So, here's my take for a newbie...

Went high class - Kim in Tsim Sha Tsui at $1K!.  She was good, hot looking and not far from her pictures on the site.

But, here's the rub.  I didn't come -  not even close despite more than an hour with her and with a hard on before we got in the obligatory shower at the start of the session!  Neither the BBBJ nor the 69 worked - two positions that are almost guaranteed to get me shooting my load.  By the way, I shot my load with my own effort within minutes of returning to my apartment!

So why?  Was she worse than my wife?

The answer is "No"!  The missing piece was enjoyment.  Was she enjoying it?  My problem was that she was not enjoying it, so I couldn't!
Is this because I'm ugly?  Again, "No"!  I'm fit, toned and very good looking as all my gay mates keep telling me!

So, will I try a WG again?  Unlikely as I seriously think that, for me, if the girl is not enjoying the session than I cannot.  Something for you sensitive types to think about...

For me, it's the first and the last time that I will try a WG - I need a little more than a tight bod, good looks and a BBBJ (even with the promise of a swallow)!

Amex....

I read your post twice, and I shook my head both times.  A truly odd post.

First off, it's a weird first post on the board.  If it was your first and last time, why come to a mongering community to give feedback?   I get a weird feeling of anterior motives.  The bells are ringing.  What I fear is a bad attempt at a negative shill for the girl.  Perhaps she is an ex-lover or maybe a WG that won't be your girlfriend, or wouldn't do anal or something foryou.  It's really weird as hell for you to be here reporting this if you aren't going to any more WG.

Just as importantly, if you have been paying attention to this community, you will know that some girls are into it, and some girls are not.  You are married.  I am sure that your wife (oreven you) at times have had the "they want it more than I do" sex.  It's part of many relationships where the wife isn't really into it, but will get you off somehow just to get you to sleep.  It happens to almost everyone at some point.  WG are people, and they have days like that sessions like that, etc.

Your newbie status doesn't really add up either.  Clearly you know the steps in the process, you hit a higher end girl, you got the booking, got to the place, and you know what is going on.  The "obligatory shower" isn't always that obvious to a newb, and you seem to have managed to communicate your desires well enough to get BBBJ and 69 in the session. Perhaps that in itself is a clue, maybe you are a little more demanding than some clients, to the point that the girl shuts down.

I am more leaning towards the first.  I don't think you are a newbie.  I really think you have an axe to grind.  Maybe I am wrong, but it just all doesn't add up right.

The real question you must ask yourself why she didn't enjoy the session with YOU ?
Next time try to get feeling and chemistry with the girl and you will get a better session so far...

In my eyes chemistry of feelings is the key, if you want to play ball with a dog and he doesn't interested, do you will launch the ball ?

Next time try to be more than an "ordinary" daily costumer

An odd post indeed.  
Good news is that if punting isn't for you you are going to save heaps of money!
Could be with all those gay mates of yours telling you how good looking you are, you are in the closet and maybe give one of of them a run and see how you go. (LOL)

I too can't understand it.  You are fit, toned and very good looking, and yet she didn't enjoy sex with you.  What could be wrong with her.

It's a shame that your wife does not satisfy sufficiently to keep you away from WG and yet you can only enjoy it if they do...

Truly a dilemma.

I have been turning you problem over in my mind till , most WGs have sex many times a day, how can they then truly enjoy sex?

The answer is obvious, have sex with a woman who hasn't had sex in years.

How about one of the old biddies from happy foot, find one that has been widowed and make your move.  Perhaps then you can come.  And if not, hell they probably will.  You might even give you a free massage afterwards.

Report back, but please, no pictures.

I am incline to agree with halfclover!

Since it was your first time it could be you are nervous...It reminds me of my Uni days on some drunken nights or when i have a new FB..we F*cked but i did not come....But next round i was FunFUCKtiscal~! .

as the saying goes..." once beaten, twice shy, three times is a charm!"..there might be hope yet

Hey Amex,

Maybe there's a reason you have so many gay mates??   


Don't take it personally, just poking fun here.  There's definitely plenty of guys here that will do anything that moves, and others that like a 'connection.'  Do what works for you; gay, straight, pervey or whatever!   

And I too am a bit puzzled by a one-hit-wonder professing on this here site . . .

There is no secret here....your most definitely just nervous...

Men of all age, regardless of fitness can't come when their tired/nervous/anxious...

Bascially I think you got the case of the 'yips'...

the next time to go see a WG...just relax and enjoy brother...your paying for it after all...

Most girls aren't going to bother to make you feel like their enjoying as well...you need to focus on YOU...as long as your having fun...it's all that matters....

i am willing to bet that wont be your last time at it...the wg had given you doubts about yourself and how she doesnt seem to be satisfied by you since your gay friends think you are the bomb and you just need approval from another girl other than your wife...