Was thinking about this today and considering what punting in all its forms has given me.

Aside from the obvious I imagine its made me more adventurous with women and less shy/more confident with members of the opposite sex.

If I found out someone close to me were thinking of/had punted would I encourage it or would I warn them of the difficulties (the possible double lives, the STD paranoia, the having to keep a reality check in the face of beautiful women pretending to enjoy themselves as much as me).

What has punting given you? * and if you had your time again, would you do it again?


*just reading that back i think that last question is going to encourage responses of "an itch that won't go away/a need for medical intervention" but the intent of the question is serious.

Will you still be thinking of this after you reach ra 30?  Jk

Jokes aside, punting allows me to bang some chiks that I would never get to bang.  That's pretty much it.

2 reasons:

1)  to me it's an adventure to explore the unknown.  the whole sex industry fascinates me (from amsterdam to 141 walk ups) and i get a rush doing it.  when i was more naive id think people like us were immoral and scumbags, but then i grew up.  i am already afraid of the day when i don't get a rush anymore.

2)  it's also more economical, i could take a girl out on a few dates, put up with her BS etc., but with this its wham bam thank you mam.  i used to think having sex with WGs was empty and hollow (well it is), but i realized sex with non-WGs are pretty much the same thing and can be just as selfish and dishonest.  its just one is upfront with who they are while the other hides their motives (ie. money).

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Many bros around here must be having different reasons for this. But I am sure that one reason must be common among all of us. And that is Living your Fantasies for real and getting satisfied.

When you compare WGs with your normal girl friends and dates, you can't really order your girlfriend to give a BBBJ in between when you are doing her in doggy style. But in this case, you can. What exactly I mean to say here is that, it becomes all about you and what you really want to do.
Also, when you take some girl out on a few dates to expensive restaurants and go shopping with her and blah blah blah... At the end of the day, you will be spending more money for having sex with your date than having sex with WGs. In fact, you can have a fucking threesome with all the money you spend on your date which, I am sure will be more satisfying.

I always enjoy the sexperience banging different chicks and fullfilling sexacapdes beyond my wildess dream.

For me it's the obvious, I personally prefer trying to pick up someone, but sometimes just too lazy or incapable and need a release.

Other than that, pure curiosity and what an experience with a WG will bring, will it be a GFE or PSE

It's about being serviced by someone that knows what they're doing. An example would be a deep vein massage........no girl you meet, date marry will hv these type of skills I would imagine.

Enjoying something different one would say

you get to experience a wide variety of different girls. well more than an avg guy's lifetime's worth. with about 1000x less work than you need to put out if you were to go the civilian route.so, in a nutshell you get life experience. And if you wanna go further, you can say that you'll appreciate what your SO provides you - not just in sex, but in emotional support, friendship, etc, etc, blah blah.

Its a cure for "grass is greener on the other side" syndrome. I think it can actually calm a guy down and save a marriage ironically!!!!
(unless you have a REAL BITCH of an SO!)

So that you can appreciate your SO more? What happens when you end up getting too emotionally deep into a girl, which I'm sure many fellows have on this board, and it ends up ruining them emotionally where they end up dumping their SO for the WG and end the end when the WG leaves they leave with nothing?

Just posing a question that's all. Not saying that this happens often. But sometimes...sometimes guys do fall head over heels for a WG. How do we take ourselves out from that fantasy?

That's always the fine line right? Not to get emotionally involved with a WG if you have a SO that you love.

To a degree I can understand bonkers89 comment about saving a marriage, i.e. not getting a divorce because you now can get physical needs and/or emotional needs from another person other than your SO. As guys we have these physical needs, sow our oats etc. Therefore, if our SO isn't able to meet those needs sometimes punting can fulfill that while you still love your SO. Once it gets emotional with a WG then it's a very slippery slope IMO. And the only thing about "saving the marriage" is just that you don't go through a messy divorce, save face, save pain for children if any...but it's all about convenience at that point because I can't believe one can truly be love with a SO when both physical and emotional needs are being met by someone else.

My 2 cents, probably not quite your 2 renminbi though

For me.... It's simply enjoying some closeness whilst being away.... With the added bonus of having some fun while I'm at it.

Other times... It's just enjoying the expertise of some of the providers. You might have a great cook at home... But once in a while you'll want to indulge in the culinary expertise of a really excellent chef.

And sometimes... You just gotta try something new. Haha

~UD

I don't know about the other guys here, I know most of the punters are cheating on their SO's and such; but since I don't got a girlfriend or SO, I punt to have sex when I'm single. I wouldn't be punting if I was in a relationship though, so might as well enjoy it while I still can.

Also, it helps get you more comfortable with the opposite sex.

I personally find women quite boring (outside of the bedroom) and they probably feel the same way about me. So punting is a great solution; everyone wins.

SexNavigator, I would like to register my concurrence that 3P is more fun than eating out or shopping. For that matter, so is 2P

flinger, I get your point above. One question that really sticks in my mind on a related topic is whether monogamous marriage is even the natural state for a guy to be in. I don't mean that in some macho or sexist way but, as you noted, males are not biologically programmed to only mate w/ one woman yet that's the standard (and expected) structure in most parts of the world these days. Interesting how when looks back on history that was NOT usually the case (including, of course, in China where having a 2nd, 3rd wife was quite common well into the 20th century for those with sufficient resources to support more than one. Likewise, Japan categorized women into so-called "public" (ie, those available at inns to any man w/ sufficient means) and "private" (ie, equivalent to wives) until the Meiji Restoration. Anyway, getting late and time to get some sleep. Interesting topic in this thread though.

Ha!  So did I until I was in my early 40s, and I learned to look at life from a woman's point of view.  Women are actually very interesting, so long as you don't expect them to act like men.  It was not until I appreciated that fact that sex became really fun and rewarding...

Have fun, CGP

punting started with me in 1968 US navy Subic Bay Philippines, and it has been fantastic...wish I did it more in the 70's and 80's..but in the
last 22 years I have been very active and find it better than any other sport, fun to meet all working ladies and enjoy all aspects of the chase and different sex, with 1-2 -3 or 4...over 4 is really hard, no room in the bed. I now really have a hard time not to take 2 every time as it always is more fun when she has a friend to play and talk to.

later this month I have my 2 rooms booked in Cebu to take 3 ladies from Manila for four days of fun and sun, with lots of clean sex.......and I feel good just had a physical done and I am still a clean healthy man..

no guilt ever.......only time I have guilt is when I am in Asia and take a "rest" night with no lady...hard to sleep with out a young tiny
38 kilo lady next to me...

my passport is thick with memories and that every page is good history.....and it is good for the economy and the ladies family

I think I want to explore sex, and hot girls and have the fun before i might get into a serious relationship and never get out of it..

I've got to be loyal to my partner so experience all the fun before its too late..!!

and i know many of u guys are.. hiding it from them.. he he ..

Perhaps, but I suspect the opposite could be also true, in the sense that it's like shooting fish in a barrel and that could make you lose the edge when it comes to trying to pick up civilians. Personally, I don't think mongering has helped me in my interactions with civvie gals... In fact if anything, for example, I sometimes have to remind myself I can't just go and put my arm around some girl's waist just like that, especially at work!

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This is a huge problem of mine - I can't find a girl interesting enough to settle down with.  I'm approaching 30 and right now the last few girls to get my attention where older than me (mid 30s).  The only problem is I prefer to date younger (not too young, maybe 25-26) but I just don't get anything out of dating them.  Maybe it's just bad luck I don't know.