Interesting thread...
I like the term "The wife/gf come first...". Question is how??
The other day I spent 5hrs with a little lady. It was totally amazing and free - but thats another story...
When I got home, the wife is horny and jumping all over me. Not even Viagra can help in this situation. Now the wife thinks I impudent, and don't dare tell her the truth
Getting back to the term... It only really works if taken literally - The wife MUST come first!! After you fuck her, then you can move onto the fun stuff