Ok look, I'm sorry for the dumb question, but it's been bugging me for a while.

When you have sex with your GF for example, its really intimate because you love/lust for her and there is lots of kissing as a result. However, a WG is different because she ain't your GF. So is there a right way to have sex with a WG? Would you kiss/caress her as you would to your girl, or is it straight vanilla sex, so to speak?

the only 'right' way is to put a condom on right after you finish showering

No BBBJ? That's my favorite part

There's no "right way", but I can think of a couple of wrong ways. twiceaweek mentioned one of them, so no need to harp on it. But another "wrong way", IMHO, would be to treat the WG as a piece of meat with no feelings, which they are not. Some bros have a "she is nothing but a whore" attitude, and my opinion  is that it is wrong to treat her that way, or to be abusive or violent in any way (unless it is some kind of role playing, previously agreed upon).

As to the "right way"? No such thing. But reading this board will give you some idea of the variety that occurs on an everyday basis.

Gherk

Well... you can absolutely get to true GFE sex with deep kissing and such..., but you cant really expect it on the first meeting -- especially from a WU or Hotel Girl you just met 30 seconds earlier.  But if you repeat with her you'll find this comes naturally and quickly.  

The other option for true GFE sex with WGs is to meet bargirls.  You get to spend much more time early-on getting to know each other, flirting, and setting-the-mood before getting naked.

Case in point, I recently met a very parttime semi-pro WG.  She was somewhat nervous the first time, and our greeting went very quickly, perhaps too quickly... we were back at my place and having sex.  But it was not intimate and the GFE was initially lacking.  Fact is, she was nervous and a little spooked:  she didnt know me, didnt know what to expect, no-doubt just praying I wasnt a sicko or a cop, etc. etc.. But by the end of our time together we were snuggling and kissing and have gentle, intimate banter while caressing each other's bodies.  

On our second meeting it was complete, sincere, GFE from the first moment.  SO it doesnt take long once they become comfortable and secure with you. (It also helps to put some effort in to ensure she's enjoying your sex too... after an orgasm a gal will do damn near anything with you!!!  True...

actually it all depends on what the OP means ... right way for him or her ?

for him ... what I recommended IS the right way ... to be protected

Agree with what has been said above, but I think you should just think of it as just like picking up a girl at the bar and taking her home. Sometimes you get GFE and sometimes you just fuck her brains out or vice versa, and other times you get a dud. Obviously if you get a second chance to repeat, it makes for a better time. You just have to go with the flow and hope reports on other bro's previous experiences can steer you to what you're looking for.

hmm.. the right way for you...
would be to treat the WG like your GF..

the right way for the WG...
would be to treat you like a King...

For both of us. Condom goes on after BBBJ, but I'm not sure about kissing/GFE.

Thanks for all your replys, and most importantly for not ridiculing me.

I've visited 3 WGs in the past, didn't really "feel it" with any because I didn't see them as more than a, you know, WG.

Hope this can change for a more pleasant experience for the both of us.

Here's my two cents...

WGs have sex with clients...  This is probably not the easiest or most fun job in the world.  So as a protection mechanism, they develop a routine that enables them to satisfy most punters while expending relatively little emotional or physical energy.

I suppose the "right" way to have sex with a WG would be simply to follow her routine.  But I can absolutely assure you that this will not be the most enjoyable way to have sex with a WG!

WGs are women...  If you can engage her as a woman -- and not as a WG -- then you unlock the possibility of having a truly spectacular experience.  It's not enough to kiss/caress her...  You have to induce her to want to be kissed and caressed...  If you can get her to that point, then you have the potential for some truly great sex!  

So I would say that the "right" way is to find a way to shake her out of her routine, connect with her as a woman, and then take it from there...  And if those instructions are not sufficiently clear...  Relax and see another few hundred WGs...  In time, it will all be perfectly clear!

Wow, that's deep...and I completely understand, but I don't have that type of game (or do I?????)

OT, where is your avi from?

The replies above are excellent and I echo them in my thinking for the most part. My best response is an example from my experience which just reached its conclusion (or at least reached a new level) yesterday.

I've seen a girl at an AMP three times now, once per week for three weeks. I always try to engage the girls in conversation, have a laugh etc and this particular girl and I really hit it off. She only offers massage and a HJ (SOP for these shops) but I've asked her if she would be interested in taking things further and she was non-committal but playful.

Yesterday I wound up fucking this lovely Korean girl on the massage table, while DFK'ing her to oblivion, total GFE. I'm fairly certain I'm the first compensated fuck she has ever had which made it ever more delightful, I'm number 8 on her list of guys she has had sex with, first seven were BF's. She was incredibly wet and ready by the time we went at it, I think was more enthusiastic than me actually.

So the important bits in my view that got me to that point:
Genuine respect
Listen and engage with her, emotional engagement is the key
Make her laugh
Light touching to get a girl's motor running is critical for a GFE.
Rushing is always the killer, you have to know when they're ready to move forward and just wait that little bit longer.

[ Last edited by  halfclover at 29-5-2013 09:19 ]

so let me get this right, you expect to be treated like a king but you treat them ONLY like a GF ?
seems rather unbalanced doesnt it ?

if you want to be treated like a king treat them like a queen IF YOU CAN......

You are absolutely right.  It is very unbalanced.  And so the thing that evens it out is money.  With enough money, balance is restored.

...  Now while I understand this, I retain the prerogative to treat my favourite WG's like the angels that they are.