Am I alone in thinking this? Is anyone else in a relationship but also going with the occasional 141 girl for some light relief (say, when you're away from your partner)?

Is it cheating? Obviously it is, but is it proper cheating or just the sexual equivalent of a sneaky McDonalds? At least with a 141 girl there's nothing emotional, no worries that the girl will try to call you up the next day and you'll have to cover it up from your girlfriend. I guess there's the small worry of STDs...

Yeh, so basically.. how badly is it considered cheating? Do any of you do it? Is it any worse than having a Big Mac before going out to a nice restaurant for dinner?

So far I'm thinking as long as it's just sexual, it's better to satisfy myself with a 141 girl than another girl. Not all the time, just when I'm by myself and it's that or wanking/celibacy. As long as it's all hush hush. I'm always a little worried about getting an STD, but no itching or strange growths so far, fingers crossed.

Giving your gf the clap through a 141 would suck though

Yeah..that's cheating....

But some of us here are even married...just dont get emotionally involved and observed safe sex...and avoid comparing your partner to those 141...it's totally different worlds..

just remember that after sex with your partner, not to pay her

If you are married you are already paying through the nose to keep her.

Or say, 'remember last week when you let me do anal for an extra $50?'... Keep life and sex separate!!!!

I seem to be one of the few people around who doesn't have a mainland Chinese mistress... so it might be the lesser evil. Just err, hide the condoms and clear your phone logs.

And it's always fun to have a MicroSD card hidden in your wallet, with an encrypted backup of all your phone numbers or whatever, so you feel like a spy. Heck, I'm thinking of sticking a MicroSD card in my shoes and pants, just for fun. It's a great way to add excitement to otherwise dull airport security checks.

I use a separate pay-as-you-go SIM card for my MILFs. Everytime you swap SIMs the call list is cleared. They know not to call me, I call them.

I must be one of the rarer ones who's wife actually knows I go off and visit these girls now and again.

2 of my ex cheated on me.... so to it cheating is like nothin' mate.

even if I have a gf... if I dun cheat on her I wouldn't know she won't cheat on me

so most important is enjoy life.......

Anyway I am new here hi ya everyone.....

only clever men cheat ..... Lol

not clever men, but wise men

What happened to all the young (or even old) single guys who doesn't have to "pay through the nose" and just enjoy 141s whenever he wants?

yes, sulasno, you are right..
the more we cheat, the more wiser we become and the more the women love us..hehe.

Yes, its cheating, yet at the same time there is not an attachment being formed.  I think it would

Not getting caught is probably the key. As long as the partner doesn't know, everyone is happy. You may not have to be wealthy to cheat, but you have to have some money to be a frequent flier of 141.

yes, the golden formula is to cheat without getting caught and it will be a win win situation. I guess now we know where to use our pocket money..hehe..  It is still cheaper than playing golf and the 19 th hole is always the best one..

Macdonalds? Big Mac before dinner!!??? How big are you dood???!!! hehehehehhe
Just kiddin'!
Ask your heart if its cheating or not. If your hearing a littel voice in your head, maybe it just means your not with the right woman.
WHenever i have had a gf who matched well in bed, i lost all feelings for 141s. When the girl was cold fishy, i knew it woudl end, and back to 141 i go.
But thats just me.

Lol what kind of topic is this?  Of course it's cheating.  Are you looking for support on your habits?   You should keep this privately to yourself.

It is only cheating if you get caught, otherwise, always deny that you even looked at other women with your SO.  Remember, when you vehemently tell a lie, you'll start to believe it yourself.

hmmm....................
maybe should suggest the 141 offer some sort of loyalty programs and accumulated points give you ehhh............ certain benefits