Have you ever been on a punt, and something happens that completely takes away the whole mood?  What little things can quickly turn a good session into something quite uncomfortable?

I mean there's some things that take away from the mood, like when girls suddenly ask if you have a girlfriend, or are married (seriously, I'm there to forget about my SO, not think about her) but there must be something that really turns you off.

For me it's this:

You're having a shower with a girl.  She's cleaning you, feeling you, rubbing her body against you.Little brother is bound to respond, right?  Sometimes you even get a bit of BJ action right there inthe shower.  

The girl gives you a towel, and says "wait for me outside".

By this time, you're really up for anything, and you hear a sound coming from the bathroom...

The trickle of urine

I hate hearing girls urinating before sex.  Not just that, one or two have even sat down on the toilet and had a wee right in front of me

It just completely ruins the mood for me.  Maybe I'm just too sensitive, but it turns my stomach a little.  I used to think that girls coughing up phlegm like old Chinese men was the biggest turnoff... but, no, it's the sound or sight of a girl urinating before sex

So, bros, is there anything that is likely to scare your little brother?

[ Last edited by  princeandnpg at 17-3-2011 04:25 ]

well, a lot of experiences. some below:

- called escort and as she reached, I realized not my type. Imediate turn off, started 69 but I sent her back after 5 minutes.

- picked WG european bar who robed me for 450 euro by ordering champagne. then in hotel room, she wanted me to wear condom before I had erection. Big turn off and she was drunk. Had to send back

- picked WG from european bar, agreed conditions (asked if shaved etc), as we reach hotel I find she has hair on pussy. And she says "surprise". Not exactly, finished in 15 min and sent her back

- called escort, came on time but didnot want to kiss, did not want me rub face on account I had rough shave as shave was 12 hr old and did not want me finger and so on........had customary sex and asked her to go...........

life is tough -

Urinating before a session is her being thoughtful on her part. She doesn't know how long you will last. I had gfs stop the sex in the middle of the action to run to the bathroom to pee. It could have been worse if she peed literally next to you as you two shared the shower stall.

I never been turned-off from sex as I am dodgy enough of a guy myself, but I have hesitated a bit when I suspect the bed sheets are unchanged from the girl's last session (solution - shag on clean parts of sheets).

Not sure if a lot will share your sentiment but I'd go with doghead. Urinating before sex helps the gal feel more comfortable and if I prevent her from doing so could be inconvenient and I'll pay the price later..

I'm not saying that she shouldn't urinate... I'm saying that my little bro gets turned off by the sound... and especially the sight of her doing it.

I don't know why.

Perhaps it's because in most walkup 141 rooms, the shower is right there in the room, and there's no privacy.  I probably wouldn'teven notice if a hotel girl went to the bathroom at the start of a sesh, but in 141 rooms it just feels weird having the girl sitting there, almost in front of you, and then coughing up a load of spit before the start of the action.

This doesn't happen all the time, but it's just a surprise turnoff for me.

Mmm...this is the first time I have read of psychological fears/phobias affecting the little head.   Well like it is always said, we men are led by our little head. Good or bad.

In most treatments of psychological fears/phobias, the patient is slowly exposed and immersed in close contact with the object or situation of their phobias until the patient can become comfortable enough to lead a normal life like is done for fear of spiders, heights, flying, etc.

So for you I suggest a treatment of multiple visits to walkups 141 where you only stay in the bathroom/showers for the entire session. Eventually besides the showering and shagging, you will get used to someone peeing/taking a dump close to you as well learn to take your own piss while she is just standing steps from you.

The bed itself is only to be used as a place to put your clothes as the bed wont be used. It is better this way as there are never enough hangers to hang clothes anyway.

For me a big turn off is stank breath. First of all it smells, enough said. Second I don't know WHY it smells, haha. I usually bring a small bottle of listerine everywhere I go just in case. Good for me, good for her. I'm sure it doesn't sound like that big of a turnoff but for me, when I get into it I like to get close the the girl's face.

I have a slight pee fetish. I LOVE IT when they pee next to me. Its such a huge turn on. But not on me or golden shower though.

I remember at the Mayflower my bladder was close to bursting after all the drinking games. So was my girl. We both made it to the toilet entrance at the same time, looked at each other, laughed, went in together and locked the door. She sat down and peed, I stood on bended knees right in front of her and peed between her thighs, and we shared a DFK that went on and on and on... Almost decided to do a bj there and then if not for all the other guys and girls banging on the door wanting to pee too...

Not quite sure if "not my type" is considered a pet peeve or surprise turn off...

For me, it's when they talk about their real life troubles or issues. Punting is a bit of an escape and when a WG starts talking about real problems before sex, it makes me feel shitty for punting instead of finding the cure for cancer.

Prince bro, I take it you haven't seen this thread?
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=24954

Thai girl was going all CG on me and she turned her head and did a one nostril booger shot onto the bed. Later she blew her nose on the bed sheets. Little hard to maintain wood during all that.

It's only a little pee. One time, I'm at a walk-up and have finished up in the shower and waiting on the bed. The shower door is still open, so I can see the girl showering herself down, when without warning she pees into the toilet while still standing. "Good aim!" I thought. But really, like some bros have already pointed out, I'd much rather she went for a quick pee (and clean up afterward of course) before we fucked than need to go during sex.

jckjr do u like the golden shower ?


as for as the WGs you can always ask if they need to pee 1st before shower. i know i have to and request that i use the bath room to go to the bathroom of course not to unload some thing else. a

one question and i hope no one encounter a WG that need to do more then peeing?

shooting, that is a good idea. ask if they need to go pee first.

one of my biggest turn offs is hygiene.

yea if they are clean u feel clean. asking wont hurt i think and it makes you feel better that at least you ask them before you showed. to avoid the problem with peeing afterward showering.

I gotta go with bad smell. Bad breath, B.O., strong pussy odor, but the worst is when you are getting into doggy position and get a whiff of something. Ends the session right then and there.

Surely hygiene (or lack of it) isn't a 'surprise' turn off? I was thinking small but weird things that would turn you off.