Hi there!

I am very new to this. So far had sex with 3 girls in 3 different walk ins. As I am very inexperienced in this and sex in general (only had sex once before all of this), I let the girls do everything.

This was usually a blow job, followed by going on top and riding me, then after 1-2 min they say to change position to missionary and then at some point I grew some balls and asked them to change to doggy position which they all did and that was all it.

I read some of the reports here and a lot of them have DATY and fingering in it. I really would love to give girls pleasure and try DATY myself. However how do you guys ususually initiate it? Do you discuss after you walked into the door about what you want and what she is willing to do? Can't imagine that because so far most I have met at the door don't speak english.

During the act, do you just "go" for it, like try to gently guide with your hands to make her lie down and then open her legs and go down on her?

I don't want to force anything but I am also literally a retard at this, so how do you guys iniate it like I read in the reports?

I still want to go for 6 walk ins and see one or two nice hotel girls.

Thanks

[ Last edited by  newbie_monger at 11-3-2019 02:20 ]

Easy - I usually start on the approach.

Start from the shower and start scratching your sides and nodding your head as you walk to the bed.

Usually THIS is the signal that all WG know is the universal signal for DATY.

Vigorously move your tongue up and down during your approach maintaining eye contact.

Continue the scratching.

As you approach, start making the universal sign for pancakes and she will get the message.

Good luck! And do let us know how you go Grasshopper!

You can ask the girl before going into her room (or before booking) if she does whatever service you desire. Especially if it's a less common fetish.

In this hobby like outside of it, a lot of the communication is done through body language. With experience, you'll be able to assess your partner's boundaries and needs. Sometimes you'll assess thing wrongly. That's why it's important you take slow steps towards what you want to do to them, making sure that your intentions are extremely clear. This way you give them plenty of time to stop you if they don't desire whatever you want to do to them.

In your particular case, start kissing her neck, then slowly move downwards, spend some time kissing and licking her boobs, then again slowly go down to the belly, and then go past her vagina and kiss her on her inner thighs. By now she will know exactly what you're going for and she will either cover up her vagina with her hand or let you go at it.

An important note since you're new to sex, always be aware of the risks of whatever sexual thing you do. Here's an article on oral sex and sexual transmitted infections: http://www.ashasexualhealth.org/stdsstis/oral-sex-stis/

Good luck, hope you fulfill your greatest desires!

Sometimes you don't really need to even ask, just go with the flow and slide your hand around when making contact and if they reject it then that's that, but some don't mind it and will go with the flow. Just do it like you normally would with your regular (or ex) partner.

Take it slow and kiss your way down her body to the tummy area and then slowly head down.  If she does not like it she will tell you to stop, so agree graciously.
Sound like you are new to sexual activity, so I would recommend watching some pornos or instruction on how to be better at DATY to ensure the girl enjoys it.
Every girl is a little different, but most guys don't know what they are doing, and it becomes either not that exciting or downright painful for her.  Or she could be really bored, which might hurt your ego a bit.

Not sure what the intrigue is about DATY with a WG.  If you are trying to get them to orgasm, good luck, LOL!  They have no interest in getting that type of arousal.  They really are there to service you and get you off, not the other way around.

I would also suggest a really good book... She Comes First

https://www.amazon.com/She-Comes ... F8&qid=&sr=

Although I don’t DATY, the theory is if you make the girl happy, she gives you better service. It can be exciting and a real turn-on if she gets really into it. I’ve found working her little button gently often has good results. One spa girl recently ended up grinding her pussy on my firm fingers and humping them with the full weight of her pelvis.

I'm confused by this question....     No offense, but...   you could... maybe... ya know.. just ask her?

I just ask, can I lick you?  Or indicate I am interested in doing oral on her.   What's the problem?

For normal girls (non-WG) everything changes...   But.. for WGs...  some allow some don't, just ask.

Generally I will not finger them, they don't like it. Hands might be dirty also.  Rubbing maybe, but depends on vibe from the girl, whether WG or not.

[ Last edited by  twfun at 11-3-2019 15:13 ]

Some good advice here. It probably depends on the connection, and the skill you bring to it, but some girls do really like it. I've had girls essentially initiate it (commonly by going into 69, thus providing the option...), and I've had some who insisted that I keep going...

For example, see my second post in this thread:
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=67378
Perhaps she is someone you could try. If you're not very experienced I'd definitely recommend a more experienced girl.  Her advertisement is not up right now, but maybe she's taking a short break...