Hmmm, Butler, don't think this guy should get the benefit of the doubt.

He joins a forum that is exclusively about paid sex, then says he will NEVER pay for sex because he is too "dominant" a man.  Cringe-worthy.

He's a troll...  (Or a complete idiot).  Either way...

ahhhh, you are paying....one way or another...you are paying

Yeah, you've got a point there Wander.  When it comes to the internet and email I always assume that something is getting lost in translation and give the poster the benefit of the doubt.  Maybe  I go to far . . .

Bro, good luck finding what you are looking for. Hope it works out.

It has been well described already, however to reiterate... what motivates most Bros I know to have paid sex with WGs is not complicated at all... we like variety, we like to have sex with deferent woman, we DON'T want the complication of getting it for free on the side because the risk of getting caught is much higher and also because when there is an emotional attachment instead of a financial one people get hurt.

What I describe above is not captured in your "3 types of guys punt" statement yet is seems in my experience at least to be one of the most common reasons why we do it. It often is not because our wives or GFs don't suck our dicks, it's because we like variety without complications.

I have had "relationships" (on the side) with girls at my HK office and waitresses at a Bar in HK I particularly like to frequent. And while it's fun to begin with it always ends up becoming complicated. Another issue/problem is these relationships need to be cultivated and nurtured... way too complicated... we already have that at home.

Please understand, we occasionally get Bros who chip in here asking for help and with an "I don't need to pay for sex and I never will attitude"... They often have the impression that they "understand all this and why we do it" when clearly they don't. You have suggested you understand why most Bros where "you come from" pay for sex... Given you are not one of those Bros you are referring to... please consider perhaps you don't know.

In reference to your request for information:

I am not 100% clear what you want. Are you saying you want someone (a girl) who will massage and fondle your GF and also be happy for you to be involved if your GF wants it too and you want this for free? I don't have any clear answers, all I can suggest is either your GF or better you and your GF next time you are in HK go out to Wan Chai bars and see what you can find. You'll need to do some work but it's not impossible. Alternatively just suck up for pride and pick a girl you like and pay her to do it... you'll get what you want faster, simpler and with fewer complications if you pay.

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@Wander Change it to Wanker. It will be much easier to all of us and it suits you much more. I m more than sure I know your planet. Cause its the only planet you can find such a morron having as much money as you say you have. Particularly ones who dont even speak their own language. Or at least those who cant even read it.
English lesson no1 then
I never say I WILL NOT PAY FOR SEX mr Wanker. I said I never paid for sex in my life SO FAR (cause i m not a prophet to know what will I do in the future).
Why i m here ? BECUASE I WANT TO PAY A GIRL TO MASSAGE MY GF. This is not PAYING mr Wanker ?
Do capitals help you a bit more ? I m sure they do. All children start by reading and writting capitals first.
I still dont understand why you re so aggressive. Nobody else is. Just you. Small winnie ? Lack of confidence ? Anger cause you can only find what you want by paying ? Jealous of people who do what they love to do without having to pay ? Get over it. You have enough money to visit a shrink. Or to change the one you already have cause this one SUCKS.
So do it and give me a break.
You seem to be a man who wanted so badly to have money cause it would be the only way to see a pussy close enough.
Stop being such a child.

@all rest. Gentlemen my gf is bisexual ALREADY. How difficult is for you to understand that ? I m not trying to make her one. I m not looking for someone to fuck her and i m not looking for someone to have a 3some. We already have that. End of story.
What I m looking for is a massage girl who will accept performing massage to her in a more sensual way AND I WILL PAY HER
(ok mr Wanker ?).
Its true i m not here to tell you my experiences with hookers or callgirls cause my experiences are quite limited (just been to some places with friends for fun and not in HK or asia in general). But I thought some of you (mr Wanker included) could help me out on where or what to look for. And yes, some helped a lot by pointing to the right directions. Thank you Butler and anyone else who really want to help a newbie.

@JJJ37 Yes thats what we say in my Daycare Planet (according to mr Wanker's wisdom) too.

@ TonyToro I will accept your statement and I will add 1 more type of men. Actually I m generous enough to add 2 types.
1. Those who love paying.
2. Those who cant do it for free.
3. Those who can do it for free but they dont get what they want for free.
4. Those who do it for fun.
5. Mr Wanker

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