Disclaimer:  This post is for newbies that have limited mongering experience.  The experts out there already know what they fucking want and how to get it, therefore, they have no need to read this post.  However, they're free to read, and comment if they like.  I did not post this with the intention of offending anybody.  

I wanted to start a discussion on past experiences for guys, in terms of getting good service.

Since coming to Asia, I must admit I have yet to have any true Starfish girls.  The ones that lay there not making a noise looking away from you.  I've experienced this with white bitches in Canada, but have yet to experience in Asia.  

I think I'm starting to come up with a really good technique, in at least getting the girl to be somewhat interactive.

My best example is the model I chose from 18.

This girl could be in Playboy, she would be a headturner anywhere in the world no matter where she was.  She entered the room, and just seemed stuck up, and from her manneurisms, I can tell she's normally a bitch to customers.  Don't get me wrong, she was a bitch, in terms of some aspects of service (will explain in detail upon writing up a full report), but she was being very interactive with many other aspects of the service at the same time.

Here are some hints or tips, that I've found successful.

1) lots of smiling
2) lots of compliments (make her feel like she really is something special.  When it comes down to it, she is a woman, and all women want to feel special in someway to a man, even if it's only for an hour)
3) A little bit of consideration goes a long way. (after showering me and herself, she comes into the room, and me having been showered first noticed the room, was incredibly cold.  As soon as she came out I had a towel ready to wrap around her and rubbed her gently on her back.  This brought a big smile to her face, and much warmer body language.  

In the end, although she did want to do alot of lying on her back, she did give me alot of eye contact, smiles and compliments, and was overall quite sweet to me, even going as far as saying I was too nice and good-looking to not have a g/f...LOL

Hopefully some of you fellow brothers, will heed some of my advice and have similar experiences as well.

p.s. I suppose it does help that I'm still quite young looking, and I'm reasonably attractive, but I think that my technique can be applied by anybody

[ Last edited by  wayno1979 at 12-9-2007 15:22 ]

Good points and info.


But still back to business:
Before the session........give $$$$ (tips)......and tell her you will give more tips if she perform better.

But then of cos, if we can;t afford to give so much tips, then wayno1979 gists might be worthwhile

you make many old man turn green with envy

Wow, wayno1979, you're a really clever guy. Smile a lot, pay compliments, be considerate and the girls will like you more. That's
amazing - who would have thought it? Tell me, how did you behave before you discovered these pearls of wisdom? Maybe you
should write a book. I'm really glad I joined 141 so that I can learn all this interesting and useful stuff.

C'mon wayno1979, please tell us more. I mean, do you think the girls will like me more if I don't have scabs on my dick, wash my
hair and take a bath more than once a month and start to clean my teeth. I'm thinking that maybe my foul body odour and stinky
breath are putting them off. But what do I know? You're the expert, pleased advise me.

Wayno1979, do you think we're all ignorant, low-life morons?

                    

Hunter I never give tips before the session....... it does not earn you anything in regards to better service infact it dampens better service as she has the mooola in her hand a lot of these girls business is based on having one man one time then they go on to do 1,000 who cares so what Wayno has said has more meaning.  Always compliment the ladies! Women like to feel they are pretty and the best!! This gets you much better performance.  Praise a woman as to how good she loks in a genuine tone she will respond with genuine affection. Tipping after the session always gets her saliva going for the second meeting you may have already planned.  If the woman is good and you plan to see her again for sure keep her brain alive with a good tip.  See the performance improve fat the second session.

Let's all of us starts to Compliment the gal from now onward.......and hope we get the return....

But then, it might be useful for Flat gals (local) for retry. For those hotel gal, they come and go, not expecting u for retry. All they want is fast $$$$$.

So, I usually starts with 5 mins conversation and try to make jokes/laugh with the gal, get into friendly mood.
Then back business........I wil tell them "perform well, tips well" !!!
It works for me...........

But now that I learn a new thing....."Compliment" to get good bang !!!

[ Last edited by  hunter at 12-9-2007 10:15 ]

Hilarious reply Jake (yeh, maybe I should trim those nose hairs - do you think it turns the girls off when they catch in my teeth?)

