Hi, all,

I'm still relatively new to this whole gig, but I thought I'd ask for some thoughts on your personal idiosyncrasies when dealing with WGs and share a few of my own. If this is considered irrelevant, please feel free to torpedo and slap me down.

Share 'n' care:  

I figure that working in a 6 square meter apartment 6 days a week would drive anyone crazy and it seems like most WGs I've encountered just call out for delivery or walk downstairs to the nearest soup noodle dive to fill up. So, I like to bring along some fruit if I run across a wet market on the way. I figure some grapes, cherries or something small, washable and tasty would be a welcome change. Do any of you bring along tokens/tribute to your favorites, or even as an icebreaker to a new find as a way to smooth the path to better...uh...communication...without having to wait for the third, fourth visit? I've brought small chocolates once or twice, but they never seem to be received well, partially because it's not a really Chinese thing and, well, who wants to fatten the goose that lays the golden CG?

Have any of your actually held off on a BBBJ if you had something spicy or not-so-tasty to eat in the last few hours? That is to say, when I'm in heavy workout mode, I tend to eat a lot of tuna, which makes my piss reek of tuna. I think, were I a WG and I got a mouthful of our typical bleach load fragranced with canned tuna, I would probably hurl . Likewise asparagus. Likewise mapo tofu. Likewise...antibiotics? On the other hand, have you ever loaded up on bananas and pineapple when anticipating a night of super glorious BBBJ fun from an expert?

Have any of you experienced guilt from 'cheating' on a WG? She's really great, nothing to complain about, is attentive and loving, GFE 110%, but...wait, is that a pair of F cups on a 30" girl? I get this one quite often as I have to admit, I've got a WG who is absolutelygreat, tolerant of my miserable Mandarin, praises my improvements, etc., but I still find myself wanting to explore other errr...vaginas.

I'm also use my massage skills picked up in university to speed the conversion to 'valued customer' rather than 'oh, good, another dick' . Any of you cunning linguists sport special talents that bring all the WGs to your yard?

Anything else that you have as a strange punting quirk?

Special gear? Your own jug of mouthwash and a 0.03?

OCDs? Are those sauna sandals really all that clean?

Any bail phrases? "Wow, you're so good--let's do BB anal!" I met a girl in Australia once who, within 2 minutes told me that she was "really into gore". I found my way out of there pretty damn fucking fast.

How many of you speak decent Mandarin or Cantonese (either by knowing those from birth or from study or grueling effort)?

Please share!

[ Last edited by  frontline at 21-8-2011 03:42 ]

first things first, get one thing clear... this is a business transaction where moneys is exchanged for a service
no different when you go to the barber for a haircut or dry cleaners for clean laundry
in this case, pleasure for $$$

secondly, i'm not a delivery boy, i'm not there on a date, certainly not there to impress anyone in particular
i'm there to get my jolly's off!

the wg chose this line of work for too many reasons to list, but all with a common goal = cash

but i completely understand that you do want an enjoyable session
and to be perfectly honest, there is not real golden formula for this
its pot luck if you find chemistry with the right girl
you'll just have to charm the pants off her

you can be a savior bearing small gifts but nothing beats a great tip

as for dining at different eatery is not wrong, there are no underling terms where you MUST be faithful

good luck and share what works for you

Never really bring presents or gifts, that never crossed my mind, but I guess some would appreciate. On the other hand, as told cookiemonsta, they might be more interested about the tips ... I often left a nice one.
For the idea of cheating on a WG ... well, anyhow I may try to cheat a lot on her, I guess she beats me anytime

But when I think of it, I do some gym to keep my body in good shape. It's my way to offer myself as a tolerable, and even enjoyable for some, customer

I just one with whom I chat and have some sort of ''normal'' relation, and from what she told me, that's better than some guys who ''are not gentle''. But that doesn't change the fact that it is a service prestation in the end. However delightful it may be.

I don't know...., I treat them special, like a girlfriend, and I sure as hell get treated special in return.  Not with walk-ups or HG gals - they have no free time - but with bargirls.  They give their whole day to you - fuck you a number times, join you at the hotel pool making all the other guests go "Fuckin' ell, look at her!!" (and make all the female quests pissed off, hehe), get your drinks for you, run a bath for you, then call up their friends to join you at a club for a wild second nite with a bunch of drunk hookers!!!

Hmmmm, treat them like a barber???  Well, if it works for you bro....  

PS:  yeah I bring gifts to my regulars.  They are girls!  They love it!!  The smiles I get back is reward enough.  (Well, that's a lie.., the ATTENTION I get back is the reward, I suppose..., but seeing their happiness at small pleasures is fun all by itself.

Wander made a good point. They are girls after all... And this business is not like going to the barber, but even my barber I'll chat and be friendly with. These girls get treated like objects all day long I'm sure. When someone comes along with a thoughtful token before the acrion, I would think they would be more inclined to provide better service than without. It's human nature to reciprocate kindness ( in most cases I think) and when you start off the encounter with a smile, some light chat and a lil token, they feel like people  instead of self lubricating sex dolls... That's going to make them more into it. Then a nice tip at the end and they'll remember you.

[ Last edited by  onidragon at 21-8-2011 23:49 ]

i'm only assuming frontline was inquiring about fresh faces
i suppose if i was to repeat with regulars then it would be suggestive
i've never been tempted to 'hang-out' with them the next day
even with overnight punts...
either busy, expecting company or afraid of seeing or be seen by someone i know
your suggestion is very enticing, got me pondering, i wouldn't mind some of that action myself
had to be the right type though...
your punts with bar girls wouldn't work for me, i've given up alcohol a long time ago and have no business there
but kudo's, will be tempted when i find the right one

one question: did you fork out new bathers for her for the pool? don't think they pack overnight bags for work?
or kinky king wander carry's a spare?

