cyleman
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Post at 8-10-2010 05:48  Profile P.M. 
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I've got a real problem

Have become addicted to this forum.  I have so much work to do, but am much more interested in screwing around on here!  How do I stop???

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kaka   8-10-2010 21:30  Acceptance  +1   no need to stop.
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Post at 8-10-2010 07:55  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 cyleman's post

Best thing to do to get away from this Forum is go on a holiday and not bring along your computer. If you've got lots of work to do, then make sure you finish all your work first before logging on and then spend no more than 10 mins skimming through the threads. Do not post then go to sleep.
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Post at 8-10-2010 09:22  Profile P.M. 
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Good advice, but

I can't seem to stop.  I keep doing a bit of work, then coming back here!!!   I think maybe I will have to close all my browser windows!
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Post at 8-10-2010 09:46  Profile P.M.  QQ Yahoo!
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go out and visit some of the WG's and you may be able to concentrate on work for a while
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Reply #4 catmando56's post

Yes its kinda like a drug. You will need your daily fix to get back into the right state of mind to do work.
I have the same problem
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Reply #4 catmando56's post

Advising the OP to visit wgs may not work in his case as it will backfire.  Once he is finished with the wgs, he will want to share his exploits (in a long and detailed post - time wasting) with the bros as soon as he gets access to a computer.  It is almost like throwing petrol onto a fire.  
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Post at 8-10-2010 10:59  Profile P.M. 
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by cyleman at 8-10-2010 09:22
I can't seem to stop.  I keep doing a bit of work, then coming back here!!!   I think maybe I will have to close all my browser windows!

You clearly do have an addiction.

Nothing wrong with an addiction as such.  Addictions are a lot of fun.  As long as it's supporting your career and your quality of life in general it's OK.  

But if it is affecting your work and career you have to fix it.  
WARNING:  IF YOU DO NOT TAKE CONTROL OVER YOUR BEHAVIOR YOU WILL CONTINUE YOUR DOWNWARD SLIDE, which means potentially losing your job, your money, and losing your ability to enjoy your hobby in the first place.
Accept you are out of control, and fix it.  

First:  try setting yourself clear limits, and stick to them.  For example you can allow yourself access to the site as a reward for completing a deliverable.  That way at least you can go on having fun and maybe even become more productive at work.  Win / win.  Keep your job and your addiction.  

But:  if that fails (and if you are really out of control it might fail) get professional help.  Counselling (if you can afford paid sex you can afford a counsellor), or group therapy.  

Summary
You have to take a leaf out of the Alcoholics Anonymous workbook.  That means ACCEPTING AND OWNING YOU ARE OUT OF CONTROL, AND THE WEBSITE IS CONTROLLING YOU.  
Only then can you possibly move forward.  
Find someone else in the same situation, and work with them to help them break their habit - on a tit-for-tat basis.  You cure them they cure you.  
And best of all sign up for professional help.  It's out there, find it.  Soon.




Hear Ye!  The Mayor has spoken!
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Post at 8-10-2010 13:33  Profile P.M. 
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Put down the mouse, select hottest wg you have close to where you live.  Bang like crazy.  Repeat until complete.
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Post at 8-10-2010 14:32  Profile P.M. 
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yeah I agree, just bang it out, you will be so exhausted you will need a break from the forum.
or better yet, you keep banging at it and your budget is blown so you need to stop haha
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Post at 8-10-2010 16:23  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #3 cyleman's post

HoooKaaayyyy..... If you're really serious .... about curing your addiction.  Me=thinks me's got the perfect cure for you.

Start out with writing some more irrelevant posts, graduate to defending the irrelevance, then get all pissy and offensive and start name calling anybody who's challenging you and then elevate it all b using foul language.

Guarantee you - somewhere along the line you're gonna be cured off your addiction - or be forced off of it!!

Just a li'l suggestion!!

SEAJ

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DArtagnan   11-10-2010 10:20  Acceptance  +3   LOL!!
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Post at 8-10-2010 20:41  Profile P.M. 
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Why don't the mods just ban you? Go cold turkey.

Do you mean while at work you can't stay away? If so then tell the IT dept to block the site.
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Post at 9-10-2010 06:04  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #4 catmando56's post

That, my friend, is clearly the answer.  Stop living in the virtual world and go do what drives this interest in the first place!

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SEAJ   9-10-2010 10:02  Karma  +1   await eagerly ur report!
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Post at 9-10-2010 22:40  Profile P.M. 
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just don't get close to computer and have more social life, interact with more people and know more different girls than you will get less addictive.

But please still remember to let us know if you see any good looking and hot one though.
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