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Post at 18-2-2011 20:02  Profile P.M. 
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When taking photos...

Hi Bros.  

I still have not taken a photo of a girl yet, but am planning to very soon.  I assume that girls won't want you to take photos unless it benefits them (i.e., free advertisement in the forums).  A few quick questions:

- do you tell the girls that you will be writing up a report on them?  Assuming you do,
- do you tell them before, during or after your session with them?
- do they generally give you better service knowing you will write a report?
- do you give them your username?

Thanks for any advice on the above.
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Reply #1 charliehorse's post

- do you tell the girls that you will be writing up a report on them?  Assuming you do,
No. They don't speak English, I don't speak Chinese. So I just assume that they know photos may end up in reports.

- do you tell them before, during or after your session with them?
I always as for photos after session. When I'm finishing on dressing up, but before paying (and tipping) her. Some as before session or even during, it's up to you and her.

- do they generally give you better service knowing you will write a report?
Don't know because can't communicate. I'd think not. Or that it would sound silly telling her you'll write a report beforehand.

- do you give them your username?
No.

Just snap photos and post them.   Even phone photos are good.
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Reply #2 SkinnyForum's post

Skinny, you're the expert on getting the girls to pose despite the lack of verbal communication between you and the WG. I have not logged in for awhile but have you ventured into China yet? There are lots of pretty girls there but these days they tend to be more reluctant to have their picture taken as compared to their HK counterparts.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by geoduck at 19-2-2011 15:20
have you ventured into China yet? There are lots of pretty girls there but these days they tend to be more reluctant to have their picture taken as compared to their HK counterparts.

I've only been to mainland once last fall. Tried to make a sauna trip weekend by myself, but failed as my target establishments were closed down for business. The one girl I did get to my hotel room did not allow photos.

The reports from China KTV's and saunas are very interesting, and the volume of selection seems stunning. Itching to go again, but next time should have some company.
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Post at 19-2-2011 21:22  Profile P.M. 
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Thanks for the info.  Just had a punt today and got the girl all tensed up when I talk about taking photos and writing a report.  I was stupid and talk about it before the session.  Here's the report:
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... &extra=page%3D1

Most likely it was because she was a local.  I'll try to ask only mainlanders and only after the session next time!

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QUOTE:
Originally posted by charliehorse at 2/18/11 07:02 AM
do you tell the girls that you will be writing up a report on them?

I never mention anything about writing a report, nor anything even knowing about reports and online sites.  If the girl asks, I just feign ignorance.

The reason being that saying that you're going to write a report can be taken as a threat -- As in, "If you don't do a good job then I'm going to tell everyone."  The girl's job (or anyone's job for that matter) should be 100% up to her without outside influence.  If she does a good job or bad job then that's how it is.  How would you feel if someone came to your workplace and told you that they're going to write a report about you for other customers to see?  It would influence your performance, sometimes for the better and sometimes worst.  Regardless, it becomes an external factor that shouldn't be there.

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SkinnyForum   20-2-2011 11:31  Acceptance  +1   Well said. No need for 'threat' elemen .
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Reply #6 Freelancer's post

it all depends on the chemistry. if you want to have a good session, then the lady has to feel comfortable with you. i speak mandarin, so we do quite a bit of chit chat.... eventually the question will be asked how you found out about her, then you can say from DB 141, or from the forum, and that will raise her curiosity, then depending on the mood, you can talk about reports and pics etc. i always just let it flow. if she's interested to take pics before, then so be it. if after, ok. if during the session, ok. i've had (and so have other bros) action shots during the session and that all came with chemistry.

the questions asked by OP charliehorse seem to be quite rigid. of course, if you're gonna walk in with a checklist of questions about pics and reports, then the chemistry will be shot
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I find girls are more receptive to their picture being taken after the session when there's more of a connection.
It's a bit like when a complete stranger goes up to you and say hey can we take a picture and you go
wth? pro's like celebs and 141girls probably won't go wth out loud anymore as they are more used to it, but
instead kindly decline. When you have spent time with them however, celeb or girl, declining a picture with
someone you have spent time with is a very unnatural thing to do. Not talking about xxx pics of course, that's another
world entirely.
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I once asked a WG who spoke no English about taking photos (hand gestures helped her understand my intention), and she asked in Cantonese "why".

I was speechless for a second then out of the blue just told her I want to show your photo to a friend.. I thought that was one dumb answer.

Needless to say she said no.. and I said, OK, no problem. But she nevertheless did not appear alarmed as she still wrote her number for me to keep.
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Reply #9 netfreak2k11's post

It's difficult to come up with a good answer out of the blue.

Next time when a WG asks you why you want to take a picture try, "because you're beautiful". She can't say no to that, being beautiful that is. And if she for some reason (low self-esteem/really does not want picture taken) says something like "no I'm not beautiful at all" you can follow it up with "Are you serious? Look at you, you're gorgeous!" After that you should be able to take all the pictures you want. Or if it does not work, you will have left a good impression with her by giving a sincere compliment.

[ Last edited by  Rance at 21-2-2011 21:43 ]
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Reply #10 Rance's post

OK great advice, i use you're beautiful and it works.

now we're waiting with bated breath for your reports and pics... dont keep us waiting  
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