To make the story short, I will try to go straight to the point.

WEnt to the guangzhou fair, did a WG @ the massage place  Got a CBJ and all protected sex.

WEnt to shenzhen a few days later did a WG same thing, got a CBJ and all protected sex. Did not lick their private parts or anything. (all these mongering happen in the first few days of May)



This Tuesday had sex with Girlfriend. she gave me a CIM.

Next Day (wednesday) GF (within 24 hours) got a dry sore throat.

Thursday throat still painful but dry, got a headache and a small fever. But the fever and headache eventually went away within one day.

Today, throat still hurts but no more headache and fever. Energetic but her inner ears hurt a bit....

I am trying to make her see the doctor, but she insist its not serious. I ruled out herpes because from what I know if there is a Throat herpes the pain will be one of the worst in her life, with open sores in throat in mouth. She says she believes is just a inflammation in the throat.

But what worries me is that one of the symptons for woman is a mild sore throat only. All places say it happens in 2 - 10 days. I asked her when it started, she said around noon on Wednesday, approximately within 20 hours after I loaded in her mouth.

This has been bothering me a lot the last few days, I keep on screwing up my work, that I literally got a yelling and nearly a bitch slap from my boss today. I am so full of guilt right now, all his yelling went deaf in my years.

As for me I got no symptons, but since many of these STD can be no symptons, I am just really fucking worried now. I plan to go get my self check up asap, but just dont know where to. I have been to the Male Clinic in Wan Chai, but if I am correct they only do HIV and Herpes right? Will they check for gonorrhea too? If not where should I go check up? Any suggestion?

I am sooo full of guilt & fear right now, thinking of possibly transmitting something to my love one..... OMG i just feel terrible right now. Everyday now I just hope that her throat will clear and get better, but today still the throat still havent improve nor got worst.

SOrry for being dramatic.....but I just feel soo like shit right now......

I honestly think that you have more of an issue with being increidbly guilty minded for mongering than you do for anything else.   

Dry sore throats are a symptom of about 1000 different things, and in a place like HK, it is just as often caused by mouldy air conditional air as anything else (clean them things out!).    Her symptoms sound much more like a small throat infection (explains the headache and the fever) that her body is combating.   She may have even gotten a minor ear infection on the way by.  It can take 7 - 10 days for that sort of thing to clear.  

If she is still in significant pain at the end of the weekend, she might want to consider a doctor or at least a solid round of penicillin, just to help get rid of any infection.

Yeah Bro, if you are going to mentally collapse in guilt (to the point of screwing up your job) everytime your SO gets a sore throat I suggest you stop mongering immediately.  

A sore throat in HK?  Bro, the air is so bad and my A/C on so often my throat is sore 50% of the time.  (I exaggerate, but you get the point).   

Still, just go get tested!  Yes, the Men's Clinic will test for gonnorhea.  But if not, go to a hospital - it sounds like your conscience really needs closure!

Good luck.

Male Clinic in Wan Chai provide full std test, but a bit more expensive that the standard one.
http://www.famplan.org.hk/fpahk/ ... es.asp&nscref=9

good luck bro, but maybe it's nothing, start to get hot, many person got sick due to the a/c

Thanks for the info, I just made an ebooking just waiting for them to get back to me.  

I realize that I am collapsing on guilt. Its just that her sore throat came in such a sudden that is freaking me a out. She was perfectly fine on Tuesday.

Anyway I agree, I really should stop mongering, if I can't control guilt.

YES - stop screwing around if its gonna make you such an emotional wreck.  Not worth it.  Christ, you've already gone "all protected" so what more could you now do except just to lay off mongering!

And NOT to add more drama to your already confused state of mind - but a reality in some cases - have you ever thought that what's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander?  i.e. are you 100% sure that she didn't get her symptoms form SOMEBODY ELSE?

Hope you see where I'm going with this - that if your mongering is gonna get you into such anguish - just don't do it!

SEAJ

Have to add this....golden opportunity. Not everything is a Nike moment( ie just do it)! Hahaha!

Some facts.


What are the signs and symptoms of gonorrhea?
Some men with gonorrhea may have no symptoms at all. However, some men have signs or symptoms that appear one to fourteen days after infection. Symptoms and signs include a burning sensation when urinating, or a white, yellow, or green discharge from the penis. Sometimes men with gonorrhea get painful or swollen testicles.

In women, the symptoms of gonorrhea are often mild, but most women who are infected have no symptoms. Even when a woman has symptoms, they can be so non-specific as to be mistaken for a bladder or vaginal infection. The initial symptoms and signs in women include a painful or burning sensation when urinating, increased vaginal discharge, or vaginal bleeding between periods. Women with gonorrhea are at risk of developing serious complications from the infection, regardless of the presence or severity of symptoms.

Symptoms of rectal infection in both men and women may include discharge, anal itching, soreness, bleeding, or painful bowel movements. Rectal infection also may cause no symptoms. Infections in the throat may cause a sore throat, but usually causes no symptoms.

well just visited the doctor with GF, doc say she has inflammation on throat... I can only hope that the doc is right, since it can be missed quite easily.

I will be getting myself check up. ONce I get my results I will post it here, just in case I do get something and bros who tried a girl after me can get themselves check up asap too.

Forgive me, I am still being a bit paranoid but much better though.

It is just a sore throat.
Rinse some Listerine Menthol, all good.

Dont scared yourself....

I bang a WG last weekend.
MY GF gave me furious BBBJCIM on Sat nite.....next day blister on her lips.

She blame me .... I told her it was the fried food.

gonorrhea, herpes, STD never came into my head!!!!


Chillax bro.........you had too much CondomBJ, stop worrying..

Bro, the probability of an STD from a CBJ and protected sex is incredibly low.
I think your mind is playing tricks on you and your guilt is making everything seem bigger to you.
If this shit is making you that tense you need to ease up a bit on the punting. Sorry to tell you every time you punt there is a risk.
But you can lower the risk by using listerine and sanitary wipes.

well to make things worse for me now..... MY GF says that when she pees since ytd it kind of "hurt"

Did the doctor give her antibiotics or just anti-inflammatory meds?
Ask her to see a doctor again... possible UTI (urinary tract infection). Usually doctors have a very quick way to determine if she has a UTI... test strips in a sample of her Pee for nitrates.

Ask her to drink some cranberry juice too.

If she really has gotten UTI then your number one concern is NOT how she got it but to get it cured asap.

thanks for the info.... the doctor gave her anti inflammation  medication along with some durgs that fights the flu. Not Anti Biotics.

Agree with smokey that it sounds like a UTI. Only a doctor
can advise you, but typically a course of antibiotics of 7 days
or so is prescribed. Hopefully that will clear it up. Good luck!

Damn Hunter!  If it was so furious that she blistered her lips, what did your cock end up looking like?

And for the OP, did the girl put the condom on with her mouth?  If not, then there's no way she could have given you the clap with a CBJ.  Got do another session it will help you relax!