Subject: Losing interest with your gf or wife?
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Post at 9-10-2007 14:20  Profile P.M. 
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Losing interest with your gf or wife?

I'm wondering if some bros here who've been in this hobby for some years share their experience on matter below:

Over time do you start to lose interest in having sex with your gf or wife?  I am talking about either the psychological/emotional and/or physical aspect of it (though they are quite connected).  eg. does get more difficult get aroused by your gf or wife?

Another way of asking the same question is: Does the intimacy or "faux intimacy" with 141 girls take away from interest and pleasure with a gf or wife.
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Post at 9-10-2007 14:38  Profile P.M. 
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7 years itch?






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I lose interest not because of the 141, but because of pressure from work and other stuff.

This is gonna make some of you throw up, but I find my gf the most attractive. That's why she's my gf.

But I still go out because I like the variety. I may have the 10 at home, but that doesn't mean I'm gonna give up the 9.99 and 9.998's out there.
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Post at 9-10-2007 15:07  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #3 English's post

Wow! you've get a pretty good set-up there.  nice going.
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Post at 9-10-2007 15:11  Profile P.M. 
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yeah and he leaves the 5's to the rest ..................






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Post at 9-10-2007 15:21  Profile P.M. 
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An interesting fact that I've recently come across: a man in a long term relationship experiences a significant drop in his testosterone levels compared to before entering said relationship. Though, I assume if you start mongering, the levels rise again.

Men are by nature promiscuous, the only reason we feel guilty about it is that civilization is necessarily built upon female morality.

Japanese women pretty much know that 1 year after marriage, the sex is over. There's even a great term for the once a month bonk that the guy grudgingly gives his wife; giri manko = obligatory pussy.

A foreign guy can do very well for himself servicing frustrated wives in Japan - not that I would ever do such a thing.
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Confucius says whatever you do, don't get caught ..............................






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Post at 9-10-2007 17:53  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #3 English's post

I agree with English.  My wife i still find v attractive after many years.  This just adds to the fn - and makes me better with her (she is the real beneficiary, although she would probably not think so!!!)
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Post at 9-10-2007 18:53  Profile P.M.  Yahoo!
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Reply #1 HeMan's post

To answer your question, intimacy with providers doesn't affect my interest or pleasure with the loved one. If anything, it enhances the interest or pleasure with the loved one. With the loved one, you have deeper connection and bond than a provider. These connection and bond take time to develop and grow. It is not something you can replace overnight.

Does that make sense?

Different men have different reasons to seek service from a provider. Therefore, answering your question will vary from person to person.
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Reply #5 sulasno's post

Leave the 5's for the rest? Chicks are not a perishable commodity dude. We can all share the 9.9s out there.

Just not sharing my 10.
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Chicks don't perish, they just depreciate ...........................






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Post at 9-10-2007 21:21  Profile P.M. 
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What a load of tosh!!!!!!!

I am just horny
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Reply #9 escritic's post

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this.
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Post at 12-10-2007 09:01  Profile P.M. 
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I did lose interest in my g/f'(s).  I've been jumping into relationship after relationship for the last ten years and I've had a few 10's for g/f's, but after a year of fucking the same pussy, I get bored, and I have to find a new one.  It starts with having trouble keeping it up during sex, I just get bored, and don't want to put the effort into it anymore.  Then I start mongering and cheating, and feel all guilty, and end up trying to over compensate by treating the g/f better.  I've finally realized what a vicious cycle it was for me.  Mongering is the best.  Variety is the spice of life!!!
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