Has anyone ever had a problem of not being able to cum via a handjob by a service provider?  I sometimes have this problem and I think it's because she's not rubbing me the right way that i'm use to (blame it on young days of masturbation).  Can bros share their experience.  Is there anyway to correct this?

try V's and take moderate amounts of zinc

Never had any problems here... but some handjobs from the cheaper providers back home are HORRIBLE!

Actually just wondering, are you circumcised? No shame there because I am, but I noticed back home that the girls always PULL on the skin of the cock... which is fine if you have that foreskin... but for me it's not there so it's tight and hard, so you can't use the foreskin to rub on it.. you need lube or saliva to get it real slippery so you can slip and slide all over it.

So what it seems like is that girls back home aren't used to or haven't had many guys who are circumcised and don't have the foreskin to stroke with.

But over here, especially for the massages they use baby oil like crazy so everything is slippery like hell, and I just love it!

guess got to get the handbook of handjobs

Yeah, that would certainly be a new bestseller book!
Now we need a photographer (check, me), penis models (check, me... at least for circumcised and like a couple hundred more) and of course a few girls with great hand skills.

I've never been able to cum with hand jobs and not even with BJ's.

maybe I'm not sensative enough down there or they ain't doing it right

never had the experience of cum with BJ

Yes, I have this problem.  I blame it on excessive masterbation, and the lack of technique on the girls part.  Years ago, it wasn't a problem.  Back them was the whole problem of coming in 20 seconds.  Over the past few years I have noticed that a hand job just don't cut it.  This last trip I am begining to notice that fucking aint cutting it.  I think I need more zinc, but I also think that after doing so many chicks over there in asia that just bangking them doing always work.  If there is a little bit of forplay that helps lots, but the 141 meathod, just kind of too quick.

close your eyes and imagine you are doing Her

I can cum easily when I'm titty fcuking because that's when it feels good.  But HJ rarely get me off.  I have only one experience where a I came from a BBBJ.  The girl worked really hard. The most amazing thing about it was that girl took the jizz in her mouth deliberately and came out of the bathroom smiling after cleaning up.  That got me hooked on her for a while, then lost her contact when she left.

Yes, its harder to cum from HJ's if:

1) You habitually masturbate - because the provider can never duplicate that hand-mind coordination you are used to in varying your strokes manually to cum quickly - because she cannot read your mind!

2) You are un-circumsized - stroking the foreskin is less sensitive than stroking just the bare penis - that btw is the probelm I have with condoms with tight tips.. I am effectively stroking my penis through a condom layer, then foreskin layer when fucking.

3) If you take vitamin V, C or L. Although they all extend the time you stay erect - I feel they all to a certain extent desensitize the penis even more.

4) You have poor imagination! By that I mean if the vision you see in front of you is not *hot* enough - you just have to pull up those memory cells and imagine a hot time with some sexy starlet.

5) If the provider has poor technique (of course).

So the solution to the above is to get circumsized, find a HOT lady who will stroke you expertly without a condom on, and be well rested, Vitamin free and tune into an adult video or bring along your favorite porn magazine!

PS I do not think this is a weird question BTW.

[ Last edited by  gylus at 22-5-2007 03:53 ]

Bro Gylus, thanks for your input.  I haven't tried the Vitamins before.  Is it true that it desensitizes your penis?  What do other bros think?

I haven't heard about the vitamins either... I mean... I don't feel any more desensitized after eating an orange... or is it only the concentrated doses in pill form?

As for being uncircumcised... I've mentioned it in my post earlier... but actually shouldn't it be EASIER to feel good from a HJ if you have the extra foreskin? For me, I'm very tight so I NEED some kind of lube for a HJ to feel good... which is fine because the massage girls always use plenty of baby oil which I love!

But if you have the extra layer, all they'd have to do is pull on the foreskin to get you going right? That's what I assume because back in the US the girls do that to me... which I hate because I don't have the extra layer, but it should feel fine for the uncut guys.