I am hoping this thread will receive your feelings about this topic and any of your experiences.

So, as I live in a very cosmopolitan city with mixed races of all types I see many asian girl (mostly chinese) and white man relationships. This really frustrates me!!! I see chinese girls holding hands/kissing their white men bf/husbands while walking the city road and it disgusts me. I think, come on you white man please go find a white woman and leave *OUR* woman alone!!! But I am still so helpless to do anything. I know chinese girls also have lust and want something different but I cannot bare to see another chinese girl with a white man. And now, from my point of view (which to you obviously may not be correct), the only type of white men to go out with asian girls are those you have fundamental flaws. Everytime I see a white man with an asian girl gf/wife I always realise that he is fat, too many freckles, red hair, bad skin, balding, fat etc. So, only men with issues leading to a lack of confidence and self esteem seem to date asian woman. This completely PISSES ME OFF ALL THE MORE because I hate to imagine such a rat-bag ( NO offence to white people but I am speaking from my inner feelings, come on we have a right to express that! ) resorting to *OUR* chinese woman!

Another point of view is the shortage of chinese woman in china as a result of the one child policy. What about the chinese males yet to marry....??? their woman are slowly getting taken over by not-confident-enough-to-find-a-white-woman males? What are chinese males doing to stop this damn it!!!!!!!!!!!?????

Finally, how can I overcome this disgust?

I'm Chinese-American and I'll admit it used to bother me a little.  But I've got friends of all colors and would date white girls if they were interested, so to say I object to any Asian girl w/ white guy relationship, it kinda pegs me as being a bit of a hypocrite.

I'll never understand the fascination that lots of Asian girls have with white guys, but everyone is entitled to their preferences.  We know a lot of white men have yellow-fever or an Asian fetish, but some genuinely like them without all that bullshit expectations of subservience, etc.

You've just gotta come to accept it.  Now it'd only be better if white women were digging Asian men like white guys dig Asian women!

Maybe with bias and hangups like you have displayed in your post it is not surprising that they go for white men.

Like it or not, there are thousands, and thousands of interracial marriages all over the world, mix of Blacks, whites and all colors in between. In about a thousand years, the world will look a lot different than now, you will not be able to tell what race a person is. Besides, there is nothing you can do about it, just accept it and and get on with your life and enjoy it while you can, learn to be more tolerant of others, after all, we all originated in Africa!

Sorry for the negative Karma bro but you sound like a redneck racist.


But you are giving offence - my wife is HK Chinese and we've been together for 20 years. Sorry I disgust you.

Sorry I'm a little upset for deducting so much pts from someone asking why this is happening. This is his opinion and he has a right to express his feelings and frustration. It's why he posted his feelings here in the Chat Section. We are only human and not Mr Spock. ( Star Trek ).  

I guess it was the way he wrote the post made it sounded too racial.


See this youtube video on the subject....It's funny...

It's the other way around, "Why Asia guys can't get white girls".  A video at UCSD made by an Asian guy.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=63bWYFGBTuE&feature=related

[ Last edited by  Weelock at 2-5-2010 17:19 ]

All you need to care about is that the women is happy.  She isn't forced, she isn't blackmailed, she isn't drugged.  Maybe all of her previous relationships with asian men turned out bad?  She could have came from physically abusive relationships, or asian men who were good for nothing and just used her for money.  And what is this talk about "our" women?  Will you be there to support all these women you come across?  What the asian women do is their own business.  Will you be stepping in and telling them not to drive a BMW or Mercedes because they are not supporting the Japanese or Korean?

Not happy about the 1 child policy?  Maybe you should be pissed off that the chinese culture is so jacked up that they are afraid the family name won't live on without a son.  

If you want to overcome your disgust, maybe you should quite being so ignorant and get a life.  Why does it matter to you who the women goes for?  If she were to become a lesbian, are you going to be twice as mad because now there are 2 less females for the single asian males?  Seriously

What complete and utter Bullshit!!

You are off your freakin head spouting racist crap like this!! I am white and in a relationship with a Chinese girl and I am not fat, bald, have red hair or freckles. You need to get a grip on reality and take a look at what is going on around the world. Mixed relationships occur all over the world. My Chinese girlfriend has dated only Chinese men before me and they all treated her with no respect and seemed to demonstrate the same knuckle dragging arrogance as you!!

I have ample confidence and self esteem so quit with the generalisation and self assuming sweeping statements, grow up, get a life and sort your life out!!!

