For guys that do filming or photo taking options with their punts. Not sure how to position the phone other than holding it but it kind of gets in the way.

Do any experienced bros have any tips for how to work the camera?

I don’t have a lot of experience but it sounds like it would be worth looking at the dji rs3 or a similar kind of handheld gimbal. It coverts from a handle to a mini tripod but has stabilization too. You would still need a stable surface for when you put it down.

1) PLANNING!!
Whatever it is pictures or videos, with somebody you don’t know but who could be onboard or somebody who is already a “partner in crime”.
Plan everything. Where, what, …clothes, make up, caps,

2) Get a disposal burner phone (bare minimum setup. If needed, use public free WiFi) with no SIM where battery can be removed (only for that purpose).
Transfer to a safe laptop later by cable. Who knows.

3) Phones on mute!! A phone that rings is perfect to screw up a great video (if no DJ-ing after).

4) Clear the battlefield!
“Darling, can you please put all your shit in the closet there, not scattered all over the place!” A classic!!

5) On the bed, rotate by 180 degrees. The head of the bed is always nicer as a background than the door or other distracting stuff.   
Pile up 2 pillows under your head if recording BJ, grinding or riding.

6) Onsite, shoot more. Shoot as much as possible. You will sort out and trim after.
“No darling, we are not wasting time now to look at the pictures. We have to do that, that and that! Focus and get your gears.”
No worry, next time, you will have to repeat the same shit!

7) Lights: No damned pinkish / blueish lights. White and the more the better.

8) Depending on the action, you can record straight (BJ), or use a tripod with a remote control, or those phone holders for cars (very convenient).
But you need to test before the positioning.

9) Privacy: If ladies need privacy, then Venetian masks are great and lace mask is a minimum.
For you (not the main character), a white BDSM mask is better than a black one.

10) Motion sickness: If your partner is riding you, then practice makes perfect if she knows “her script”. Then you can hold the camera with 2 hands.
It is better to be used to hold it with one hand.

11) If at some point LB is supposed to “express himself”, plan ahead! Use wisely your …”energy”.
Do not waste your “bullets” / "potential offsprings" (thanks the Bro who got this one in my head!) for nothing.  
I am not young, so I do even more planning!!!

12) Be a gentleman and be mindful of the lady’s small defects (they all have).
Think about it before for dress code and framing.

That would be for starter…

11) The most difficult may simply be that both of you may be …ROFL!! It can be extremely fun!
  
I almost died ROFL on several occasions. Great bonus.
Once there was another lady in the room record a BJ. My hand was exploring deep under her skirt while she was advising the BJ performer. I was totally ROFL.
The “director” got “upset”, so to remind me my (passive) role, she went full-DFK on me! Everybody ROFL for few minutes, then back to “business”.


So it can be very enjoyable …and later when you think about all the “back scene”, you will ROFL even more.

One extra challenge: When you are with your SO and you think about those stunts, try not to burst out laughing. Easier said than done.