Subject: Newbie - Ring etiquette
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Newbie - Ring etiquette

I've been lurking for awhile now and trying to take in all the knowledge and tips from the boards. I'll be in HK in a few days and and wanted to know what the general rule is about wearing the wedding ring? Do the girls care or is it just business? Anyone notice a difference in attitude from them because of it?

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Originally posted by mcow at 31-5-2012 02:03
I've been lurking for awhile now and trying to take in all the knowledge and tips from the boards. I'll be in HK in a few days and and wanted to know what the general rule is about wearing the wedding ring? Do the girls care or is it just business? Anyone notice a difference in attitude from them because of it?...

Wow!  You really are a newbie...  Flaunt your wedding ring!  Brandish it as a symbol of your dominant maleness!  LOL!  

Seriously, the WGs won't give a shit one way or the other, so long as you tip them nicely.

Have fun, CGP
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Reply #1 mcow's post

Good job on your first post! I personally have not had any experience in this department.

But from what friends tell me, they usually take it off if they want to play off as being single and available. If you are really damn old like me who's in his 60's then it really doesn't matter.

But rule of thumb is to take it off. It's usually better. there will be a ring tan line, but you just tell them you are recently divorced. this usually works if you want to portray yourself as being available.

But if you really don't care and just want some action, then just keep it on. you never know if you are going to lose it or get pick pocketed.

Good luck!

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No working girl cares. Just wear it.
If you choose to take it off, it just means that you are more likely to lose it, and that's going to be hard to explain.

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They don't care. If you know how to play your cards... You can even turn it into a talking point.

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Reply #1 mcow's post

most of them pretty much assume you're married

maybe they figure why else would a good-looking guy be visiting a $380 sex worker??  

just be yourself, it's 100:1 odds against you coming up with anything that might surprise them or disappoint them, and at the end of they day, they only care about one thing: getting you out faster, a few $ lighter.




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Reply #1 mcow's post

The ring stays.......
I love to see WG licking and sucking my ring + finger... while i hump them missionary....



mcow, they dont give a ratass if you single or married, if it is a compensated transaction.

for freebie, fuck buddies, privatisation; that;s another story.




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a rule for me is i never have my ring on with a WG, if she asks i do tell her im married
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Reply #1 mcow's post

I'd recommend you to wear it as the girls don't care but it will help you avoid some of the girls getting to clingy.  Most of the girls in the bar scene will jump at the chance of arelationship with a westerner, in fact for most it is the ultimate goal.  Most girls won't mind that you are married and just want a one night thing for a small fee but they will getpissed off if you lead them on and then they discover you are married.
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Originally posted by WWHK at 31-5-2012 10:54
I'd recommend you to wear it as the girls don't care but it will help you avoid some of the girls getting to clingy.  Most of the girls in the bar scene will jump at the chance of arelationship with a westerner, in fact for most it is the ultimate goal.  Most girls won't mind that you are married and just want a one night thing for a small fee but they will getpissed off if you lead them on and then they discover you are married....

I recommend that you wear it, too...  but not for this reason.  If you wear it, you will never have to remember to put it back on!  If you ever take it off and forget to put it back on, I assure you that shit will fly when you get home...

Have fun, CGP

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Hahah. Thanks.  I'm really forgetful and I know that if I take it off, I'm probably going to lose it. I'm probably going to stick with WGs and assume they don't care.  Not much of a bar scene person.  I'm not going to stick out to much since I'm Asian, so at first glance, they not going to think I'm a westerner.
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I'm married but never wear a ring because I don't like jewelry.

Wife is okay with it.

Thing to note is, as mentioned, a lot of the Filipinos are looking for their dream westerner to swoop them off their feet and take them to paradise (aka the USA )

I had one Filipino from the bar eyeing my finger... 20th question was "are you married?

I was honest with her and told her the truth as I don't believe in leading girls on.

She gave me a SOB story about one guy who lead her on just for free sex, and I felt pretty sorry for the girl since she was otherwise such a nice person.
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All the time

I have my ring all the time.

Never had an issue with it.
If asked I tell I'm married.

As some the WG's have had kids or been married
we have had some lomg talks about these issues.

Just do how you feel comfortable.
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Reply #1 mcow's post

i try not to wear my ring when i punt.
not because of the reasons stated above...

but because i don't want to lose my ring~!
especially during sauna sessions!

a few years back, my ring slipped out in the bathtub in Darling Sauna.
I only realised after i left the place.
it was soooo embarrassing.. to go back to a sauna place and look for wedding ring.
luckily they found it for me.

another time i went for Nuru massage.
my ring also slipped out.
luckily the girl saw it and told me about it.

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QUOTE:
Originally posted by dogthom at 31-5-2012 13:29
... She gave me a SOB story ...

do tell: did she have free sex with you after you listened to her story??  

Honestly, wear the ring unless you're afraid of losing it, in which case leave it at home

It's amazed me how many girls just don't care, and some even prefer to fuck an attached guy ... some do it for the feeling of seducing him and stealing another woman's man, or for the lack of post-coital complications the same way as we punt, or for experience and skill, or some other reason ... just go for it

it's a lot more fun with a girl that wants you as you are, not as some sort of a tacit role-player

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Kim53   31-5-2012 18:25  Karma  +2   Well said. And we hear all kind of stories from the girls.




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Originally posted by DArtagnan at 31-5-2012 17:18


do tell: did she have free sex with you after you listened to her story??  

  ...

Nope, she still cost me 1500 HK

Maybe I should have charged her for listening to her problems
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I always take the ring off and of course I'm always paranoid about losing it.

I went to the jeweler from whom she purchased it, a friend of mine, and have purchased a "spare" Of the exact same specifications which she does not know about . I can always use it if needed. sometimes I switch them back and forth so both of them looked equally scratched up and my spare would not look like a new shiny ring if I really have to start wearing it

you never know when you will need it. I suppose if I lost my ring I could say I got mugged on a business trip (I fly to New York frequently) but this excuse would not "fly" in Hong Kong

Not sure how this happened, in my father's generation men did not wear wedding rings

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I usually take mine off. But during my last punt my ring fell out of my pants pocket while my pants were hanging over a hanger. I recognised the sound of my ring falling on the ground so I panicked a bit (more because I thought I might lose my ring than anything). The girl saw it first. She just bent over, picked it up and cheerily handed it back to me as if I'd dropped anything else. Not a hint of interest in my marital status at all. The rest of our transaction went as normal.

So given my brief scare, I'm inclined to agree with Intenseslacker from now on: wearing it costs you nothing, but taking it off risks you losing it. If you really don't want it seen, at least leave it somewhere safe before you go out for your punt.
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I dont' think they care, although I have had a few girls ask me if I have a GF or if I'm married, and why I am punting... dunno why they would be interested in knowing.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by DArtagnan at 30-5-2012 08:49 PM
most of them pretty much assume you're married

curious why that is?

QUOTE:
Originally posted by DArtagnan at 31-5-2012 04:18 AM
It's amazed me how many girls just don't care, and some even prefer to fuck an attached guy ... some do it for the feeling of seducing him and stealing another woman's man, or for the lack of post-coital complications the same way as we punt, or for experience and skill, or some other reason ... just go for it

That is true too. Wedding rings is a potential chick magnet


At the end, there is no etiquette.  Do whatever.  Wear it or not doesn't matter.  Once it becomes personal, its might matter. Then again sometimes it doesn't matter....why?  Some women want to be a taken off the market a la mistress.  Get paid & focus on one guy oppose to 100000 guys
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