Hello, I'm new to this forum. I discovered it through a google search.

This forum seems to focus on the Asian experience, which is what I'm looking for.

Anyways I'm looking to take a pure sex vacation. Right now I live in the USA. I frequently see local Korean escorts. They're pretty, clean, well dressed and offer great service. But I want something more. What's best place a white American guy can go?

For example I've been to Tijuana a few times. The girls look hot. But their service invariably sucks. Playful, flirty, yes - but a submissive service mentality isn't in their culture. You don't get that clean orderly apartment with shower.

Thailand and Philippines come to mind. But south east asian is a different look than porcelain skin k-girls. Also frankly these places are low class. Sewage running in the street, etc. I prefer a clean first world country after having already done the "off the beaten path" experience for many years.

I've considered Japan and this would be my first choice (clean, internet works, helpful English speakers, good food) but typically those places don't serve foreigners. I saw a recent video of a foreigner being rejected by 3 out of 4 places. So doing a trip based on these odds is risky.

I have no idea if Korea is the same way as Japan regarding foreigners. But that would be worth asking. If anyone knows, please fill me in.

Macau looks like a place worth considering. Chinese will have the light skin look I like and presumably be open to foreigners (Chinese only see green). I've also seen trip reports of foreigners going there. But again it's China, so service is expected to be hit and miss, generally lower. I've seen many videos of the infamous "Fish Bowl".

Europe has it's brothel friendly regions. But Europeans don't have the service mentality of K-Girls. Yes, hot white girls can look stunning but they're also typically more full of themselves.

I've looked into sex resorts also, ones that are built from the ground up explicitly for sex tourists. Most of these are in the dominican republic. The women have that dark trashy look. Where as I want the make-up, high heels, classy look. It would be truly awesome if someone made a k or j girl sex resort for foreigners (perhaps I am dreaming).

So my focus is on Asia. I'm really looking for a 5 star experience. So things that precede sex like sauna services or a nuru massage or good food is what I'm aiming for.

Based on what I've read these are places that come to mind and this is how I rank them. Can anyone make a case for a better place or ranking, based on what I want?

1. Macau
2. Japan (Yoshiwara)
3. Singapore
4. Hong Kong
5. Korea
6. Thailand

Why this order?

Macau is foreigner friendly and from reading the Sauna experience is all inclusive very relaxing. It's like eating a three course meal. However while the spa may be nice, the infrastructure of the city likely sucks like the rest of Chinese regions.

Japan's Yoshiwara looks nice, but from reports it still sounds hit and miss for foreigner acceptance. But the few reports I have read said the experience once you do get in is out of this world (supposing you have the money to spend). Japan would also have the nicest non-sex scenery (restaurants,shops, streets, etc) or maybe it is tied with Korea.

Singapore has 1st world logistics in place. And it sounds totally open to foreigners. Probably not as aesthetic as Japan/Korea but at least not low class. The girls also sound on par with Macau/China or better. But it sounds like the menu is limited to straightforward sex. I don't think I'll find the "sauna" or nuru massage experience like I see in Macau or Japan. I shouldn't expect anything more creative. Am I wrong?

Hong Kong sounds like a smaller scene of Macau. How does it compare to Macau? Can anyone vouch?

Korea seems like a less progressive (open to foreigner) and smaller version of Japan. How would anyone rank Japan Vs Korea?

Thailand sounds like it's the best price. But most of it's other perks are things not on my list. I've already done the free lancer/girlfriend/bar-girl experience. My focus would be exclusively on the "high end" clubs that cater to Japanese and Korean men. Would these even take westerners? Supposing I went there just for these clubs, are they worth it?

Any feedback would be great.

you sound like a racist … are you ?  

No I'm not racist. Or at least it wouldn't make sense if I was. I clearly have sex with women from all races. I'm also technically mixed race (though people just consider me white). And in any case, I'm discussing differences between people of the same race. So my focus is more granular than race. I'm honestly just looking for some practical suggestions. Can you help me out?

Mastov, I would actually suggest Thailand as top of your list instead.

You can avoid the bars and freelancers, but instead check into a nice 5 star hotel for a little over US$100-150 per night and be treated like a VIP. There are a lot of high end clubs / full service place that is foreign / farang friendly that is cater by Japanese and Korean businessmen. These places will cost THB 2,000 to 3,000 for short time to THB 5,000 to 6,000 for all night depend on quality.

Some places you can sing karaoke and drink with them and they will give you nice service.

Also getting around Bangkok is not as bad as you think. Yes traffic can be but the Skytrain and subway is very convenient nowadays.

