Gents, thought I'd put out my two bits worth here.
I came upon the 141.com site, due to the direction given here by a mainstream publication. After getting on the site, visited the forum and simply fell for it. Not because of all the testosterone fuelled stories by themselves. But because there were pictures that authenticated the whole story. And most importantly, I had found a space where I can be just me. No pretence. I like punting. I like visiting WGs and getting my rocks off. But no where in the real world, could I really share the stories or hear/read what other like minded guys had been doing. Stating something like a WG experience to a few ultra-close friends in real, is nothing like being here on this site and sharing stuff with people whom I have never met, but learned quickly to respect. This is not my tongue up any senior bro's arse. Just my honest opinion.
Obviously the RA system, eggs me to get in quality reports and get the requisite Ks to be able to see the real deal pics. And initially after seeing the newer set of guidelines, my thoughts were -- ok, a higher bar. No problem, I will do what I can, when I can and get there. Will take longer, but eventually get there. This means being patient a bit more, so what? The main reward for me, which is the interaction with the linkes of JackTheBat or Sean or reading Wander's hilarious takes or sometimes laughing even days after because some bro made a remark that was a killer laughter inducer is the key factor. And this interaction has nothing to do with the RA system. I do not need an RA to read reports and to interact. Happy.
Regarding the anonymity and privacy angle, I fully agree, that what is discussed in this forum, remains in this forum. Member anonymity is an important thing for about 95% of bros here, IMO. So why do something like sharing reports/pics/member names outside this forum and burn others? For what? A perceived better experience with the LB and that particular WG? For a monetary benefit i.e. discount? It is all balanced in the end. You save somewhere, you pay somewhere else. You make somewhere, you lose somewhere else. I'd rather be pro-bros and pro-forum, as the free interaction here is more valuable to me...
There are two suggestions:
1. If any bro, senior, middle, junior - whoever does this sort of sharing and burning, and is found out - first time, reduce to NN. And perchance if same bloke after getting back to a CC and above level, does it again and is found out... ban. No consideration.
2. There has been long discussions about not enough NNs coming in or writing up quality reports or being discouraged due to high RA settings. There is a statute of limitations in real life. Why not here? Again, I am not stating what is the time span. It is for the Admin/mods to discuss and agree. But for example, if there is an agreed timespan after which the RA restrictions come down (even if it is only down a few notches - enough for an MM @RA20 to view), it gives a very clear incentive for NNs and MMs to report, as now they can be enthused by what's been done in the past?
Edit: PS: This post has now been copied to the new thread found here:
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... page%3D1#pid408696. Hence, if you have any comments, please do so on that thread. Thank you :-)
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