Man, had a potential disaster on my hands.

I was with my SO for dinner at a new resto.  I sit down but my SO heads to the girls-room.  And then walks over our waitress:  A former WG I punted with about 6 months ago, named Liza.  We hit it off back then and I saw her a few times.  She told me at the time she was going to stop this work and get a "real" job.  Seems she did just that!

My heart-rate bumped up a gear or two.  She had still not actually looked up at me directly, how would she react?  Would my SO come out just exactly at that moment when Liza reaches me, recognizes me, and maybe jumps into some kind of too-personal greeting?  I was trapped!

She got to the table and looked at me and immediately smiled....... I smiled but shook my head very slowly back and forth as if to mentally project the words "not now!!, Red Alert!" to her.  

3 years past (okay, maybe 3 seconds) and then she crossed the remaining couple feet and asked me what I wanted to drink.  I said I would "wait for my girlfriend first".  And I saw her smile and nod slightly.  She got it now!

She left, my SO came out and sat, and shortly thereafter a different waitress served us as I saw Liza busy with another table.  

Ahhhhhhhhhhhh.  Release breath.

I still had her # so txt'd her later on apologizing and thanking her for being so cool.  She understood (and was glad I didn't expose her past either!)

Man.  I indeed have buried land-mines all over Hong Kong!  Only these land mines move around at will!!

wow close call.

I think most WGs would be smart enough to keep quiet if they bump into one of their clients out in public. Maybe a simple nod of acknowledgment at most.?

You are lucky both the waitress and you have something to lose. Her : her job as I don't think 'worked as wg' was in her cv when she applied for the waitressing job. You : your SO for learning you visit wgs while dating SO.

Knowing you, did you arrange a tryst with Liza to laugh what happened in the resto and to relive old times?

Damn, Doghead... You know me too well!  

But she started it!  She said those words "I miss you" so I had to reply "me too, why not meet?".  So, yes, later this week we'll be catching up.  Haha.

And yeah, Smokey, most WG's want no part of any bad scene with an SO.  What worried me was that she did not know my SO was there - that I looked "solo" at the moment she would greet me.  That spooked the hell out of me.

BTW:  I confess that I DID have that prideful moment as I watched her that nite (out of the corner of my eye, of course) - looling at her sexy ass as she walked away and thinking "Damn, I've done lots of great things with that hottie!". Even then.., the fond memories came through.

[ Last edited by  wander at 14-3-2011 13:24 ]

You have, in one brief moment, experienced the reason that most of us are here. We are paying for the discretion, variety, and ease of access. In that order. This girl knew exactly what to do when she saw you. I can't speak for everyone, but this is why I keep my involvements  on an arms length basis and I'm happy to pay for it.

keep on mongering

One thing you should mention is where (which country)  this took place ....

Last sentence, Bro.  Happened here in HK on the weekend.

lol, just wondering if any bros have actually been caught by their wives or gfs?!?!?

I sort of got caught before. I was at festival walk with my SO and she har to use the bathroom, so I was waiting for her outside. A WG that was my regular waved hi probably thinking I was alone. I almost shit my pants. But I said waved hi anyway being courteous hoping she wouldn't come over. Well you can guess what happened she came over hugged my arm and told me she was happy to see me. It's he day off. Before I could tell her my SO would be coming out of the bathroom any scone now, lo and behold I see her walking out. My SO saw the WG and I thought I'm dead. No hope. The WG let go of my arm when she sensed that the woman fuming at her was most probably my SO. anyway I survived by introducing the WG to my SO as my ex gf. Thankfully I thought fast on my feet seein the WG was wearing a ring on her 3rd finger onher left hand. So I told my SO she bumped into me and And was just telling me how she just got engagEd!! Haha my SO bought it and her killing mood changed and congratulated her. And we left. I messaged the WG after and we laughed about he clos call. Met up for a session the next day haha

Okay, so this is another entry in TonyToro's excuses thread he once created.  Quick on your feet.  I would have been shitting bricks.  

Normally I hate holding purses/bags for chicks as it makes me look like a whipped loser, but I guess in a situation where a guy has to wait for the SO to go to the toilet, it would not hurt for just this one time to hold her purse/bag.    A street smart WG would have seen the purse in your hands and stayed away.  

wow another risky maneuver!  Intro as a ex can cause more questions than answers!  Glad it worked out for you bro

Wow indeed!  

That was exactly the situation I feared - the SO coming out just as the WG embraces me...  Close one, Bro, but nicely handled!!

Haha Ty Ty. But I was just lucky.... Or is it unlucky hahaha. I figured if my SO thought my 'ex' is engaged sh won't take her as that much of a threat. Haha.

Anyone else have any other close calls. I nEed to stock up on excuses just in case.

Hi,

This is exacly why I punt 6000 miles from home....

you are lucky, perhaps too much.....

Are you sur of your SO ? No other man in her life?

Man - yes, we can joke around on this board - but IMHO, that statement of yours about other's SO is quite a bit below the belt.

I for one do NOT appreciate it.

SEAJ

What do you expect, he's French, just kidding!

haha yes i'm lucky, i admit

but ya buddy, lets stay away from cracking jokes about our SO.

I had my own awkward situation.  This happened several years ago when I was strolling with family in an amusement park, then the kids decided they want to buy some shawarma, so we proceed to the stall to order, lo and behold, the girl standing at the back of the cashier was my regular (at a now defunct massage parlor - Emerald).  I later found out that her brother is the owner of the food stand.  Luckily, she noticed that I'm with my wife and kids, so she just smiled and gave me a wink when she saw that their attention were on the food.  Needless to say, I visited her the following day....

To Wander, Stomachache, and Disktroyer:

Interesting outcomes from all the above close calls...all the bros made an appointment or met up with their regular wg very soon after. No one swore off never to see their regulars again.

May I ask, was the sex with your regular wgs even more intense/GFE after these wgs got to see your SO's?

[ Last edited by  doghead at 16-3-2011 17:04 ]