Subject: Paying money upfront – some advice needed
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Post at 5-7-2011 21:46  Profile P.M. 
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Paying money upfront – some advice needed

Everyone suggesting we have to pay the girl at the end. I pay first before we do anything
I am used to paying in upfront in Europe (this is norm)
What is the best way to do in Hong Kong without upsetting the girl
Some issues I had with the girls how much they ask.  When I see the advert, sometime shows like
$380 for 45 minutes $500 for 60 minutes (full sets)
When I say two hours, they say $2000. I don’t understand what the logic behind it
Is any price difference between local guys and expat guys
Any help highly appreciated
Thank you

[ Last edited by  Alexander18 at 5-7-2011 21:47 ]
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Reply #1 Alexander18's post

  Hooker Math is always entertaining!  Pitching out $2,000/2hours when her rate is $500/60 minutes is justbasic market haggling.  She probably didn't even realize that the numbers didn't add up, she was just starting highwith a random number, assuming you would haggle her down.  Don't disappoint the lady . . . haggle!

First off, you can pay at the end, the girls are used to it.  If she asks for it upfront just smile your charming best smile and say 'at the end' and maybe hint at a tip if she's really, really good.  The alternative is to go half and half, but if she's that uptight about it you might be better off walking away.  




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Reply #2 TheButler's post

Thank you for the advice. I will try next time
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Reply #1 Alexander18's post

Haggling is the cultural norm among chinese people. worst is the seller always say no.  There is no downside, only upside
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Post at 7-7-2011 12:21  Profile P.M. 
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Are you Caucasian?  There is sometimes a built in premium.  If you are a youngster then there is probable concern that the bro will literally run out the door right after the deed without paying.




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Post at 7-7-2011 18:53  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 Alexander18's post

No need to haggle

Do the deed - pay the 380 (or 400, maybe plus tip) then ask if you can do a second round ... she'll be VERY impressed!




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Reply #5 bohica's post

I am 45 Years old and I look bit stranger in Hong Kong.
When I knock the door, the girls bit reluctant to see me.  Sometimes, girls shut the door saying no
However, once they seen me once and the following visits, girls are very happy to see me and all over me.

[ Last edited by  Alexander18 at 7-7-2011 20:17 ]
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Reply #7 Alexander18's post

You are 45? I don't get the relationship between age & reluctance of a girl to see you, what gives? If you were 75 maybe but 45?

Back on topic, just put the $$ where she can see it on a bench/table, that way both of you are happy.
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Reply #7 Alexander18's post

Doesn't seem that unusual. Realize you are a total stranger to them and many girls are shy. Like any relationship it takes some time together to get comfortable and warm up.
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Reply #8 halfclover's post

May be I smile too much .. they think i am a nutter !!

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