO, nothing she can/has said in the moment can make it go limp, even if I get super upset I can still finish and deal with it after

1: The SO saying "are you coming to bed"
2: New GF saying "think I'm falling in love with you"
3: WG getting undressed and finding it's a dude (but if he's got good implants who knows)
4: WG getting undressed and discovering the dude you just had in your room looked better!!
5: WG pointing at my Dick and laughing
6: WG looking at my Dick and not even smirking (cos I know then she's acting)
7: Being thrown up on during BBBJ (it has happened to me, but to be fair it was my fault for letting a super pissed chick blow me)
8: Getting a super hot WG in a bar pick up, then getting outside in the light and thinking "SHIT"
9: "69" an a girl you humped an hour earlier and having a blob of man juice drop on your chest (again yes it's happened)
10: Being told "that was quick" even though I tell them I'm a busy man   

All pretty normal turn offs I guess

One that did it for me was when backpacking around the world and the Dutch prostitute in Amsterdam I was banging asked me, as I was taking too Long and keeping her from our next customer:

"well, have you come yet?"

My reply was "no ma'am, but I'm working on it"

Keep on mongering