Originally posted by firstraitt at 27-8-2022 12:53 AM
For what it’s worth, I’ve managed to get a HJ in every 5 star spa I’ve been to in both Bangkok and Phuket. My method is to tip the girl in advance around 2000 baht and say “I help you, you help me ...
I'm going to add my thoughts to this since I'm visiting Bangkok right now.
So I went around searching for where to get HJs in BK. I've been here a few times and have only went to a couple of meh places that offered meh HJs.
That said, I'm a huge fan of the legit spas, particularly ones ranked highly on Tripadvisor. Like firstraitt, I've had some of the best veggie massages in these wonderful establishments, and sometimes there is quite a bit of brushing along LB and the pair underneath that drive me insane. But alas, try as hard as I may I have had no luck with the masseuse willing to do the actually HJ. They politely refuse each and every time, despite me saying I am willing to offer a much bigger tip.
Well, I decided to give firstraitt's approach a try. I won't name the spa outright, but let's just say it's in Chinatown and it's highly rated as one of the best spas and yes, I have previously visited a few times without any luck. So I decided to gamble and did give the masseuse 2k baht before my clothes were even off. At first, she was shocked but then thanked me non stop when she realized I was seriously about her having it I did mention and thank her ahead of time for the 'very special service' of course.
At that point, to be honest, I wasn't sure if I was kissing 2k down the drain. But I had already went in with the mindset that she might not get the hint and do anything. If not, so be it. I certainly wasn't going to make a stinker about it in a legit high end place. At worst, I figure she would really give the best veggie massage she had ever given.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained as the saying goes. And I'm the type of guy who wants what he can't have.
Thankfully, she did get it and I got a pretty good HJ.
So obviously I was happy and can cross this off the list. Would I do it again for this much? Yeah, but it would have to be the right girl. I'm certainly not paying top bucks for someone I'm not attracted to.