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Ways to last longer in bed?

For those who have shot their load early (I admit that I have ) or for those who just want to last longer, what are your tips in building sexual endurance?

I guess I use stop start technique, but that's just annoying for both parties...nonetheless, it's my only weapon under my belt other than getting drunk;; usually helps me go 15-20min.

Was wondering if anyone has other tools. Has anyone used pills like Prozac? I heard that anti-depressive medications work like Prozac (if they have something called SSRIs) but I have no access to them since I'm not depressed at all . Anything OTC maybe?

Thanks bros!

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pump softer and go slower? thats what i do.
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If you take anabolic steroids you can last at least 1 hour, on the 2nd shot it takes even longer..... starts to hurt after.  I was on gear about 7 years ago and that's what I found.
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Jack off before you go, guarantee to last longer if you can keep it up
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Reply #1 chhsasa's post

So the problem is that you only have one shot in you and it comes too quickly?  If you can go for seconds then just letthe first shot happen and go for round 2.  Negotiate ahead of time with the girl to make sure she'll do a double.  That'sthe one shortcoming with Hong Kong girls: the single shot rule seems to be universal.  In the U.S. you can sometimes find an AAMP girl who's happy to let you go twice just so long as it fits within the alloted time.

But if you're stuck with a single shot and you want to last, try those condoms with the desensitizing cream on them.  Amassage girl used one of those on me once (because it was all she had) and I just kept going and going and going.




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The objective should be to make the girl happy. It is more important to learn how to sweet talk, how to caress the girl, how to use your glance to connect with her, understand her needs etc. Only if you find out lasting longer can bring pleasure as oppose to trouble for her, then you should try to last longer.

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Reply #5 TheButler's post

downside to the desensitizing cream is that u might not be able to cum at all. there was a time when I tried one of those desensitizing condoms and I couldn't get even one shot in my allotted time. but then again, I don't really have a premature ejaculation problem, so maybe that's why?

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instead of the just being inside her, can always try switching positions and start pleasuring her instead. Maybe if the girl gets turned on and enjoys the sex, she would let you have a second shot?
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Control breathing and keep core muscles/abdominal muscles flexed.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by chhsasa at 1-5-2010 07:15
what are your tips in building sexual endurance?
  ...

1. Quick Fixes

wear a thicker condom - reduces sensitivity and keeps you going longer
try wearing two doms at the same time: I'll bet you have trouble coming at all, and will stay hard for hours ...
jerk off before the main event - you can time it just right for your second wind to cut in when you're with the girl
focus your attention on something that shocks you - e.g. Maggie Thatcher, your boss, a complicated excel spreadsheet  
notice you're about to cum, and stop - harder to do than the first three, but definitely works
notice you're about to cum, and pull out - you can switch to eating her out / giving her a hand-job / etc. - this has the dual role of making you last longer and making HER think you're some sort of a wonderfully giving romantic when actually you're just a self-serving bastard who wants to shag her for just as long as you possibly can


2. Medium Term Fixes

practice self-control - the key is to be able to slow down just exactly when your body is taking over and making you hump faster and deeper.  You can practice when with a partner, but it's probably best to practice on your own, when it's just you and your hand in play.  Next time you wank off, take a watch, and time your rubbing - 2 min on then 1 min stopped - and see how long you can stay hard without cumming - my max is 1 hour (I got bored and finished it).  
practice meditation - concentrate your attention on the physical sensations and practice getting the maximum feeling out of every slow movement, noticing how your whole body is responding, and recognising how close you are to orgasm.  Ultimately you need to build up your self-awareness, before you can achieve any level of self-mastery, and this is the ONLY way to do it.   


3. Long Term Fixes

build up the strength of your muscles - practice stopping the flow of your pee, etc
practice all of the above, as often as possible




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Reply #1 chhsasa's post

Try edging it will help with your self control and it is natural and safe. Edging when you are masturbating you
bring yourself close to orgasm and stop and until you calm down and then start the process over again. I have
found this method helpful for me in the past.
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i think about baseball, but ive heard about practicing kegal excerises, similar to the self control recommendations.
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Don't use two condoms at once there is more chance of tearing because rubber on rubber......

Watch "There's Something about Mary" in short jack off before you go and if you need some assistance use a 'V' the only downside is after a few girls in the one day might make it too difficult to cum when you waste one with urself.
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I find if I've fucked four girls before the fifth one, I always tend to last longer!!!!
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the thing with the start stop technique is: it doesn't prevent you from reaching a very highly aroused state, you know, you can feel it when your dick goes throttling and the semen is all accumulating at the tip waiting only for the final shot.
At that stage, it doesn't take much to hit orgasm, no matter many time you stop.
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drinking a little beforehand helps too.  be careful though...too much booze and youll get whiskey dick.  when i used to do coke, i would fuck like a soldier forever and not cum.  the downside to that is you dont really feel much of anything.




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QUOTE:
Originally posted by gangster at 1-5-2010 11:45
At that stage, it doesn't take much to hit orgasm, no matter many time you stop. ...

not true

you need more practice bro!  

believe me: when you really know the sensations, and can recognise how they progressively start to build up at an early stage, you can stay just below the tipping point for a VERY long time ...

And even if you tip over and cum, you can cum only a little bit, retaining the majority of your energy for a second shot.  Of course you can't do that with a WG, she'll call "finished" on the firstslightest spurt ... but in a 2Q arrangement even a premature ejaculation doesn't have to mean game over.




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QUOTE:
Originally posted by DArtagnan at 1-5-2010 10:08
notice you're about to cum, and pull out - you can switch to eating her out / giving her a hand-job / etc. - this has the dual role of making you last longer and making HER think you're some sort of a wonderfully giving romantic when actually you're just a self-serving bastard who wants to shag her for just as long as you possibly can  

Excellent advice   Move into mish, slowly work your way down to the treasure box, and then your way back up again.

QUOTE:
focus your attention on something that shocks you - e.g. Maggie Thatcher

You are advising on how to stop cumming (temporarily), not on how to make someone go completely soft, and devoid of any mood for sex.

QUOTE:
try wearing two doms at the same time: I'll bet you have trouble coming at all, and will stay hard for hours ...

I'm sure you're joking, but dangerous advice if you're not: can cause condom breakage due to the friction.

QUOTE:
practice stopping the flow of your pee, etc

Again dangerous advice...Can lead to urinary tract infection or kidney infection.


I find CG makes me cum faster, as my dick is very sensitive to deepness.  Mish gives you more control with speed and depth (and thus levels of sensitivity), which can also make the experience last longer. If my goal is CIM, of course, I won't cum for 2-4 days, as that 3-4 second release in the mouth brings me great sexual bliss, but if you want prolonged sex, cumming 6-8 hours beforehand helps.  
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Simplest technique?  Tell the girl you want anal.  You'll spend the next hour pleading with her and getting nowhere, then 2 minutes before your time is up stick your dick in her pussy and cum.     

No need to thank me, just doing my job!  




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do not make big movement.
Early ending is due to the fact that your little bro's head is too sensitive.
Making big movement will accentuate the good feeling and you may finish early.
Slow movement, stay relax and if you cannot resist pull out and breathe.
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