I have been punting for some time. Mostly, with escorts from websites. But I always face a problem. When with WG, I sometimes feel bad and hence cannot sustain erection. Even in times I feel okay, I am done in one shot in mouth or something. And then I lose the will to go on.

This means, quite a few times, I sent the girl back before time.


Do you also face this kinda problem? If yes, what do you do?

Mental problems are sometimes tough to overcome.  My only suggestion is to try to take it easy, don't think too much and just enjoy your time with her.  What do you mean you feel bad, what do you feel bad about?

Well, I am an introvert and shy guy. So, when with WG, at times, I feel what the fuck am I doing here? Then at times, how can or what am I be licking someone stranger? Or at times, when she is sucking, i feel that she is not having any feeling but doing just for money?

And alll this leads to disinterest or loss of interest in having fun with her. And most times, due to all this, carrying on after first discharge has been a problem. Very often I have asked gals to go after 15 mins or so......

In my view, the problem is lack of intimacy or mechanical nature of relationship. Reason I say so, a few times that I had a good and complete session, I focussed on conversation, breaking the ice and building relationship instead of pure focus on bang bang.........

Quite sure this is why so many bros here (myself included) appreciate it when a WG gives GFE. It gives it a more natural feeling that we're appreciated and often makes the sex more intimate. That being said, it's often a two way street and the girls appreciate it when you treat them like more than a sex object. Some of my best sessions ended with me enjoying some lemon tea or red wine with the girl afterwards (that she offered).

Question Bro, do you have an SO?  (A wife or girlfriend).  You are clearly feeling guilt - and a lot of it.

If you have an SO, then maybe you should stop now.  Your "constitution" isn't made for this hobby.  No foul there - you can hold your head high.

If not, you need to figure out what the guilt is about.  The girls in HK ALL have a choice to do this.  They are NOT forced into it.  They choose to make some fast cash easily instead of poor cash (factory-work, etc) slowly.  So why the guilt?  They win, you win.

Its a mental problem unless you over punted and punted ttooo much, but if you are think that there is some kind of problem when u punting then you have to stop for a while and see whats going on.

if you feel bad about punting b/c the wg is so nice it is understandable that u feel that it sucks for wg to work but the wg maybe in need of some money or some money to support her family. i think as long as your respectful to the wg, and she feel you respect her as a person and not some kind of meat then you can feel a better that way?

i have the solution for you.

i have a friend who's like you.
he's single, yet he has problems screwing WGs.
he's horny and likes girls, but when he visits WGs, he gets nervous and can't maintain an erection.
(he has no problems with his ex-g/fs)

so i brought him to a KTV in China.
brought him to the parade.
he took 1 hour to choose.. (almost like choosing a wife)
when he finally chose a girl..
he spent 4 hrs in the KTV room, chatting and drinking.
(i instructed the WG to give him the best GFE)
that night he cummed twice.
next morning 1 more time.
he still felt gulity, but the GFE enabled him to maintain erection all  the way.

after that, i went to KTV with him every week..
for almost 3 months.

now... he can do a 3-some anytime with anyone.

I understand what you're saying brother. You probably over think things and feel a bit guilty eh. As the other bros said try talking to them more, have one or two regulars, it seems to help with the shyness.

Oh ya, I found that music helps too sometimes when i punt haha. turn on some nice erotic music on your phone/stero, and it'll relax the mood for both you and the girl. seems to work for me, and the girl usually won't mind the music.

hope this helps!

a while ago, I had the similar problem. The chicks were young and hot but I go soft easily. Went on for days and I couldn't figure out why. I was scared shit if its ED but I narrowed it down to too much sex as I was banging on every other day. But that wasn't the reason as I stopped myself for four days. Then, I decided to go for a walkup. Bounced on decent looking milf but told her 'massage' only. I let her know my lil bro issue. Very shabby massage but she was being nice since she knew my 'problem'. But when she start fondling and arousing the thigh area and lil bro, I felt rock hard. Subsequently, the following sexcapades went smoothly.

So whenever its soft season, I'll go for the walkup 'massage' and plus, quite a few of them are very foxy in their attitude, can't really say gfe. So it helps when they're in arousal mode.

Just an experience to share. Maybe a little foreplay beforehand, fondling, cuddling, look into her eyes, yada yada. Rather than going into sex straight away.