Watched the Pearl Report last night on Cougars - older women and younger guys.

He - 28 years old, 188 cm, 85 Kgs, golden blond locks, blue eyes, works out every other day at the gym, alternate days - Jazzcercise, Muai-Thai boxing and Yoga.
Don't need to be serious about making a salary

She 39-40 Y.O. Investment banker, 162 cm, 65 Kgs, spends most hours at the office, drinks too much when out and about, allows guy to stay at her Southside home and to send/pick her up from work in her Jaguar (Hmmmm..... Is there still Mercury Cougars? Is there still Mercuries?).

So - is the guy a WG??
Like in "Working Guy?"
Or is he a Civvie?

And if he's a WG - OK to discuss this WG??

SEAJ

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 27-4-2011 17:20 ]

He is a different type of WG but regardless still a WG. I know a guy living off older/mature OL. He is not exactly paid by the cougar but she provides everything for him. From clothings to food/wines, from watches to spending money. He is not exactly a WG but he move from different woman. Ie when she is bored he will move to another target or vice versa.
Please provide info cos I'm quite curious now. Haha

[ Last edited by  locus58 at 27-4-2011 16:00 ]

I'd call that a "working" relationship

Unless he/she is (i) renumerated specifically for each act of sex; and (ii) openly available to other interested punters, he/she is not a WG!

But we can still discuss their cavorting ways under Chat!

He's just a gigilo
everywhere he goes
people know the part
He's playing

Paid for every dance
selling each romance
every night some heart
betraying

There will come a day
youth will pass away
then what will they say
about him

When the end comes he knows
they'll say just a gigolo
as life goes on
without him

'Cause he ain't got nobody
nobody nobody cares for him
He's so sad and lonely
sad and lonely sad and lonely
Won't some sweet mama
come and take a chance with him
cause he ain't so bad

Did you know that they've actually got Ducks at the New Century in CP?

I know a guy who actually got himself a job there, was on a line-up three days in a row...and never got picked!
Him - he definitely WAS a WG - albeit never got to actually work!!

But you're saying that the proper definition here is that a WG MUST be/is limited to those who makes $$ each time?
Straight and narrow definition?

Did you happpen to see the questions Kaka posted up in #4 of
fuck budies/gf
SEAJ

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 27-4-2011 21:09 ]

I am kinda curious at what point he would quit the job due to never being picked

Well if the duck never got picked, then there's not going to be any report, so whether he is a WG or not is not a problem for this forum!

As Kaka has pointed out, there can be some grey areas and we have to approach them on a case-by-case basis when they appear. The main purpose for this is that we don't want civvie girls and boys to be mistaken as WGs. Otherwise what I outlined are some basic assumptions that can be made about WGs: they expect to be paid for sex & are not exclusive to just one guy.

That would be the great poet David Lee Roth singing "Just a Gigilo". 80's rock.

I call them "boy toys". I knew one that pretty much took a year off from college to be one... kinda shameful if you ask me, but I guess I'm a bit old fashioned in that sense.

[ Last edited by  barg123 at 28-4-2011 14:10 ]

Hey, everyone gotta make a living right. If we men can look for girls what's stopping the girls looking for men. A lady fren actually went to the KTV looking for ducks and they are not cheap. Plus they are not good looking with solid body. According to my fren they look like the average Joe with scrawny body.

Toy boy, Duck, Gigolo - whatever they call themselves - is surprisingly much more of a phenomenom in Asia vs. the West where all those ball breaking, bra burning, saggy-boobed dykes are at.  

Why is that you think?  All these Western feminists - do they even EVER acknowledge their own sensuality?

Even in the States, I actually know of a couple Duck bars in the SGV - both catering to the Asian women.

SEAJ

I know some of these type of women. They are very career orientated and it's difficult for them to find a partner because they don't see their partner as equal. They are the controlling type and they enjoy telling the Partner wat to do. I'm not a chavaunist or anything k. Everyone is entitle to look for wat they want. There will always be a giver and taker in every relationship.
For these women, a toy boy or duck or WG(hehehe) is perfect. They can have absolute control over them. And they will normally do wat is asked of them. Like this fren ofmine say call her ms A. Very career orientated but also very lonely. Her life revolve around her work. Not a lot of friends just collegue. Can't find a partner because her standard are just too high. So a toy boy is just the sort of thing she needs. Use them and dump them. For them is more of a emotional thing. For us guys, when we go punting it's definitely a sexual thing. Hahaha

SEAJ- sadly no. I like to spank rather than be spanked. Hahaha

[ Last edited by  locus58 at 28-4-2011 18:54 ]

Well I used to be the lamb to 4 cougars (2 were early 40s - one of whom had the hot body of a 20yo, the other was pretty fit too; and 2 in late 30s also with good sexy bodies). 3 were just FBs, but one used to take me on business trips all the time (she was my boss!), where in addition to the usual daytime business meetings, I also provided her with nocturnal meetings. I would always get big pay raises every year and good bonuses (though I'd like to think that my work performance was also quite good). Does that make me a toy boy in my younger days?

I read this is the case from my readings here? I am not HK local.....maybe asian women don't care about physical muscular appearance...I personally notice HK is full of rail thin skinny guys

First thing first - CONGRATULATIONS CARNAL CONQUEROR LOCUS58!!!

Second - you guys gotta watch this video "the Great Happiness Space" - about Ducks in Osaka!

http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XMjEzMjkxMjQw.html

(You may need to C+P this to your browser - somehow I think I may not have linked it properly)

Paladin pointed it out and it truly mesmerized me.

SEAJ

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 29-4-2011 01:25 ]

only when I go to various HK "establishments", I've been asked if I am LE or in the military!!   I get a shocked looked when I tell them my profession (I assure you its not shocking at all)

Hey I'm still waiting for your story regarding the post. Don't think I've forgotten it.

Huh?
What story and which post are you referring to?

Your #13 was just a comment and a bit of story telling wasn't it?

I'm missingthe plot here too!!
Ohmigawd!

SEAJ

Am referring to your original post #1.