My SO has been away for work, which is not regular, but normal enough.  We both travel, me much more than her.  

Anyway, I've had my time to play.  I mostly saw regulars, but also hit the bars for some new blood.  

Umm.., Bored!

My heart was just not in it. I saw a Thai beauty and tried to make a move and she blew me off.  Even WG's can sense it.  Bored.

I have already fucked the hottest gals I could ever have hoped too.

I fucked the wildest gals I couldn't have dreampt of. (Or they fucked me, as the case may be).

And also the most sensitive and sweetest gals.  Mmmm, I remember them most!

I don't feel any urge to go "crazier" such as ladyboys or S&M or  whatnot.  Just not my thing.  Instead....., I might actually just stop.   Yeah I screwed my beloved Joann today.   She fucks my mind up everytime. (Yeah, she might be the catalyst for my thoughts) but...,    I feel done with her too.  Tired of playing this game we have going.  She's tied.  So am I.  Enough!  

Time to just relax this part of my brain.

So, I'll hit WanChai with a vengeance on the weekend to see if I have the stomach for it still.  Got a hunch I might be bailing early.

Its a sign of OVERSEX perhaps you need to revitalize yourself first and let those eargerness come back to life once more.

Too much steak and no hamburgers at all - mebbe?

And also, I notice that you do tend to go overboard with the GFE/BFE thing when with WG's - and perhaps you're just too tired with all the emotional dramas that you seem to experience time and time again with your gals?

Perhaps time to hit the HG/WG/Mongkok Yellow board places and just have some pure unadulterated sex WITHOUT all the emotions/drama/GFE/BFE?

Just an observation.

SEAJ

i go into little funks myself where i just lost interest.  trust me...take a 3 month break and youll be staring at the calendar counting days backwards till its over.

Ya know SEAj, I think you hit the nail on the head.  

The issue, perhaps, is the "emotional effort" involved (Hmmm, I got no idea if "emotional effort" is a real term, but I like it..., I'll use it on my upcoming  "Dr. Phil of Wanchai" show.  hehe (thx to Petay for that idea)).

Anyway, I have kinda burned out Hong Kong a bit, as half my time in the bars these days is spent hiding from gals I previously banged and/or explaining to them why I wont be taking them out.  This gets old quickly.

You are right that the overall energy I am exerting is actually pretty high.  

Hmmm, just do a Walkup, eh?  Just fuck, you say??  
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Well, just as I was writing this reply I received an SMS from Helen (a hot PRC squirter who I've been seeing for quite a while now).  Spectacular sex awaits..., and little drama with her.  She's a rather high-octane gal, mind you.  Hell of a fuck too....  

Okay:  decision made.  I'll go see Helen.  Then I'll relax for a bit.

What about going to Macao? I don't have much experience there as I have only been a few times. Because I am a somewhat "routine" kinda guy... last time I was there, surrounded by amazing talent, I ended up banging a Mongolian Topless Pole Dancer. Funny to look back at now actually because I talked her into spending overnight with me on a Friday andSaturday night and no money changed hands. It was a few days later I remembered I hand been buying her lady drinks all week trying to get into her pants and that probably hand more to do with it than her belief that I was "the one".

Anyway, what I meant to say is that maybe you need some shock treatment, a line up of 20 gorgeous woman? Bros with more Macao experience may be the solution.

Have you done KTV in China? If you go with friends that can be about as fun as it gets, especially when you are with mates you know well.

On the other hand, Hari's MGal is something I can recommend.

I think this feeling comes with anything whether it be games, WG's, alcohol and drugs. Its just part of a mans life. We discover something at amuses us for a while sometimes a week, sometimes a month sometimes a few years but in the end there are not many addictions of this nature that truly last a life time. I mean how people do you know that play online games for 50+ years or drink alcohol extensively for 50+ years. It is just not common and naturally our bodies and we get bored of it or sometimes the results of such activities may be come pointless to us, ie: the satisfaction of banging the hottest women. For myself this day has not come yet and i hope it never comes.... Sometimes your boredom of a certain activity may last a month, may last a year, or may last your entire life. What ever it is, all control of your actions and consequences are in your hands!!! If you want to stop you can, if you want to continue and grind through the boredom you can!!
Whatever you do, practice safe sex and NEVER pay before the service!! =)

Not my fault!!

We meet at the Beverley.  She enters looking as professional as always - a crisp business suit tailored to kill.  I wonder what the people she works with thinks about her - she ALWAYS dresses very professionally but super, ultra hot.  Kinda like a "Bond Girl" if you could image it (referring to 007 James Bond in case the referance doesnt translate).  She strikes me this way, actually, and I think of her as my Bond Girl, and I would easily take her anywhere to meet anyone.  Hell, she's got a lot more class and style than I do!!  Fuck she's hot.

Anyway..., I know what she likes.  We have a blast and all is good until I pull out - to discover that the condom broke.  Fuckin hell!!  I came inside her.  Damn.

