There's a girl I used to see in jordan who offered fs and knew i would take that, but would not shower with me in the beginning, only at the end. I would shower by myself, and then i would have the long massage on the massage table. Then eventually her kit would come off, and i would get the body massage, and eventually we would have sex. Then we would shower together with lots of kisses and cuddles. Several times i tried to convince her to shower with me in the beginning but several times she declined. This frustrated me to no end.