I randomly ran across her profile a few years ago. But have never been to where she lives now. She's not "out" as a SW on Fb or Insta as far as I can tell.
We dated over the summer way back in the 90s when we were home from college for a month or so but lost touch when we went back to college. Just did some dry humping and making out. We haven't really talked since then. I kind of ghosted on her so it was pretty much my fault.
I've gotten screened by her but haven't revealed who I am. I'll be in her area in a few weeks.
I've talked to a SW friend and she
told me this was a bad idea and not to engage with her at all. Her reasons:
- I have no idea who she is, she could use our mutual FB connections to out me or blackmail me.
- She doesn't know me at all and she could will be suspicious for the same reasons above, will likely not agree to see me, and I'm just stirring up old shit.
There's really no way to thread this needle is there?
I just need to give up on this little fantasy I have, right?