She freaked out beyond reason.  Totally LOST HER MIND!  "I will get pregnant!!  The only time a man cummed inside me I got pregnant!!! I will get fired if I get pregnant!!!"  Shit..., I must admit this freaked me out aswell.  I try to explain the "day-after pill", but she continues... "I NEVER take medicine!!!!  Medecine is bad and evil!!".  (Oh oh....).  Now I am getting quite worried that she wont take care of this and WILL get pregnant!

Anyway, I convince her to hit the pharmacy - either that or have my baby.  She said she will and after she left apologized 100 times via SMS for freaking out.  

Me?  Well, I am now surfing the net looking for apporpiate "baby-Bond" pajamas.  Shite.  So much for my sex-only punt!

Yeah... I know..

But turns out the day wasnt done.  Helen leaves.  I shower. About to leave and check my phone.  An SMS from my Joann (THE Joann, the one I am and have been smitten over for 3 damn years) asking me where I am and why I am late??

Ummm, late?  Oh shit.....   right!  I was supposed to meet her today...

Hmmmm.  I'm a bit spent to be truthful.  

But I am hungry, and I cant miss an an opportunity to see Joann.

We meet at CintaJ for a mix of authentic Thai, Filipina, and Indonesian food.  (Any you Bro's ever been there?  On Jaffe road.  Good food, good price, big place, but always packed at lunch time.  A GREAT spot for meeting off-duty hookers too - all the Filipinas, Indonesians and Thai gals in WanChai eat here.)  (I just gave away a valuable secret!).  Dont ruin it for me, Bros....  hehe

Damn....., Joann just blows my mind.  I am not myself when around her.  I have never been a jealous man my entire life.., but with her I am.  Weird.  

We eat, laugh, flirt under the table, and have a good time.  As I have written elsewhere on this forum she is married now (wasnt when we met - she was a WG in Amazonia).  I remain surprised we still meet.  I figured she would have said bye bye a long time ago.  Anyway, we finish and I ask her what she wants to do -- play some pool, grab a drink somewhere..., she laughs at me and says "Hell no..., lets get a room!".

Enough time has elapsed that I am plenty raring to go again - with her anyway.  Now, Joann will ONLY go to the Beverley - the discreteness of this hotel due to the restaurants on the first 3 floors makes her feel safe.  I cringe a bit as I just left the place with Helen.  But whatever....  Back I go.  They know me so well there and know I am a major slut.

A simply awesome round of sex with her.  I said it before, but it's true --- her and me are wired together electrically.  I have simply never had better sex.  Her body blows my mind, her skin, her moves, her touch......, it all just works.  She says exactly the same thing --- but with her I believe it... I know exactly what she means.  I know she's hooked on me too.  

So... finally, I leave to get some work done.  Man... I didnt mean to blow half the day away.  A late nite bekons.  (I wrote this at the office waiting for a call from the US - it's damn near 11:30pm!!).

Morning after pill is harmful to girls body, but it makes guys feel so secure that it exists.

I googled the drugs - pretty damn safe for women...

- essentially, the literature states that longterm side effects are all-but-non-existant, and the only common short-term side-effect is  nausea.  Not sure where you got your data from????

It is clear that a pregnancy (or a pissed off boyfriend) will affect a woman's body far more than these emergency contraceptives (ECs).  In fact, all these drugs are just higher-doses of the hormones used in the "pill" that women have been taking daily since the 1960s.

Read below:

Safety
Existing pregnancy is not a contraindication in terms of safety, as there is no known harm to the woman,\\..[31][33][34][35][36][37][38][39]

The World Health Organization (WHO) lists no medical condition for which the risks of emergency contraceptive pills outweigh the benefits.[37] The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) and experts on emergency contraception have concluded that progestin-only ECPs may be preferable to combined ECPs containing estrogen in women with a history of blood clots, stroke, or migraine.[31][33][34]

The AAP, American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), U.S. Food and Drug Administration, WHO, Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists, and other experts on emergency contraception state that there are no medical conditions in which progestin-only ECPs are contraindicated.[31][33][34][35][36][37][38] RCOG specifically note current venous thromboembolism, current or past history of breast cancer, inflammatory bowel disease, and acute intermittent porphyria as conditions where the advantages of using emergency contraceptive pills generally outweigh the theoretical or proven risks.[38]

The herbal preparation of St John's wort and some enzyme-inducing drugs (e.g. anticonvulsants or rifampicin) may reduce the effectiveness of ECP, and a larger dose may be required.[40][41]

The AAP, ACOG, FDA, WHO, RCOG, and experts on emergency contraception have concluded that ECPs, like all other contraceptives, reduce the absolute risk of ectopic pregnancy by preventing pregnancies, and that the best available evidence, obtained from over 7,800 women in randomized controlled trials, indicates there is no increase in the relative risk of ectopic pregnancy in women who become pregnant after using progestin-only ECPs.[31][33][34][35][36][37][38][39][40][42]

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