You're right on all counts
hard to find
If I was on your mission I would look for a couple of girls who say straight out that they double-team, and then be very explicit in the negotiation before any discussion of money.
... and as a consequence, looks and age become less important ...
If you go with that pragmatic plan you may get lucky, but getting two young goodlooking girls who are not just into each other and ALSO enjoy hetero sex, is like winning the Mark 6. It takes time, patient persistence, and a lot of money.
And, as we know, someone does actually win the Mark 6, almost every week