Look wayno1979, I like women, and in no why do I look down on the girls who choose this line of work - in fact, I'm genuinely grateful. I want these wonderful creatures to all love me - really.  But I doubt very much that your well-intentioned advice is necessary for anyone who uses this forum.  

And it would also seem that your advice is a bit cynical, as the point of all this kindness seems not to make the poor girl feel better about selling her body to perhaps someone not as young-looking and reasonably attractive as yourself, but to get 'good service'; in other words, a more heartfelt BJ. Am I right on this? A few warm towels equals a couple of more minutes of deep throat as she stares lovingly into your eyes?

That said, don't let the sarcasm get you down. To few contribute to these forums. And I liked your post on the Macau sauna.

Hunter, I can't believe you didn't know that. Every girl-child, woman, mother and grandmother in the world loves compliments.
And the more outrageous, the better. If a woman tells me I look great, I take it with a pinch of salt. Tell a woman she's
absolutely beautiful and she'll lap it up. No exceptions.     

And I agree with TrickyD7 - I never give money up front. Tip them at the end and, when you leave, they'll have a smile on
their face and they'll want to see you again.   

Wow.  Really didn't think I would offend someone like this, but hey.  Didn't mean to whatsoever.  No I don't think you're low-life morons.  Just trying to express opinions.  This a forum, for opinion expression.

Again, if I offend, please don't interpret any posts in-correctly, as I'm not trying to offend anybody.

Of course, when I do try to offend, I'll make it blatantly obvious.  So let's quit the flaming, and continue the exchange of information.

Agreed?

I agree with everything you've got to say Marsupial.  I'm aware though that there are alot of newbies out there that need some advice.  I was once a newbie, and I would have killed for a forum like this to learn from.  

Happy hunting to all.

ignore Jake;

he's pulling your leg

Hey Wayno1979.  Sorry for the sarcasm - it's in my nature. But I certainly didn't take offense at your post, and I agree whole-heartedly that these girls should be treated with respect and affection. But see what happens when you're too nice, they follow you to restaurants.

Please continue to post. Your two reviews in the Reports section did not go unnoticed earning you a lot of good Karma from whichever God is concerned with punting - I forget his name, starts with a d.

And, your right about this site being a great resource.

[ Last edited by  Marsupial at 12-9-2007 14:38 ]

Jake,

Allow me to extend the olive branch.  I'm a nice guy, that really doesn't like conflict of any kind.

I've placed a disclaimer at the top.  Does it meet your approval?

If you ever make it out to Toronto,  please let me know.   Beers are on me!!!

Wayno

Dear Newbies,

Good contributions!!!!!!!

Bout Jake's sarcasm, no worry.......you will get from him since your are newbie. you are not the first one....they dun call him Jake the Snake for nothing.  It is just the way he says "thank you for posting".


P/S:
I better stop my habit of paying upfront/tips......cos earlier back before coming back to HK, those service provider in other countries request upfront.
Seems that here in HK, these gals are more reasonable.........

Never pay upfront including tips!

Go with the flow and do respect the girl because she is offering services to help her needs?. You on the other hand are to feed your needs!

If she likes you then she will offer more than other punters hence the variation of reports?.

Pay the price as advertised and tip accordingly to how you rate the service?

Leave and post report!!!

Her giving you their own telephone no.? Enjoy it!!!!

OK bro, no problem. I'm sure you're a nice guy that means well. I just tend to blow my top occasionally and was a bit crabby
after going a week without my 141 fix. Fortunately, I had a great shag today so I'm in a mellow mood again. And you may not
have noticed but, behind all the sarcasm, I was actually agreeing with everything you said. And I proved it again today:
smiling + compliments + consideration = a great fuck. Oh yeah, at my age I should  add a '+ V' into that equation.
  

PS. Sorry guys, too late to do my report now - will do it tomorrow. :

It's great when we can all express our views openly. Bro. Wayno probably does not realize that a lot of us are pretty "mature". (ok, sorry, I didn't want to say old ) We all believe in treating the ladies right and in getting good service. I am envious that bro. Jake is still getting all the good sex that I am dreaming of.

we all learn to grow old gracefully

if I am going to doing another poll on the age, I bet the median would be 40

Will you guys stop using the word o_d     I prefer 'experienced'

Shag a teenager once a week - I never feel o_d.   

What a wonderful life.