Some of the Thai girls can have light colour skin so you can take your pick, and most of their services are good especially if you go to those places frequented by Japanese / Korean or Asians like Singaporeans and Chinese guys. I promise you after a couple of weeks in Thailand your nuts and wallet will be much lighter but you LB and mind will be totally satisfied!

sorry, not nitpicking, but racist people have sex or even rape girls of other races ... no ?


I thought you were talking about girls from other races ?


there's nothing wrong with Macau's infrastructure ... just like any good hotel or resort in SE Asia would surpass anything in Europe or America
so my advice is you should go to Macau, give HK a miss

[ Last edited by  twiceAweek at 5-9-2017 18:19 ]

Try Manila. Specifically stay in oritgas, makati, or taguig area
These are cbd area with 5 star ammnenities
For hi end escort try
Manila courtesans - they require you to stay in legit hotels (love hotels are not allowed)
Or
Stagmommas

Nurumasssage.ph for nuru

You can google them for more info

minimum woild be usd100 for three hours

Thanks sentry! Do you have any suggestions on hotels? What's best?

Also what would be the top/best clubs that typically Koreans/Japanese go to? Any names come to mind?

I'll start off with this, please step back from the keyboard for one minute and read what you typed in your first post.

While your intent may not be to come across as making racial judgements, it clearly reads that way. Just a call out, I'm a Caucasian American myself so I'm coming from that perspective.

Your bucketing of the people and countries comes off as objectification and even worse racist. I'll assume best intentions on your part and address some of your questions.

I've been to all of your listed options and honestly, I would say your perceptions are well off the mark. If you've been to all these places and hold these opinions then we will agree to disagree. If you're going off of YouTube videos as your source of intel, then you might want to heed the advice from the guys on here.

The members of the board are widely diversified in many ways, the least of which is our race. While this forum is in English, to assume that the members are all Caucasian English speakers is a short sighted assumption.

As referenced above, all your dreams can be found in Thailand. Macau has some cool places, but honestly, service there in my experience is poor in the saunas. Japan costs much and is limited for white boy options. I like to know I have access to the best opetion if I choose to pay for it, that doesn't happen in Japan. Korea has even less chance of delivering what you are seeking.

So, take a breath. Read before you post. Enjoy the massive amount of intel on this board and lastly, don't give these guys another reason to talk shit to me about Americans.

This is a big useless and unrelated topic. But for example I've met many white south Africans who will never have sex with non-whites. It's considered below them.  I obviously rubbed you and others the wrong way, not sure why. Maybe I'm too direct. In any case I was referring to my list which is all Asian:

1. Macau
2. Japan (Yoshiwara)
3. Singapore
4. Hong Kong
5. Korea
6. Thailand

Even if I am "racist", why do you let it upset you? From my first post you can clearly see Japanese are racist because they won't accept foreigners. This is a bummer but I'm not going to let it bother me. I'll carry on with my life and find something else to screw.

[ Last edited by  Mastov at 6-9-2017 12:26 ]

It doesn't upset us that you are racist, it is that it could offend other members of the board. That's the problem with your comments.

You making racist comments in my opinion just saves me having to learn anything about you. I don't have to invest any time in determining if you are an intelligent person, you're not.

You equate one group's racial bias as justification for your own. Not an educated argument really.

The fact that an objective group of people that know zero about you have almost universally agreed that your comments were racist doesn't bother you? Again, I'll go back to that not so intelligent comment I stated above.

Being direct isn't your problem. Being oblivious to the fact that you are making very racist and derogatory comments and then when challenged about those comments still trying to defend them, that's the problem.

We work on the simple basis that racist comments of any kind are not allowed and we will not allow you to register day one and degrade our other members with your comments.

My initial thought was you missed the context of your post and it came across wrong. Now, I see you're just a snowflake that thinks your shit doesn't stink and that anyone that fails to agree with you is just not seeing your point.

See ya!

I didn't really get the racist tone, but whatever. Not sure why the guy was banned. Overreaction me thinks.

Bros, from what I can read there might be a minor racist tone, but perhaps he has not been travelling outside the US much hence his ignorance on the cultures of other countries and etiquette in general.

I myself am 100% born and bred HK Chinese, having spent a good number of years studying and living in the UK, and with my career taking me across dozens of countries in Europe, Asia, Americas and Australasia I have pretty much punted in every country I have been with hundreds of girls over the years. Most of the fellow punters I come across are just normal guys who wants a bit of excitement outside their daily routine, but there is a small handful of assholes who are complete racists and in my opinion should be banned from travelling altogether outside their home country.

I guess Mastov is a reflection of the naivety from this white supremacist American culture that we sadly still see in 2017.

I agree.. not sure who banned him or why.. I think it might of sounded a little 'racist' but I think some people reacted a little too harshly.