i know there is a lot of places and choice for lady friends
but i am thinking of connecting with a spa wg i had previously in hk.

was thinking of getting her to my hotel for a night if i can ( i got her line) but
my question is do i pay her or not or try her like shes a civvie
i asked her before if she also does this back home but she said she doesnt do this work in bkk (don't know if shes lying).

Don’t be a cheap ass and pay!

Agree.  Need to pay generously coz girls come out for money and money only

I'm going in January as well.

Does anyone know alternative to Poseidon?

I don't think it's unusual to only work abroad. That's my observation from getting to know a few Asian girls in New Zealand.  And I'd definitely give money to a girl on holiday...

yep. i was planning to give money in the end for her time.
but would you say ask her straight how much or do you set the amount
even if she doesnt work jobs there.

I think there are a few ways to play this, depending on how you feel about the girl - if your goal is to start a real relationship with her, then giving her money outright might send the wrong message.

If your goal is just to repeat with someone you had a good session with, then yes, give her some money. Now, how you do that... and how much you give her can vary...

1.) Ask her. Tell her how much you enjoyed your time with her and appreciate her spending time with you. Since she said she doesn't work at home, maybe say something like you would like to give her a gift, but not sure how much, see if she comes back with a number.

2.) Just give her what you gave her before at the Spa

3.) Offer her a night out - nice dinner, some shopping, and then give her a little money at the end (don't ask how much, just do what you think is right).

I always enjoy doing # 3 with girls I really like and want to repeat with, because it makes it more memorable. She will have something you bought for her, and will remember you for it.

thanks !

maybe i came off at beginning as im that cheap guy trying to undercut a hard working girl with initial post haha but you seem to get where i was going with it.

yes 3 does sound good. i might consider that. definately by no means want a relationship with a working girl or a girl thats worked before but i guess rent a girl with gfe.
seems like just renting an escort would be easier but reconnecting with someone you had good time with in past is a different vibe.

appreciate all the replies bros