Have you guys heard of Singaporean and HK girls saying what they want in a man? I order for a guy to qualify to be her bf, the guy has to have 5 C's.

Cash
Car
Condominium
Career
Credit Card

Sounds like the average big city gals are gold diggers when it comes to getting a man? WHatever happened to KINDNESS, CARING, and most importantly LOVE???

So I think we guys can come up with our own list in response to that 5 C list above.

THis is the guy's B List

Beautiful face
Breasts
Bum
Body
Blowjob

That will make a man happy!


[ Last edited by  tshirt at 17-2-2011 19:00 ]

Oh well, that's the world we live in now, girls react to $$$ like we do with a nice pair of Ds...

Lol, if those were the only requirements, I'd breath out a sigh of relief. Too many girls I meet these days want all that plus for you to be there all the damn time holding their shopping bags. The worst in my opinion are the ones that already have money and have the mentality of "my money is my money, but your money is our money".

As said above if it was only the 5 C's. I would be bathed in chicks.

For me it has always been time. This is the one thing I cannot offer a woman and I suffer for it. If I had more time to go out and have fun my personal life would not be in shambles, even when a girl is interested I simply cannot make time to see her. One example was recent, a girl wanted to go out with me, took me 3 weeks to find time than i had to cancel last minute. I have not talked to her since and I doubt she would want to talk to me.

So it's the T that I think most girls really want beyond the C's:

Time

If you have all the 5 C's, then I wonder why you can't fix your time with it?

If it's because of your family, send them for a tour to in Caribbean.

If it's work, delegate!  Get a topnotch manager to handle your affairs in your absence, and if there's any critical decision making is needed, you can always be reached by mobile phone.

Let us know what's the reason that even with the 5C's you're claiming you have still can't buy you time to have fun.

How about the 7 F's

Find them
French them
Feel them
Finger them
Fuck them
Forget them
Forever

or

Find
flirt
fondle
finger
fuck
forget

find a new one.   

With these requirements, it looks like I'm SOL!  There goes my plans of heading to HK to find my future bride, lol!

It sucks that there are so many shallow, gold-digging girls, but we've gotta be honest and admit that we guys are pretty damn shallow ourselves.  But instead of material possession that we'd like the girl to have, our requirements are based more on the physical.  It's no surprise that the OP's list of "B" requirements guys should have for girls consist mainly of physical attributes.

This may be the general perception, but I certainly know more than a few female HK friends who seek real love and not necessarily the 5C which is more like a luxury than a necessity in keeping the love alive.

Of course guys also want to find a bride who can contribute in reaching these goals. A couple gets married can pay off a home mortgage faster than only if the husband does it. It's more like a tag team, making things happen with the cooperation of the two.

These are usually the qualities of those party type gals with make up. But in HK especially, even those girls from medium wealth family will prefer 5C + Love.

Remember, most girls will marry up the social and financial ladder. If a man is seen as successful, capable, wealthy, it gives him bonus points.

See how Chris ROck puts it, heheh :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lPesKyIhGZg

I think the last C should be for Charisma.  Credit card and Cash is the same thing.

I dunno. I still think the 5Cs are essential whichever way you slice it.

If a girl is poor, she definitely wants the 5Cs above all else. If she is rich, she can't respect a guy unless he is at least reasonably well off in the 5Cs.

Sure, once they get to around late 20s onward they have to start lowering their sights to avoid getting left on the shelf, but they're still looking to maximise the 5Cs.

It's not usually as simple as rich guy, zero feel and vice versa. So I would imagine girls would definitely go with a rich guy with so-so feelings, rather than a working class guy (say earning <20k) who they love.

Way I see it is that real love is just the icing on the cake for girls. Not much use if the cake itself is insubstantial.

Ah the deteriorating state of humanity into a pit of greed. How far we have fallen

Fallen?
I'm under the assumption that man has been flawed since creation.

It is because of the 5C's that I don't have the time.

I'm not wealthy enough to say screw it and stop working, maybe one day but that's years into the future. Right now I have to work hard to earn every penny to keep what I have. I might be able to fly first class and enjoy a comfortable life but if I was to stop working for a year I'd be in the poor house or close to it. This whole financial meltdown have also put a real damper on my investments in Asia and my property in the US took a heavy dive too.

I'm sure some of of my fellow forum member can understand as we have all lost quite a bit in the past few years. Shit on one property alone I lost over $300,000 USD in value, recovering from that is going to be hard. I'm still positive but damn if it doesn't hurt from having $500,000 USD in equity to borrow against for other investments down to having only $200,000 USD in equity, I leverage it for one deal and I'm all tapped out of investment equity.

It's credit card. Back in the old days, owning a Gold Card was a big thing. Hell, now everyone has one, lol.

flawed and continue to decline
Comparative to our views of love, embodied in the songs and poems we have written in ages past, our current stance on relationships are shocking

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