Originally posted by HeMan at 3-1-2008 12:00
okay, i can understand the need to run as fast as you can from this,
but has anyone considered that her "i love you" might not mean strong emotional attachment to the extreme of wanting to ...
Could be
I have many good friends with benifits
We all often say that at special times like persent exchanges
but not planing on leaving their husbands (the few that are married)
just we are great close friends (that also fu*k)
we are all very clear about our situation
and what will or will not happen in the future
we know what we mean by "I love you"
as best friends that do it
nothing more
if it looks like it means more we talk about it
snap back to reality
only had one i had to get rid of after the Talk
but i do agree with the other side
and what most of you say
i am just so very clear in the begining
that as the friendship grows they know i keep one foot out the door ready to go if they
dont stay withing agreed real of lust ver. love and friendship
so far so good
hope it stays thay way
but have seen the cluster fu*k's that can happen
