What is the worst aspect of this hobby ?

The question is pretty well self-explanatory.  But to add a little bit of clarification, I submit the following.

We all have our own reasons for being a hobbyist.  But like any endeavor, there are always the positive attributes and the necessary pitfalls of human activity.   In the case of P4P, what do you consider the most negative associated facet of the hobby ?  Perhaps excessive cost, or finding a suitable provider, or risk of STD, possibly keeping one's actions private, the threat of law enforcement, etc. etc.  I could imagine there are many many answers to this question.

I happen to have my choice for the worst aspect:  Bait and Switch.  Over the years of seeking P4P, at least 50% of the advertised providers turned out to be nothing close to what was advertised.  This is across all the platforms used to make a provider's services known:  printed literature, various websites, Wechat (the only social media I have used), and even word of mouth recommendations.  Having an expectation established on visual or written descriptions is the intent of advertising.  When that expectation is completely false or totally opposite of the advertised lady, I find myself quietly promising to never do this again.

And in fact, B&S has limited my personal degree of hobbying for sure.

So,  I am interested to know what the other bros consider the worst of all the aspects of hobbying in P4P.

bait and switch is probably the last thing i would consider as the worst aspect.
you can always walk away

Imo:
1. Law enforcement: that's why no punting in US and China for now.
I do not want to go to jail or have family/so bailing me out.
2. Family SO finding out
3. Health/std is right up there with 1 and 2
4. Cost
5. Bait and switch
6. My soul. Muah hahahaha

1. HPV - this is the one nobody talks about, and that silence is the reason it's the #1 problem.  Google is your friend.  
2. Impersonal, no connection
3. Clock watching
4. Finding a favourite, and then, whaddayaknow?  She's highly in demand - making her unavailable when you have free time, and exhausted when it's your turn for sloppy seconds.

Worst aspect ... is IMHO .. paying money.  

Just my experience.

P13.

my biggest gripe, the dreaded 'princess syndrome...'
by the time you find out that she's a dud, it's already too late
no go zones and i don't do that are mood killers and i have in fact stopped, picked myself up, get dressed and walked out
the longer i lingered (hoping the situation would turn for the best) would in fact infuriate me further...
so, best to chalk it up to experience...

- when you walk Fuji stairs from bottom to top, realising that you should have started from the top
- when she has smelly breath
- when trying to dry your body with the only face towel left
- when the bathroom mat is soaking wet
- when you see pubes on the bed sheets
- when you look down on LS and see yeast staring back at you
- when she braces her arms on headboard behind you, and having her armpit hair in front of your face
- you ring doorbell, whilst a rude punter behind you is breathing down your neck
- when you analyse your monthly bank statements to see many large atm withdrawals
- when you knock on the door of the HG and the cleaner working near you clearly knows what you're there for
- when you walk out of the building, trying to blend in with other pedestrians like it was totally not a brothel
- when you realise that the more you do this, the less exciting it gets and you start to chase for something to match your first/best experience, but it never quite happens
- when time is nearly up, you're constantly on the edge but you can't pop, she gets frustrated, you get even more frustrated
- making the mistake of looking into the condom/cum filled trashcan next to the bed
- when she's sucking you off and you suddenly remember that you forgot to trim yourself beforehand
- when she rolls the condom over the snake head, but it gets caught on something, causing you intense discomfort as she tries to hack the rest of the condom down the shaft

[ Last edited by  floppy at 28-5-2016 10:25 ]

- when you realise that the more you do this, the less exciting it gets and you start to chase for something to match your first/best experience, but it never quite happens


Best response so far.

-When she has an attitude
-When you take a shower in those combi toilet, shower sink cubes in the tiny apartments and the toilet isn't flushed and you can see the yellow water.

-When you take a shower in those combi toilet, shower sink cubes in the tiny apartments and the toilet isn't flushed and you can see the log

-When you take a shower in those combi toilet, shower sink cubes in the tiny apartments and the toilet isn't flushed and you can see a red spot of blood at the bottom. WG and many women don't seem to remember blood is thicker than water and it pools into a red spot at the bottom of the toilet.

-When you're fucking your WG and you look in the mirrors around you. Rather than thinking that's a nice tight body. You look at your own and feel self concious as I get older the weight is harder to keep off.

-When you see her reach into her half empty box of 10000 condoms... you wonder how many other guys have been here today, this week, this month this year?

-When you're fucking a WG in the ass and she hasn't douched before hand. You pull out your cock and it's a chocolatey log

-When an inexperienced WG goes deep on you and she gags and pukes all over you. You can see what she had for dinner, rice or noodles

-When you shag an amazing one when you're just about to she gets off takes off the condom and wanks you off.

-When she does the above and you friendly fire yourself in the face.

-When all you've got is 2X $500 and the bill is $600 when they feel privileged enough to only give you back two red ones ($200).

-When they put the condoms on wrong and you wonder how many have you broken by doing this?

-When their phone rings.

-When YOUR phone rings and you answer it and have to tell her to shut up.

-Fake moaning.

The list is endless...

[ Last edited by  Kennichi at 28-5-2016 10:09 ]

1. When you pull out and realized the Condom broke
2. When you look down and see period blood
3. When you feel you built great rapport with a bar girl hoping i  translates into great service, only to get back to the room and experience lazy, rushed, mechanical disappointment.
4. When you get a gf but still wants sex vacation so you try to figure out what excuses to give for disappearing for a few weeks.
5. When you fuck her ass and see poop on your cock.
6. When you pay for 1hr but in 10 mins.
7. When you tip 50% to make yourself feel better for exploiting poverty.
8. When you fall head over heels and start thinking of giving WG a good life.
9. When WG ate spicy/pepper food right before giving BBBJ.
10. When they don't accept black customers.

[ Last edited by  nyctohkvacation at 28-5-2016 21:10 ]