Ok, so I want to bonk my maid. She's a cute little Phil.

Does this make me a bad person?

Anybody ever make such a move? If so, did it makes things weird afterwards?

Maybe I should wait to ask until I have to fire her, right before I leave town.

you live alone? you know the repercussions to that question

I guess you have fantasties to fufill

If you are single... make her your wife and you have free cleaning services along with a good boink!!! lol J/K

But be careful with that, there have been cases that were made public of employers and maids having sexual affairs...

a friend of mine's made went back to the Philippines last year so he had to interview for a new one. I know my friend's style and based on his explanation of what he planned to do I expected to see a little sex bomb when I visited him for dinner.

Unfortunately she was an ugly tubby Fil in her early 40s. Over dinner my friend's wife remarked she was very happy with the new maid... she selected her personally because of her excellent references... no shit Sherlock!

You want opinion huh?

No, it don't make you a bad person - but as far as if you're a sensible or smart person....welll, that is a whole different kettle of fish!

And guess what - we now have actual laws against sexual harrasment in P.C. Hong Kong these days.
Put that in your pipe and...smoke THAT!!  LOL!

SEAJ

Like what SEAJ said....doesn't make you a bad person, but dood, you might want to be careful where you let slip those words....harassment suit is just money. It could potentially lead to more dire problems. Me thinks you better keep the mouse in the house. =)~

~UD

How do you plan to approach her? And how long are you going to be in hk for? If u have a family and a maid at home i would say thats wrong and risky... But if ure by urself, then hey, do it! I see a lot of white men with the flip girks nd i used to always ask about that... Till someone told me theyre all probably maids. Its a norm man!

In all seriousness I would advise against doing it. Since it's just you and her in the house, things may start good but if she sees potential to get more benefits out of you then you're in deep trouble... if you don't comply she might go to the authorities, tell all sorts of lies (accusing you of rape may not be out of the question) to get you to compensate her. It's your word against her's, and even if you end up clearing your name, think about all the trouble you've gone through!

Want a nice fil? Go to Wanchai, quite a few of them are maids during the day too...

Hmmm. Can a single guy hire a maid?
Last time at the agency, I was told there are some rules for single man household.
Need special condition before u can hire a maid.
E.g handicap etc.

Would they really have conditions for having maids? Just pay them the damn cash biweekly! Thats a little crazy that there are specifications for having maids, i thought this was all off the books.
U do have to worry about the fake raping part... Girls in asia are very schemey...

Just find a real tidy WG and hire her to be your maid. Then she is used to having sex and will probably keep the place clean.

Boink the maid.......definately

[ Last edited by  JJJ37 at 17-4-2011 02:16 ]

All right, all right...let's sort a couple of things out.

#1 - I live in Macau. Not sure how different the rues are here.

#2 - the girl was hired through my rental agent.

#3 - I have never made any advance towards her. She has never tried to play me.

#4 - I think she is one of the most honest and appreciative people I've ever met. That being said, it only takes a small thing for someone to "turn."

#5 - She's so sweet that I actually feel like a creep for even considering it and don't want to end up being some a-hole who made her feel dirty.

#6 - I would not replace her with a WG, because most of them seem to be slobs! Ok, well, maybe just the freelancers are messy...

#7 - I am single. Have a male room mate. He is married, I am not. He has ZERO interest in any hanky panky outside of his marriage. I, however, seem to have the libido of a rabbit.

hey max45....   just to be on the SAFE SIDE.....   DON'T DO IT....   it might HAUNT YOU FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.....

seriously, what if she is a VIRGIN and she gave it up to you and thought that MAYBE BY DOING SO, YOU WILL MARRY HER and

TAKE HER BACK TO AMERICA or wherever...   even though we GUYS HAVE ALL KINDS OF CRAZY, PERVERTED DIRTY LITTLE

MINDS.....  just pay a PROFESSIONAL and DO COSPLAY AT YOUR PLACE......    what if your Maid gave it you and she felt

BETRAYED and she knew youtricked her or whatever and SHE COMMITS SUICIDE...?????? i am not trying to be mean but you never

know what these GIRLS are thinking about????  could you live the rest of your life for knowing that? ok, i may be a little overboard on

the Suicide but YOU NEVER CAN TELL, right? in my dirty little mind of "evil bp626", i say BANG HER, but the "REAL bp626" SAYS NO,

just go do your Sanada and D1 and do your business. pay, have fun and NO STRINGS ATTACHED and NO GUILT......   i am not

trying to lecture you, but as a REAL FRIEND, just be a GENTLEMEN and do what you always do for Punting.....   it's all on you now,

max45....

i dont think it makes you a bad person, unless you were taken advantage of her as you are her boss. but if both people are ok i dont see why there would be a problem

Well, she has two kids, so I know she's not a virgin.

I always know for just a few hundred MOP I can have the "urge" taken tare of.

I think a lot of guys have fantasies about girls/women who we are exposed to on a regular basis - class mates, work mates, etc.

The better part of me knows it's probably best not to act. Just interested in the vast opinions of the bros here.

I'll just add my $.02. The expression "Don't screw the help" has I am sure a long and varied background based on someone wanting to "boink the maid".       And consider, once the maid is boinked, she is no longer just the maid.
You live in an adult playground, play it smart.

Quote: #5 - She's so sweet that I actually feel like a creep for even considering it and don't want to end up being some a-hole who made her feel dirty.

Sweet girls love sex too

I don't think it is a good idea to do her.
Once you will have done her what will be the relation between you and her.
You may not be able to face her anymore.
This is for sure a male fantasm with the secretary,...
If you want do so you must think seriously before then feel your maid reaction to your sexual advance.
If she is relectant no need to try more.

If you want to boink her, just do it but make sure you plan ahead to cover your tracks. Have pictures taken together to show intimacy in case she wants to file for abuse/garrasment or even rape case. Who knows what they might be thinking. If you can video the affairs even better. Hahaha. Plus also set it straight with the maid. Going to see her as a GF or a fuck buddy only? How far do you want to take this thing. If it's just a fantasy to fulfill, just find a HG or WG to fulfill the fantasy.... Definitely no string attach or repercussion there.