i always ask the papa/mama san about bbbj...the others (daty/dfk) really depends on the conditions of her pussy, mouth/teeth and whether she has bad breath...
as is said above, even with the papa agreeing earlier to your request, you may get a refusal once in the room...i try to mitigate the problem by calling the papa again once in the room to confirm that my request had been conveyed and if not, for him to do so with the girl right there and then...
this gives me a guarantee to what i want (or not and if she ain't hot enough, i bail and move to the next) but the double edged sword is it may set a certain tone/mood with the girl which could become a negative for me...but at that point if it is agreed to which i get my bbbj, then i am happy even if i don't receive gfe...this to me is a chemistry thing...if it is more business like, thats fine...i am there for my dick which is there to be satisfied as the first and foremost mission...the rest are bonuses...so i am rarely dissatisfied