You've pissed me off that much I have even managed to screw up my rating on you!!!

the way to get rid of the disgust is to go find some white bitch and pound the shit out of her.  Tiger Woods gets some hos, so now some Chinese dude will go pound on Ella, and the world is just again...

Oh dear! My intention was never to offend anybody so I tried to be extra careful with my words... this is immediately after I felt this disgust so you can understand how disgusted I may have been. To you people, I whole heartedly apologize. To those that allow me to express my feelings I am grateful to you, this is fair!

If the world was in my hands, I would ensure not ONE white man (or any other race) comes close to asian girls as I believe they exist for asian men, vice versa. AS I AM NOT GOD, I know there will always be interracial relations. But come on now, I am not the only one that belives what I do  ---- I read on the internet that in some parts of Japan if a white man is seen with a japanese woman he is beaten up!!!!! Heck, as most people in this forum are mongerer's I am sure you are aware that Japan only has 'JAPANESE ONLY' "sex" joints. Whatever you think is the reason for that, fundamentally, japanese men do not want white men to their japanese women!!!!

Mind you, the other replies by you bro's have been good. In particular, moming's reply cracked me up! haha. I'd say there are some intelligent people here... certainly not what I expected when I joined this 'sex' forum. This is nice place!

xiexie, I can understand where you're coming from, especially since I've met white guys who get into relationships with Asian girls purely because of sex, the perceived exoticism of Asian women, and their physical attributes (e.g. their kitties being tighter). some of these guys, despite having Asian GF's, continue to exhibit insensitivity towards Asian culture and values and this is infuriating because it gives you the feeling that the girls they're dating are being taken advantage of and are not truly appreciated and loved by their BF's (at least not for the right reasons).

however, you must realize that these girls you see dating white guys are doing it willfully. nobody's forcing them to date a white guy. hence I think it's wrong for you to get all worked up and jealous about this. also, there are many Asian women I know (attractive ones, BTW) who tell me they would never date a white guy, so it's not like white men are "stealing" all our Asian women.  

now pardon me for being so blunt and just saying this, but keep in mind that it's all out of good intentions - I just wanna help by giving a bit of advice. having read a few threads by you (e.g. the one about being jealous of WG's, and now this), it seems to me that you might have some serious issues that you need to evaluate and sort out. I honestly can't figure out what would prompt you to develop opinions like those you've expressed, and you should be somewhat concerned.

but what if u see a black man with a chinese girl

Hey nice to know there is somebody else here who shares my feelings. Actually, I just watched the video posted by Weelock! Now I also found many related videos on youtube --- Anybody who thinks I am a nut or have issues though must seriously watch these video's. you will realise that A LOT of asian men share my feelings and it is just something that if you are a white man you can never understand and instead just get angry thinking you are so great or that by choice you chose an asian girl over white girl. Im not crying or anything though because I know that (as long as I live) it is fact that MOST ASIAN GIRLS PREFER ASIAN MEN. ( though, i only started this thread because the minority pissed me off during my walk in the city early today )

This post does make me think whether everyone has a hint of racism within them. In the UK its the general election and lots of people are concerned about immigration but I am sure its because they are annoyed with so many Polish people living here and ok possibly of the fact that people claim asylum here and live off the State. Possibly you will see in this every country you go, in the states racism against the blacks, in Hk racism against indian, Phillipines. Sorry guys am I generalsisng too much here?

whoa, slow down there. I said I understood where you're coming from, but I don't share your disdain for seeing white guys dating Asian women. as I said, I feel no jealousy or ill will since the girl is dating the guy willingly, and I really don't have a problem with interracial relationships.

IMO, the problem really arises from insecurity. I'm sure there are white guys who would get pissed at seeing a white girl dating a minority, so this does not only apply to Asian men. insecure people tend to cause problems and make life miserable for everyone, so I just wish these people would learn to deal with it and not think/act foolishly.

xiexie987 why don't you grow up and stop being jealous. Now where can i find some chinese girls to bang?.

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If you are surprised that you may have offended some of the members, I suggest you look up the definition of racism. Whether you feel you are being a racist or not is irrelevant, your attitude pretty much defines racism.

Dear oh dear oh dear !!!   your back again !
we just can't get rid of you can we ?
I've already lost count but I think I've banned you ... 4 times already ?
what am I going to do with you ?
well first thing first ... I'm going to bugger you for starters ...