Subject: blowing early
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blowing early

ok so this is gonna be embarrassing. I have a tendency to 'blow' early, i mean real early. I am pretty inexperienced and have only punted once, it was with a hotel girl. it feels like a waste of money if i dont last very long since its one shot only. so you guys have any advice for me? how do i get a session with a girl that will allow multiple shots but without the outrageous price tag?

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Reply #1 unicornduck's post

There's a thread on Priligy
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... &extra=page%3D2

As for multiple shots, walk-ups are way cheaper and there are reports of stellar Thais at $250/pop who you probably can make deals with - so do yourself a favor and RTFF!

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Cheap Fix....

Not sure where you live but if you can get ahold of some Lanacane or anything with benzocaine. Make sure you use a condom with it.... don't let her blow you BB cos her mouth will go numb and she'll get pissed.  
If I'm with a WG that covers everything I put it on before going in to the hotel or room.  If my
spinner loves to BBBJ then I put it on before the condom.  
I used the Lanacane with a stee overloard or maybe a black ant and I pounded for 45 mins.  She was bagging me to cum.  try it....it's only a few dollars.  let me know.
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Reply #1 unicornduck's post

Well like SEAJ mentioned some options, there are also many walk ups that you pay for time as opposed to pops.

- always negotiatable, tell her what you want and ask how she would charge prior to session. (having usually book my girls for 2-4hrs I usually use this method so I am not rushed and do only as many pops as I like in that time. Many times just 1-2)

- places like k pressure/ 37d. Give you 50 mins if you can get it off in that time.

- Bring you own Dom. As the girl may feel for you and tell you that she would but onlywas given 1 condom so can't.

- last option is to pre wank 30 mins before. I would not recommend this option as it may not help much and will detensify your orgasm.
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i'd just jack off before i go. seriously even a little tug will do. i mean if you're blowing that early then it sounds like a bit of intensity reduction is what you need anyway...

how about - go to a cheaper walk-up blow your load real quick and then go to the main attraction. that way you get two for the effort of one. I've always wanted to do that but after my first load i'm pretty satisfied so i just skip the second. haha.
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Post at 21-10-2011 00:46  Profile P.M. 
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I used to have this problem (not so much anymore).

Usually, I whack one off that day, then check out a cheaper walk-up (the $250 ones in Sai Wan Ho / Shau Kei Wan) and then a hotel girl. Sometimes I can't finish with the last one, but doesn't matter.

Otherwise, if you go drunk, you also last longer (usually 2-3 beers + 3-4 shots of hard liqour does the trick). Good for when you go out to LKF on a non-event night, like a Wed/Thurs when girls put their shields up and say they have work the next day and don't put out.

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Originally posted by deepak123 at 20-10-2011 11:46 AM
Otherwise, if you go drunk, you also last longer (usually 2-3 beers + 3-4 shots of hard liqour does the trick). Good for when you go out to LKF on a non-event night, like a Wed/Thurs when girls put their shields up and say they have work the next day and don't put out.

sorry drunk ruins the experience.  perhaps a little buzz to wear the edge off.  practice makes perfect buddy!
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Post at 21-10-2011 10:03  Profile P.M. 
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Agree with the other comment above  Take the "something about mary" approach and relieve yourself once before heading out!




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Post at 21-10-2011 12:53  Profile P.M. 
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i disagree with the use of rubs or watever drugs on ur penis
if u cant feel anything then wats the point of sex?
jerking off beforehand is an easy way out

try doing the kegal exercises
where u pee and then stop and then do it again  over and over
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Reply #1 unicornduck's post

Just take it alot slower - if you feel you will blow, just ease back to not bring yourself over the top

But everyone has had this problem at some pt or other, you're not alone in this respect
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Control the pace the way you want it to go.
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Reply #9 jsmithj88's post

I agree with you too... if you cant feel anything , why dont you just use fingers instead
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My first few punts I had the same problem bro!

Never ever had it happen before with a girlfriend or one-nighter, but when I first punted I was really really nervous and it was all over before I evenknew what happened.

Firstly, dont be ashamed, there are lots of things you can do to remedy the problem.  you need to realise that it probably isnt your fault, you arent doing anything wrong, for some people this is a real problem and I guess if you dont suffer from premature ejaculation you probably wouldnt understand what it feels like.

But my best advice for you is to go see a doctor.  They hear this shit all the time!  Unless they are some sort of asshole they wont make you feel embarasse and I believe there are some medical treatments available as well as the creams and stuff people have already suggested in this thread.

For myself, well by my third punt I wasnt nervous, and I went in there relaxed and treating it like any other sexual experience.   If you feel yourself getting close, just back off and slow down.  Just like the doctors, im sure the girls have seen it all before too, and if they are half-way decent at their job they will help you go at a pace that suits you!  You have paid for the time, so be assertive and dont let them  go too fast on purpose to end the session quickly.  Also I find that sex is a lot better after 3-4 drinks.  Not drunk, but with a little buzz on you can last a lot longer.

Hope you find something helpful in there!
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thanks for the advice and support guys. much appreciated.
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