Ive read a post about people going punting maybe 3+ times a week, but how often or frequently do you see the same HG/WG?

So far never (because this hobby just started 2 months ago ) and there are too many fishes to fry. Ask me in a year's time, I may have a different answer (perhaps not too, unless I have sunk ship).

For me, not very often... There have been a couple of girls who have seriously blown my mind. But even then, 3 return visits is my maximum...

There are just too many to get bogged down!

For me, rarely also - two times that i did, it was disastrous

1st - HG who was just really pissed that i went soft on her and then started moaning to her papa on the phone
and threw a tantrum

2nd - WG local, who i'd forgotten i'd visited before and i'd vowed never to visit again becos of her rushed/dead fish routine



both times, didnt come

I've made a return trip a few times, but after awhile I have to switch. We're not paying for girlfriends here

I have a couple of regular massage girls that I go to as a default. Maybe it's different with massage girls - once you find one that actually knows what she is doing, and when you know in your own body that your aches and sore muscles need to be properly fixed, then going where you know you are going to get a good rub-down is a safer bet than chancing someone new.

Still, I do also like to try new ones too...

Speaking for myself, I like to find a regular, but spice it up from time to time by checking out her competition.  

In my experience repeat sex ALWAYS improves with time.  OK, it only happens where there was chemistry in the first place!  But every girl likes to feel special, and showing up again is the best way to make her feel you liked what she did.  Especially if it's within a few days, she then tries even harder, does new stuff, concentrates on the stuff you liked most, etc.  

Quality beats quantity, especially when there's more quantity than you can ever handle in a lifetime.  The best business is repeat business - and that holds true with commercial sex also - what's good for the customer is good for the supplier and vice versa.  

But I know a lot of bros never revisit, so it's honestly something that's completely individual.  

So the REAL question is, what do YOU want?

Do you want to experience the thrill of the chase?  
Or do you want to discover the joys you can only ever experience after you've made a commitment and built depth?

In the U.S. I do more repeats than I do in HK.  I would also note that with massage/hj places, repeat visits can yield expanded services.  but with regular 141 and HG services I have yet to repeat.

I am with Dart.  I always want a regular so when I want some quick stress relief or whatever, I go to my regular where I know what the outcome and level of service is.  Then when I get energetic or have more time to explore I go find some new fare.  Sort of like eating out.  No time or quick meal go for the familiar, more time, more leasure, go explore new cuisine.

Spoken like a true Emperor, D'Art.

Thrill of the chase definitely excites me anytime. Getting the feeling that you are special from the WG, now that is a wonderful wonderful feeling (but truth be told, we will never know if we really are special to them).

Ah thanks guys for the input, but its harder to repeat visit a HG since they come and go is it?

Totally true - it's often out of your hands.  She's here for a month or so, and that's it.  

But there are also locals, who are going to be around for years and who value having a loyal fanbase, and are willing to work that bit harder to build up bragging rights with her colleagues about how many repeats she gets.

wow.. only started this new hobby two months ago and already Conqueror! Must've been a busy 2 months! LOL...

I'm with Dartagnan on this. Sex with anyone worth fucking always improves with time, and if it doesn't, it most likely wasn't as good as you thought it was. So if you've found someone really special, all the more reason to see her again.

Being a punter who actually likes women, I'm very much into the GFE - illusion or not. Great sex is always about more than just the wet slap of naked genitals; it's a kind of communion - the only church in which this devout atheist worships.  Fucking is my sole link to the divine, and what I crave is the nourishment that only sexual intimacy with another soul can provide. There are those who say they reserve intimacy for the SO and only visit WGs for their bodies, but I think they're deceiving themselves. If all you want is an orgasm, why not just jerk off? There's something about great sex with an attractive girl that satisfies more than just a need to shoot seed. Isn't that why guys always fall in love through sex?

The was this girl Faye Faye in the Fuk You Mansion in TST - a tall, lovely girl from HeiLongZhang to whom I felt a very strong attraction. I visited her 4 times in two weeks. The odd thing was that she wouldn't let me kiss her or taste her sweet twat, and yet sex with her was hugely satisfying. It turned out that she was only there for a few weeks substituting for a friend. She left while I was away from HK and I never saw her again. There have been a couple of others like her over the years. But even with those girls I only see once, the best sex is always with the ones with whom I feel some emotional connection. The sex is great precisely because I like them as people.

And isn't it because mongering isn't only about dicks and pussies that our relations with these girls sometimes become awkward, that we find ourselves having to dance around the emotional complications that lie just under the surface and threaten to complicate things?

But hey, if you're a sociopath, your mileage may differ.

[ Last edited by  Marsupial at 8-12-2009 22:45 ]

Mars, well put.  Couldn't have said it better.

I find in this hobby that while its fun to go for a lot of variety, I like to repeat with a select few who I may have clicked with.  While traveling, I have found multiple providers I like to repeat with in Thailand and Macau.  I still see other girls as well for excitement, but will go back to my repeats frequently.  At home, I have a handful of providers I see.  I only seek out new girls when one or more stops working or the experiences loses interest for me.

Sometimes, its so hard to find good providers, its really necessary to keep the good ones around.  I will keep one around as long as the sessions do not get stale and we do not get into a routine.  Of the girls I have seen, I estimate I repeated with about 25% - which is high I think but I do like to research first before picking a girl.  Of the 25%, I've seen 5+ times with about 5 girls.  Unfortunately, none are working anymore so I am in the hunt for some replacements.  Yeah, I've been doing this for a while.  

Unfortunately, all this variety has caused a bit of a problem.   I cannot seem to keeping it up for most girls after 4 or 5 sessions, sometimes even with Viagra.  I have been spoiled by this hobby and am always seeking the better, hotter, newer girls.

I think that after running around for a while, you'll want to settle down.  You feel out what you like in terms of appearance, service and personality.  Yes, all three.  Like what was previously said, it's not just about the orgasm.  A good combination of the three is crucial to a good experience - whether it be a geniune GFE or some S&M.

I never thought I'd be a regular about a month ago, but now I regularly visit two!  Why?  Well, it depends on my mood.  I'm not always feeling adventurous and often trying new girlis a waste of time and money.  For every great experience I've had, I've also had two mediocre and one bad one to go with it (approximately).  However, the two I visit regularly are always good to me (and yes, you do get better service as a regular), so I know I'll have a good time.  Now, every two weeks or so, i'll pay them a visit.

It's nice to have a regular if you can find one that satisfies all your needs.  I like regulars who not only can satisfy me every time but also gives a good, strong massage.  Those are the best ones and they're hard to find.  Believe me, I've been looking for awhile and have only found a few.  I also find that if you have a regular, the sex gets better and more intimate.  Things that they weren't into in the beginning seem to be ok after you know them regularly.

But you have to be careful too that they might get too attached to you.  Speaking for myself, as soon as that happens. I walk away as there are plenty of other fish in the sea.  For example, one girl wanted to go to my place.  Another one texted me, asking to loan her $5000 HKD for an emergency.  Another one wanted me to go shopping with her.  All no nos in my book.  I'm not interested in settling down with anyone so as soon as there is any hint of attachment, I'm the first one out the door :-)

ahhahah.. ruggers. Like what I said in one of my posts - I am addicted!!! Hard to stay away except for the tons of work which kept me busy these 2 weeks. Can't wait for my next session.