According to the lastest reports, some women post fake photos in Shanghai & HK Craigslist...

Here's what Chris Rocks has to say about that...

Who the biggest liars?
Women the biggest liars.

Look at you, all of you.

You're a fucking liar. You!

You're a liar!

You're all liars. All of you are fucking liars!

Masters of the lie, the visual lie.

Look at you.
You got on heels, you ain't that tall.
   
You got on makeup,
your face don't look like that.
   
You got a weave, your hair ain't that long.

You got a Wonderbra on,
your titties ain't that big.
   
Everything about you is a lie,
and you expect me to tell the truth?

Strategic lies are more important,
a lie in time, saves nine.

There are time I would rather be lied to then be insulted.
In the greater scheme of things this would not be the case, but I do live from day to day,
If my today is taken care of , I will take care of my tomorrow..

Woman are small liars,
Man are more bigger liars,
Bill Clinton, 'I did not have sex with that woman',
Bill Clinton, 'I tried marijuana once, I did not inhale'
Bush,' Read my lips'
Bush,'Saddam has WMD'
Lantaubuff, 'My 9" dick was sore from all the pounding'
Lantaubuff, ' She begged not to come any more, but I did not stop!'.

Hey Unmask, when was the last time you told the truth to your girlfriend/wife when she asks if you ever cheat on her?

The poster you quote seems to think that the world should be ordered to the convenience of the monger; a curious form of myopia known professionally as the Monger-centric World View.

Pity the poor girls that have to disguise their less-than-perfect bodies before we'll buy the goods.

Marsupial seems to be on a roll today!

Thank god my wife is smart enough not to ask. Men and women sexual needs are different.

Here's the additional script to Chris Rocks observation:

Men lie the most,
women tell the biggest lies.
   
Men, we lie all the time.
We lie so much, it's damn near a language.  
   
lt's like, to call a man out for lying...  
   
is like playing basketball with a retarded kid
and calling him for double dribble.
   
You gotta let some shit slide.
  
Men, we lie all the time.

Enjoy the insight

I've lied constantly to every GF I've ever had but not one has ever lied to me.    

The only women I don't lie to are WGs.       

It would be bloody painful if the ladies lied back to us....

Thank God they don't lie to us! I wouldn't know where to turn if they did!

I will not call it a Lie.....just the Half Truth.........

Who's your role model? Bill Clinton?

@lantau

About cheating --- /soapbox

If you put 10% of your effort into the relationship, and your significant other puts in 100%, are you cheating her?

If you refrain from having sex with others but flirt and secretly love another person, are you not cheating?

If you go out and 'relax', then come home as a better man to her and treat her better, are you not simply doing what you need to in order to be a better provider?

If you come home frustrated and wanting sex or comfort, is your woman required to give it? Does it constitute a reason to cheat if she doesn't? (No food at home, dine out theory)

Does cheating only constitute sex? If cheating is only about sex, does loving the person you have an affair with make the cheat worse than if it was just a screw? Then in that case, isn't it about love as well?

IMO - It's all down to the rules you set for yourself. Know what your sig-other wants, and respect those wants. Either that, or learn to become a really good liar.

Hand me that soapbox.

All deception between men and women derives from our genetic programming (JP Donleavy once wrote a novel with the wonderfully alliterative title: Meet My Maker The Mad Molecule ). Men want to plant their seed in as many women as possible. Women want a nurturing environment for the resulting children. All the rest is just yada yada. To blame the guy or girl for their differing attitudes is like blaming the bird or fish for their differing methods of getting from A to B.

However, civilization is founded on female morality so guys are made to pay for infidelity; pay with guilt, social condemnation and costly divorces. Therefore male hypocrisy, word games about what constitutes cheating, moral rationalization and deception.

That is why prostitution will NEVER disappear. It is a necessary and safe outlet for the male need for promiscuity. If women were wise, they would turn a blind eye to the guy's visiting working girls, but they would rather we live stifling, sexually unfulfilled, once-a-month lives.  Some guys give in, others don't. There is a price to pay for both. Live with it.

That's it for now. There's this new girl in TST that looks really hot!! What's that honey? No, I just going out for a beer with the guys. See you in a couple of hours. Of course, I love you.

Totally agree. Society's values and our genetic programming are at conflict. That's why it's up to ourselves to set our own values to put a balance in between them.

But also regarding the original topic, a lot of posts on craigslists are just fishing for emails. Set up proxy email addresses when you reply to CL ads.

I didn't realize I was in the company of brilliant philosophers.

Let's go get lay

Hope you were off the soapbox when you were talking to your wife.

Yes, we are all different, so we can differ on how we think and how we monger. Personally, I think it is best to make love to someone who has some emotional attachment to you. I would rather take some time with a lady before we get to the act and make the relationship last a while. (I know satisfying an immediate need is important to some brothers, but I just feel empty if there is no prior connection before the immmediate sex act.)

Which is why all the guys here consider the GFE to be the gold standard of a visit with these girls.

But does a guy, esp. a married guy, want to get too close to a working girl? (And how many of these girls really care about us as people?) The forum is full of guys who have been asked for tel numbers and suddenly felt the girl was getting too close. Yah they want the DFK, and passion; they want the girl to orgasm 3 times like she never has with anyone else; but when the girls suggest getting together for a drink and socializing like a normal couple, most of the guys panic.

Also, for some guys, the age when you're able to romantically interest a girl in her early twenties is long past. The only thing you can realistically hope for if a few moments of physical intimacy with a youthful body. The girls seem to like me, and that makes me happy, but 'emotional attachment'?

I'm not married, by the way. I'd love a romantic relationship with a beautiful young woman, but at my age, it ain't going to happen.

[ Last edited by  Marsupial at 3-11-2007 10:50 ]