I guess the issue with lube is a personal preference. I personally hate the use of it in 'normal' intercourse (obvious need in anal
). On my most recent experience with a WG she bought out her little tube of KY and I asked her what it was for (I don't know, she might be offering me extra services!). She said she thinks I'll be too big and it'll hurt her little sister. I told her it'll be alright and if it really does hurt she can use it. Then I thought to myself 'nothing a good session of DATY won't sort out here!' Afterwards, she was as wet as a swimming pool so the KY was not needed.
So if you don't like it just tell the girl and persist but if it obviously isn't getting in (for whatever reason she ain't wet I don't know) then you have no choice but to get her lubed up!