I don't mean with WG, just sex in general.

For the first 6 months, I very rarely spent a night with my girlfriend without at least one session, whether it be oral or full on.

Now it's past the 2.5 year mark and... I can't remember the last time we had good sex, and it only happens like once every 2 weeks.  

And it's not like she's not putting out or I don't think she's hot.  She's far better looking and toned, young than any WG I've seen so far, and she's often asking for sex, even oral.

But alas, I just have little to no interest...
And we're not even married, hahaha

So is anyone else in a situation where their SO is still hot and horny, but you just have no interest?

Only 2.5 years? Wait till you reach 25!

But yes, we males are programmed to seek variety, and that's
why the world's oldest profession still flourishes even, or
especially, in societies that ostensibly prize family values.

Not to mention swinging, or wife swapping, of which I have
never understood the attraction.


Is that oral for her or for you?

relationships become stale over time unless you decide to change it up
over time, you'll become accustom to one another and get to know each other inside and out
the spontaneity diminishes and no longer yearn to explore as you've already conquered
sex has become a chore and lacks flavor to keep you motivated, craving for more

there are many fixes for this
-change partners; wg, swingers etc...

or spice up your experiences
-cosplay
-role play / fantasies
-toys
-3p?
-s&m
-sex in public, shower, office, taxi
-food (whipped cream, honey, chocolate spread, peanut butter...)

whatever the solution, it needs to keep you wanting more
to me, it sounds like its no longer an intmacy issue, but simply craving to keep in interested in the bedroom

in the beginning, i blamed it on long hours at work, stressed out and energy zapped outta me
but we tried different things and eventually founds a few things that worked
so happy days!

No way.  In my LTR whenever the girl was ready so was I.  It's wonderful to have a SO who wants to blow you morning, noon and night and I've never, ever gotten tired of it.  

I'm on the opposite side of the coin. It seems the older I get the more I want sex. I now have a libido  the size of Jupiter, while my wife seems to have one the size of a peanut now! They say guys are at thier sexual peak around 18 or 19... I'm 37 now and I'm 10X more horny than I was at 18. I really think it an individual thing. Some ppl losw it with age, other gain it. Men and women.

perhaps you're one of the extremities from the bell curve
its normal for a declining appetite for sexual activities as you grow older
quite the opposite in your case, but then again, you don't exactly scream old at 37

Well, I certainly don't FEEL old... Yet! But yeah, I think it's not common to have a rise in sexual apetite as we frow older. But with all the hot WGs in HK I should be good even if the misus doesn't put oit enough.

Definitely my sexual appetite has gone up, but along with that though, my bed time has become earlier and earlier, so by the time the missus and I go to bed, I'm already half asleep, which makes it hard for me to get a boner. The only way to get around this is early morning or mid-day sex, but who has time for that anyway?

It's not your job to get a boner, it's her job to give you one!  And it don't matter if you're dead asleep, a girl can easily arouse a weiner and make it do her bidding!

There has been a couple of times like that when I was with my ex. The first 18 months we were at it like rabbits! And she was the same, better than any WG I have seen. But it got boring, we talked and spiced it up! I am not gonna say how but I am sure you can imagine.

I think every couple goes through it sooner or later, you just need to talk about it and see what can be done. That is not the reason we broke up BTW. But it is the best sex I have ever had with a SO.

Yes it is hard to have an open conversation about sex.  It's ingrained in us from an early age that this is something you don't talk about, but breaking through and being able to talk about the nitty gritty details with your girl is very empowering.