I see many people asking the same questions I did a few years ago before I studied this forum, and I hear from girls what they don't like.

if you want something specific like rimming then use the references on this forum, and don't be shy to ask fellow mongers for contact info for the best girls.

Before any punting, if possible:

Shower first.  Yes you are going to shower anyways, but that first impression going into the shower with them is important and you don't want to be smelly anywhere.
Clean up excess body hair.  Not only pubes, but shave your ass too.  A good electric face or head razor does wonders. Girls aren't going to want to stick their tongue in your ass if it's a dirty jungle.
Brush your teeth and pop a few mints before your appointment.  Even though you usually use mouthwash in their shower the mint holds your breath and gives much more passionate DFK.
Trim your nails. Beyond that also get a nail file and round off any sharp or rough edges.  These small burrs can really make a girl react if touching their LS or their nipples.
Don't immediately grope.  Instead of grabbing their ass touch the small of their back and work down.  Kiss their necks and work down instead of just shoving your face on their tits.  
If you do get their number flirt with them constantly, even if you can't visit again right away you build up the visit and they will give extra special services and won't watch the clock as much.

Most importantly be respectful to them, guide their actions but never force their actions.  Treat them like princesses, compliment them constantly and this will pay off not only the same day but in the long run if you see them again.

Your advice + consistency with the same girl will definitely work.

As the old saying goes "Drop by drop you break the rock".

Also don’t be pushy and weird as soon as you walk in, I’ve been in AMPs where someone walks in basically yelling if they do HE we are all adults here and need to respect these providers

All good tips for sure. I also find that if you enjoy to DATY most girls, especially asian ones, prefer to not have any stubble or beard. Treat them with respect and as people and build that rapport.

All solid advice! Especially filing nails down. I recently learned to do this last year and it’s made a world of difference.

I’d add to invest in a fragrance also. Hit your upper neck / jawbone area since this area usually doesn’t get wet during the shower. Women love nice smelling guys and this will stand out, especially during the smelly summer months.

And work out! It’ll help your sexual performance and being attractive yourself will help unlock more.

As an added bonus, do skincare. Pharrell made it cool. Cleanser, toner, serum and sunblock. I’m in my mid 30s and WGs always assume I’m in my mid/late 20s. If you don’t have the desire for a full routine, at least wear sunblock. Your older self will thank you.

[ Last edited by  waterbottlebear at 1-3-2025 21:10 ]

These are all good points!  And I certainly agree with all of them!

I would like to insist on the "how we talk with them" when we meet.  Think of posts where the guy complains that the girl was rude, would not talk much with him, was mechanical, was giving the cold shoulder.  We don't like that.  Same goes for them.  Yes they will provide you a service, but why not try to make it at least "not unpleasant" for the girl too?  

Smile lots!   Make jokes!  Be light hearted!  Don't touch them too early in the meeting, respect their bubble, even though you will be deep into it in a few minutes. Give them time to size you up, to warm up to you.  To want to have you closer to them.  Obviously not every girl is the same. Some will greet you with a generous kiss, it's probably their way to get into the mood asap.  Some will need more ice melting... Learn to read their non verbal cues...