Bear with me on this one guys as I spin out the story...........

Anyway as I've said in previous posts having a dry period since coming back from HK but one night decided to say F&^k it and contact an oriental in the area to get some details. The long and short of it is didn't go for it that night but she did send me a photo of herself to entice me which I've attached.

Couple of days I was feeling horny so I phone her and then we got chatting. Turns out she is from Hong Kong and just finished university - very chatty on the phone if but a bit long winded in spinning out her points of view. We weirdly met up and had lunch and a few drinks as she tells me the trials and tribulations of working as a WG (she has no problem calling herself a chicken and I find her strong personality quite engrossing). I must say she does have some interesting stories - e.g. one chap did a runner on her, another chap forced himself on her without a condom (I would have said that was rape....) then she had to wait for blood tests etc etc..

We've met up a couple of times after that but I find myself torn between being a friend or moulding her to be a f&%k buddy. She is pretty screwed up and has many complex reasons for being a WG. I'm sure part of the reason is that she has a bit of a drug problem and enjoys snorting coke and smoking weed. She loves sex and confesses its quite nice working as a WG as she can be as dirty and slutty as she wants which I find quite horny. On the other hand I think a part of her is quite ashamed to be a WG and she has been tearful telling me about needing to make money for herself and making her family proud more than once. (Like a lot of Hk people she has these high hopes of making a bit of money and investing in business and talks about her "ideas" of business a lot which I find quite dull.......).

Now I've gotten to know her I don't know how I feel about her. I don't particularly think she has an attractive face but she does have quite a nice fit size 8 body. She turns me on as i know she has a wild streak, loves sex and is slutty so a part of me wants to turn her into a f%$k buddy. Another part of me feels sympatehtic in the rut she has caught herself into (especially when she gets tearful) and maybe it would be good to stay freinds but wanting her to f%^k me would be slightly immoral??...........

[ Last edited by  horny4u at 14-6-2009 20:10 ]

Sorry guys should have put this in chat - any chance a moderator can move it for me??

go for the most exciting part bro!!! her body is quite hot...

Only you know the 'real' situation between you & her ... no matter how much you describe it here !
Do what you feel is right and take one day at a time ... unless of course, you're planning for the
future with wedding bells ?  

only few bros here could experience the situation you had right now...

actually ... from the pic, the bod looks very ordinary - not much curves even in that position !

Let your conscience be your guide, bro.  But, be careful.  You're in pretty deep right now and could be perceived as using what you know to take advantage.  If you're cpomfortable with that, then go ahead.  But, I think the fact that you raise the concerns here says that you really aren't.  She may just straight forward give it up to you, as a comfort for you both, who knows.

But, as said above, only you can make the decision because you are the one who has to look yourself in the mirror each day.

Good luck bro.

I've followed through on similar situation a few times with no regrets, can just fizzle out, end as friends and fade away, or end in tears (if she gets carried away with white knight dreams). Sounds like you are single so why not do it but keep all options open?

I'm married and always open about it so it's a easier to back out if things get claustrophobic. Although some WGs incorrectly assume Bros must be in troubled marriage to visit WGs. May the "force" be with you!

i agree with you bro... most and not all, always assume that there are something wrong the current relationship! I am being accused several times but i am single yet they were in disbelief...

one question.

is $$$ involved?

If you are married - then go for a WG. Especially you this one likes drugs.

I have a girlfriend who have regular job in a shop. We had sex after some
meetings. Then she start to demand things. I must have her only etc...
So I get tired. And stoped. Then last month she called and say she want to
talk. After all her complains, I say I want to have sex. So we went to bed.
( I am good listerner )

On Sunday 10 days ago I get a chock. She called my mobile and say she is
in my area and want to know my house number so she can see. Holy Sh*t !
I just say I call back later. Can not talk now.

Last Sunday I get a SMS where she ask me where I am. I SMS that I am in Bankok och the way to Europe.

So girlfriends are not to recomend if you are married. They always dreaming that you will divorse and you choose her because of something.

If a fuckbudy, she should be married. Then more safe.  WG is very safe. They will try to find your house....

NEVER tell a girl, WG or not, that you're single when in fact you're married! That kind of dishonest shit just fucks with people's emotions. I have NO respect for guys who screw people over just to get laid.

maybe this is why WGs never believe it when i tell them i'm single
i mean, i AM single
no GF or anything
guess they've heard it too many times or something

Everybody goes on about dishonest WGs. Give me a break. These girls have been lied to and fucked over by so many guys that out of self-defense, they don't believe anything a guy tells them. Not a few of them became WGs BECAUSE some guy screwed them over.

true that
kind of like on the internet, you can be who ever you want to be

i remember one time we were at a bar in thailand and the next booth was the CEO of a multi-million dollar corporation
or so he said he ways
i mean, come on now
if you were the CEO, what the heck would you be doing in this kind of seedy bar with two of those, um, "girls"

that's what i thought to myself anyway  

The WGs don't get get fucked over by those kind of lies. Too easy to see through, they were probably laughing at him, not with him.

They get fucked over by the dudes that seduce / promise them a  relationship. Won't take too many of those experiences to put the cold hard shield around their hearts ...

i can totally see that happening
lots of the WGs here in california are like that as well
there's too many rich guys here promising them all kind of stuff

i've had girls ask me what kind of car i drive right off the bat  
something i've never really heard from a WG over there in asia, well, cept in korea  

from my personal experience...
WGs seem to fancy married guys more!

whenever i tell a WG i'm married, they almost always treat me better...
definitely more GFE..

isn't this true for u guys???

Most WGs I had always think I am married......

And you are right, they prefer mature guys with career/business....they want to be your mistress. Do nothing and get fucked by you while u ditch in the money and while u are not around, they go fuck around!!!

But then WGs also like pretty boy and young dude, they always offer them bareback......   so envy!!!! Creampie...yeah baby yeah!!!

yeah, they always think i am married too
i guess it's cause of my age maybe?
but when i tell them how old i am, they don't believe at first
i guess i look young for my age


also, last girl i had kept asking me if i wanted the condom or not
i thought that was a bit strange