Ok, in Canada I tipped if I like her and the service was above average ($20-$40CDN). Now since my inception to China tipping is not SOP. It's actually frowned upon and more often in the higher end establishments.
I brought a small gift for one 'cuz I knew it was her birthday. I'm a regular there and the manager starts giving me a hard time. I was like WTF? If I want to waste some money on her that's MY BUSINESS!
He could tell I was pissed-off and tries to tell me it's for my own protection. I'm like "What?" He said he's afraid the girls will start asking me (and then other clients to buy them things). I believed him because he was more concerned if she asked me to buy her something (she did not). In the end he said it's ok to give her the gift, but to please not do it again. He mentioned if I like a girl just see her again. In hind-sight this makes sense. Management is there to protect us. If the girl is good she clears an easy $30,000RMB+ a month. That's a lot for someone with zero education and living in China (for reference my secretary with a university degree makes 3000RMB/month).
There's also well known R&T place in Shanghai called Peacock. It used to be a decent play to get an oil massage + hand release. $200 Massage + $100 "tip" = $300RMB. It was ok, until a lot of foreigners started going there and tipping the girls $200RMB+ not knowing better. So now it's $400RMB for a Massage/HJ. If you throw in another hundred you can hit some of the saunas in SH. Therein lies the problem. People stopped going because the girls felt entitled to the $200RMB "tip" regardless if they deserved it or not. I'm not even going to go into them short-changing customers time...
Anyways, totally off track to my question.
How do tips work in HK? Is it like North American restaurants where you're expected to tip minimum 15% for lunch, 20% for dinner? (The waitress might as well eat with me).
Thanks in advance and if anyone's curious about how the Saunas in Shanghai operate let me know. I can make a more detailed post about how the girls get trained, fined, working schedules, etc.