Have you ever met a WG/HG outside of work? There have been girls who have asked if I'd wanna have lunch or dinner, but I have always made something to excuse myself. I understand that she may do it with the aim of making you a regular.

How did it go? Did you get a better service after meeting her or doing something with/for her outside the line of work.
Perhaps you did it for expecting a better service the next time you go meet her. I suppose it doesn't count as dating.

Yes I have done it with a few ladies and you do get better service.

Make sure you ALWAYS PAY HER. Just put money in an envelope and give it her when she leaves. That way there is no confusion about the relationship.

If the chemistry is right you can definitely do it. Obviously you are expected to pay for the food but I've never paid them any fee for just having dinner with me. However I once bought an iPad in exchange for a couple of times of sex without clock watching (last time lasted 3 hours ). Service gets better of course, but you can also achieve that by just visiting them a couple of times.

Here’s a timely and true story.

One of my long time 141 relationships with whom I am very close to has suspended her work since CNY and has ended the lease on her “office”, and so she sits at home not working because she is properly concerned about the risks associated with working. I have not seen her since before CNY but have every few weeks exchanging messages with her to see how she’s doing.

She yesterday asked if I want to see her, and advised that she is low risk because she has not been working and doesn’t really socialize outside. She invited me to visit her at her house (she lives in government housing in the neighborhood on Hong Kong Island with her 22-year-old son, she has no husband). I am very tempted and of course would approach this as a usual business transaction (when visiting her office I discreetly leave her fee and a very large tip in the same location each time, and she and I never handle money or discuss numbers face-to-face) but am concerned a 22-year-old son could walk in and catch us. Presumably she would make arrangements for him to not be around. I suppose we could spend the money in book a hotel to be safe.

I’ll open this up to the community:

1.        What’s your views on this? This is more a question concerning relationship than health, although it would be hard to avoid the DFK we both enjoy so much

2.        Have any of you been invited to a provider’s home before? I suspect not, given they probably live with other family members.

Keep on mongering

[ Last edited by  gwailoplayer at 4-4-2020 16:18 ]

Just go for it! The fact she trusts you to come over to her own place means she is serious. As for Coronavirus I wouldn't worry too much and still have some trust in people, but remember to wear a condom even in such setting. Because unlike the Coronavirus, HIV is something you will suffer from for the rest of your life. Also, it's perhaps better to meet her at your place or in a hotel, since I can't imagine a 22 year old being happy walking in on his mother having sex with a random guy.


Yes, I have been invited a handful of times, but all of them live alone (I suppose mainland is different in this compared to HK because of the housing prices and girls come from other places in China). Coincidentally, I was invited to a provider's home today . We first went for a nice dinner and afterwards she wanted to go to a hair spa. Finally I drove her back to her home and I went in for some fun. Spend a total of about 800RMB, money well spent I would say.

Good luck!

the problem with a hotel now with all this coronovirus is there anybody else infected in the hotel, does the hotel have central air, is the ac sectioned off for each floor or is it for multiple floors..lots of little things to think about.  Because it wouldn't be worth it to catch COVID and bring it home...unless you live alone.

but if she arranges for the times to workout without her son ambushing you guys out of the blue might be worth going for it...but i'd be wary if this might be a one off to scratch a mutual itch or is she looking for something more committed?

Bonding between an expat, a Chinese WG and her live-in 22 year-old son.... sounds like the making of a great Netflix series! Joke aside, I don't think your story is very rare. Many experienced bros might have experienced the same. Off the topic, many WG are living with their grownup offsprings, who kind of know what their moms do for a living. Surprisingly, at least based on the limited sample that I know of, these kids all seem to be very well turned out psychologically.

Don't worry about the son walking in on you. When a seasoned WG invites you to fuck her at her home, you won't see the son. Also, don't worry about COVID19. Her bed will be far safer than a hourly hotel.

Do you have a SO? If you do and if your WG friend doesn't know about that, it's time to come clean. There is a progression of affection shown by a local WG to a client. First, she answers your daily text messages. Then, you are allowed to stay for extra time. Next, you can take her out for a meal. She will probably ask you to book her last session of the day so that you can spend more time together, or to walk her home after work. Maybe a few sessions in hourly hotel and naughty weekends in Shenzhen. The finale is a home-cooked meal at her home. To reach this point means that she has emotionally invested in you. She doesn't necessarily need you to be single. But she doesn't want any surprise or disappointment.

When a WG offers to cook you dinner on a regular basis, because "you eat out all the time", that's when you must decide which way this should go. For some reasons, Chinese women tend to think single men are all clinically malnourished and their overcooked vegetables and watery Chinese soup will save our lives. She doesn't mind you are married, but expects you to go to your home to eat her soup once a week. Before you know it, she will start to use phrases like "when will you come home tonight?"

If this is not what you want, don't eat that first meal. Fuck her in her bed, make sure you pay. Or invite her to your place (if you are single).

Have been friendly to a few honey girls and formed a good rapport. Dinner was nice and sex afterwards brilliant. One girl I had let me go to her flat to screw, ensuring her relatives had left the house. Once screwed while her mum was in the house. You can see some try to live a normal life and keep prostitution as a business.
Another girl I knew moved in with me for a few months and i looked after her. Moved out as she couldn’t stand domesticated life. Still good friends though. The “free” sex was amazing, screwing nearly every day