Here is a story from a few months ago and I want to see how other bros see it.

I Went to a ktv in DG one night and picked 2 chicks. I didn't know all of the guys there, just about 5 out of 9 or so.
anyways, one guy (whom I don't know) starts playing hard drinking games with one of my chicks and he was good, so the chick had to drink quite a bit in a short period of time. Soon enough, she starts puking in the bathroom. And then she starts stumbling around the room like an idiot.

She then comes to me and says she wants to leave early and asks for the sitting fee. I said no, and tell her to just sit around first, have some tea, but don't drink any more. But she starts making a bigger fuss, making a commotion like yelling, and being rowdy.

My buddy, a verteran of DG for many years, instructed me to not pay her because she's acting and taking advantage of the situation. He said that she was just trying to make a quick sitting fee and since it was early in the night she would surely find another room and make some more cash.

So then some manager comes by, gets me outside the room, and asks me nicely to just pay the sitting fee as she is drunk and let her go. I said "sorry, I barely played any games with her and I don't even know the guy who was playing with her". The manager and the drunk girl left and never saw them again. Then I went back into the room to be greeted by complete SILENCE AND STARES from all the girls. What an awkward and shitty feeling.....

So, as i analyzed the situation, I figured out that all the girls know exactly what happened (or guessed correctly) and they obviously took the side of the girl. It was just a horrible uneasy feeling of being villified by all the girls. The happy and exciting atmosphere was just sucked right out of the party. Slowly after 15 long minutes, things started to return to normal and people starting drinking and singing again.

I knew I was in shit (i.e. my image was of a complete asshole) so I discussed candidly to my other remaining chick about the situation. I asked her to just be honest and tell me if i did anything wrong. Not surprisingly she said yes. Soon after, I thanked her for her honesty, gave her a sitting fee and let her go home.

I am completely sure the drunk chick was partially acting, though i do admit she drank a fair amount in short period of time. It was very difficult to judge at the time.

It was not about the money at all. What is a mere 200rmb sitting fee? A ripoff yes, but a small price to pay. I would have gladly paid up if I knew the party atmosphere would be killed. First and foremost, I don't want to ruin a good night for my buddies.

So guys, forgive any mistakes I may have made as a newbie.

I'd just like your opinions on this.

(footnote: the night was not all lost. I went to a sauna later, got shit service. And then out of the blue, a chick from another night calls me up just when I get back to my hotel and she came over to make things all better! )

Why didn't you just tell that gal to stop playing?  And your buddy, why didn't he try to defuse the situation?  Especially if you're a noob?

You shouldn't have stiffed her regardless.  That's not good.

remiinds me similar situation  happened to Muscato,  remember  our first visit in the KTV inside the Cinese Hotel.  lol.

Nah, Muscato's gal was shitfaced.. lol

Ask the guy who got her drunk to split the sitting fee. He got her messed up. I know you said you didn't know him,well, but there should have been a common friend that was there that could try to help.

As beth said you could've defused the situation when you saw it coming and as she did drink quite a bit, should give her the benefit of a doubt about her pretending to be drunk. After all, you selected the girl so should've paid for her regardless. She probably thought the other guy was your good friend and was helping you entertain him. Very bad form.

1) Why would you party with strangers?
- past tense. so lesson learned.

2) Freaking RMB200 only, just kick her out. Just go pick another gal.

3) Your buddy is not your buddy at all. He was not looking after you.

4) If a gal insist to leave, can only mean:
a. She was really drunk or uncomfortable and unable to continue party
b. She had a date with another dude /friend. Hence, quick RMB200 and she bail out
c. No offence, this one gonna hurt. She dont like your ugly dick or your face. Your are not her cup of tea.

5) When you party in Group in China KTV, you are supposed to share your KTV gals, vice versa. Allowing them to drink with other bros,  boobies grabbing - 10 hands, licking, fingering, molesting, etc.



I suspect a lot of bros will chip in their experiences in this thread, read and learn.

Man, you so bad!  If I was there and this happened I would scold her.  lol

If the gal tried to leave earlier, say before 9pm, she deserve a scold.
Give a yell and kick her out (literally foot on her arse)

But I dont think the gal would tell other bros that he dislike the guy who pick her.
Most of the time we are just assuming, the gal who left early hates our guts.

That asshole didn't even offer to pay for the fee.  Shit, I would've gotten in his face.  And Bonkers, your so called KTV vet buddy - he should know better.

I think that rarely happens. C'mon, if they have been working there for at least a week, I'd have to think they got picked by someone uglier and fatter than us by then.  lol

I aint fat and ugly. You are......!!!

I dont think I ever have gals walking out on me. Always depend on rapport.
Only during the line up picking, when i asked if she was convenient for overnite. When they replied they cant overnite, I will move forward and finger their pussy to check if the cotton pad was on. If she was lying, I;ll be very disappointed. It just hurt my feeling cos i felt she thinks i am ugly and fat like you.....

You pay the girl and scold the manager.  The girls might not really care about repeat customers, but the managers do.  I have had similar situations and if you ask the manager to bring a good replacement (not a line up), usually they will pick a girl that will do right by you.

You fat fuck - next time I come over, I ask the whole lineup - you want to sit with me or that fat dirty guy in the corner with his hands in his pants?

did the guy pick a girl as well? cos normally if he has also a girl, he's suppose to play with her first or within a group.

I rarely see someone duel someone else girl at the begining of the night

btw there are many newbies coming into the market especially now just after the crackdown period, and many of them cannot drink. Don't expect all the girls are big drinkers. as Geoduck said just giver her  the benefit of a doubt.

it's useless to keep a drunk girls sleeping in the room, just let her go.

Definitely pay the girl and tell her to get the fuck out, complain to the manager and either pick another or concentrate on the remaining girl and definitely keep the asshole away from anymore of your girls, like what most of the bros are saying 200 rmb isn't that much to ruin an evening out just mark it down as lesson learned and good karma will flow your way.

Get the guy who got the girl drunk, drunker, then leave the room insisting the drunk guy is going to cover everything ... you said you didn't know him anyways right?

the vet buddy's point of view was that in the big picture we shouldn't let ktv girls get away with those tricks. So can see it from that angle, but as a result it really killed that one night for me.

She was definitely pretending. To add another twist to the story, another buddy was chatting with her early in the night and she actually told him that her strategy is just jumping from room to room making sitting fees. That buddy thought she was half-joking and didn't want to be the bearer of bad news to ruin my fun, so he didn't tell me until it was all over. Therefore, I am certain that this girl was at least partially acting drunk. She was going into hissy fits and acting like she was high on drugs, not like she was drunk. She was simply making a scene.

My lesson now is to not let my girls drink too much without my supervision!

WRONG! If she was pretending and havign greedy intention. You should make her drink more before she leave.
Apologise to all the bros in the room and 1 cup down the throat to all the bros, one by one.
10 bros = 10 cups straight.  Rule of the game, chinese way!!!!