Well, I suppose you can hit the bar-scene even without drinking (but I guess you mean you wouldn't have an alibi for being in there??  No matter - NOONE has a credible alibi for being in Escape or Neptune or another WanChai club).

Anyway, if we have an over-niter planned ahead I'll tell her to bring her suit.  On some occassions I have indeed brought the gal shopping for a suit.  And hell - that is fun all by itself!!  I recall having a raging hard-on with one gal as she was trying on the tiniest frickn bikinis and her assets were bulging out all over the place.  Haha.  Damn, she was hot.  Had a blast with the clerk as we sat and critiqued each suit she modeled for us.   

Case in point - I am taking a gal to a beach this week.  We'll spend a few hours playing in the water then let her screw the hell out of me!   

I realize not everyone is at the same stage, or after the same thing.  I've been at this for a while.  I have a plethora or "trophies" already locked in my memory banks.  I don't need just another playmate to suck my dick.  For me to play I seek a much bigger experience with a gal.  And, to my delight, these gals are just craving some extra attention, a break from their routine, and BFE moment.  I am happy to play the role....

Only do walk ups ^^
But I would find a bit strange to do bar girls and the kind of things you do, maybee it will change with time and experiences.
To me the money exchange and the service what defines the relation. That doesn't mean I behave rudely or without any emotions, just that somewhere in my mind I know that I am not dealing with a friend or a girlfriend, it's all a play. It has a cost and some limits.

Actually, even with my favourite if I sometimes ask myself ''would it be reasonnable to ask for her email when I leave this place ?'', the thing is off limit I think. What is happening is that I buy good time, it might be some really nice time, but it still is a service I am buying. That's not something casual, that's not a fuckfriend or any kind of friend. It stops when the clock says so.

Have to fucking go, but that discussion is interesting. I understand your point, I think I might have a macho talk here a bit, but I might probably one the more gentle guy here. It's just that for my own sake I prefer to have strong frontiers.

"but it still is a service I am buying. That's not something casual, that's not a fuckfriend or any kind of friend. It stops when the clock says so."

Bro.., try some bargirls and you'll see what I am talking about.  Their clock IS NOT like a Walkup or HG gal.  They have no manager (usually) and if they do all they care about is getting the weekly payment - not how the gal spends her days.  If you are a nice guy they are more than willing to spend their time with you and will QUICKLY fall into a girlfriend-or-fuck-buddy mode.  I cant count how many phone-numbers and emails I hhave and how manny "goodnite sweetheart"s I've replied too.  

Since I discovered the whole bargirl world in Hong Kong I have not gone back to a Walkup or HG.  Just an entirely different experience, and, for me at least, one that it is much more natural and rewarding.

PS: I don't pay any extra for the extra time (and many more sessions).  Just the regular session fee - they are choosing to spend their free time with me, as I am choosing to spend some free time with them.  I try to make it worth their while, of course.  Anyway, it's fun and I enjoy it - but to each their own!

[ Last edited by  wander at 22-8-2011 22:47 ]

wander, when i'm back in hk, i'm buying you a beer...
at least its my reason to be there
hahaha!!!

i also gave up alcohol a long time ago, but i'd hit the Wanchai bars if i was interested in what they offer. from what i've seen, they're darkened places playing Lady GooGoo at absurd volumes. to each their own:some love these places, and i think wander's explanation says it all!

i don't speak any Chinese, which isn't as much of a prob as the absurd Gwailo Dick Syndrome (GDS). yes, there are laws of physics but i have yet to experience the dreaded GDS from a Thai or VN gal, while i've had PRC gals enact Wagner's Der Ring die Niebelungen (grand melodrama) at the mere thought of penetration...and of course, have had PRC girls who relaxed and enjoyed the hell out of the Dreaded Trouser-Trout.

i think it IS important to be kind to the girls, as many bros have suggested above. yes i do bring fruit often. i tip my barber too.

other stuff varies with language ability and familiarity. i enjoy WGs telling me about other punters. i've had them laughing so hard they can't stand up. my definition of a good time is not # of minutes penis-in-orifice multiplied by # of male orgasms, but whether a good time was had by all. we've all had lousy punts, sometimes girls just aren't into it for whatever reason. it DOES pay to be a gentleman.

the other thing: if you do treat them well, it's often repaid then and there. if u like the gal, she'll be glad to see her again. if u have a monger-pal who u know will treat her well, hook them up: she'll be happy to see another person who will treat her well. you can file this all under "enlightened self-interest" because yes, you get better repeats.

JtB

I have to say it's also convenient to not appear in public with those kind of girls (speaking for the clothes mostly).
Sounds certainly good but I'd rather do that kind of things in a city where I don't work and have no other connections.
I might try it btw, before leaving, just to see.

Sorry OT: hey jack, when you hit these bars, is it customary to pay a bar fine or is it ok to substitute with softies?

No barfines in Hong Kong.  These bars are regular bars, except they charge extra for the lady-drinks (the gals get about half the price of each over-priced drink..., so I dont mind so much knowing half is going to them).  The WGs dont work for the bar....  the whole drink-commission system is "under-the-table" and supposed to be secret - they slyly hand the gal a slip of paper with an IOU written on it and she'll go back the next day with all these slips to collect her cash.   

@Beben:  they dont dress like they are clubbing when you join them for a day's outing.  They dress like regular girls.  Just REALLY hot ones!  Mmmmmmm

do you think they'll take offense if i order softies over alcoholic drinks?
of course i understand i'd be buying the ladies over priced drinks