Subject: The Psychology of Shame
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The Psychology of Shame

Since I met my gf I've seriously cut down on WGs. Yes, I was ashamed of my actions and thought that my angel of a gf deserved better.

For the last couple of months I quit punting 100%, and I've noticed a change. I'm losing my patience more and more with my gf. I'm not satisfied with her, and little things she does really annoy me.

Now that I think about it, could it have been the shame of my punting that made me appreciate her so much. By some twisted logic, could WGs be good for our relationship?
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Post at 15-5-2009 18:45  Profile P.M. 
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As the saying goes 'Variety is the spice of Life', I find that after a trip to HK with lots of mongering I am really lusting after my wife and appreciate her more. Don't feel guilty or ashamed just enjoy.




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Reply #1 princeandnpg's post

after only 2 months you're loosing patience with her already ?  normally that occurs after a few years of marrage !

you say you were ashame and your GF deserves better ?
you really need to come to terms with yourself first  ....  you stoped mongering because of her and any mongering
you did was before her  ...  where's the problem ?

sometimes one thinks too much ...

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Post at 15-5-2009 23:17  Profile P.M. 
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Think you should indulge in some WG activity to release the much needed stress you have built up.

Just remember its physical and not emotional.
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Post at 16-5-2009 04:01  Profile P.M. 
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Hi Prince,
To truly assess the situation, you would need to monger again to see what effects it has on the relationship...




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Reply #3 twiceAweek's post

Yes, I know 2 months isn't that long.

I guess the point is that I always thought that she was "too good for me".

I've been slowly trying to improve myself and be a better bf in many ways, but the more I try to be the good guy, the more I notice her faults.

Of course she probably wouldn't appreciate it if I said "See how much I love you??? I used to play around with WGs twice a week, after I met you I really cut down, and I just gave up a couple of weeks ago... all for you!"

She'd say "Really... my God, you're such a great guy to Fk girls less once you met me... Thank you so much!" [not!]

There are many reasons why I'm not 100% satisfied, but to be fair, she's probably not 100% satisfied with me either... I'm just wondering if visiting WGs might, in some strange way, be improving our relationship.
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Post at 16-5-2009 18:49  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #6 princeandnpg's post

have some belief in yourself man !  ... no one's too good for you and same the other way round !!!
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Post at 17-5-2009 14:23  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #6 princeandnpg's post

nobody is perfect.

going to WGs will worsen your relationship.

as simple as that.

Be 9-sook for a change. Stop the double life.




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