Does anyone know of such a thing? Wondering where to find women interested in discrete affairs.

This company is coming to HK end of August.

I personally shy away from affairs per se, since they are intended to be affairs or the heart.  I much prefer a nice arrangement, which can be close and personal without any long-term intention.  Much safer, from my perspective...  If you are open to the latter concept, try...  www.seekingarrangement.com  

Have fun, CGP

you ever tried using seekingarragement in HK? i am also looking for ladies that aren't getting banged up every hour haha

I have tried it in HK...  But not with too much success.  I've probably had drinks with 6-8 women, most of which fizzled quickly (I am picky).  I did have one 23-year-old nurse come back to my place twice (once an overnight) before we ever broached the subject of compensation...

I have had much better luck in Bangkok.  I have been seeing a very hot 22-year-old college for the last year.  We get together 2-3 times a month (her schedule is hard) and f*ck our brains out.  In return, I give her 10,000 baht/month.  Works for me...    

Have fun, CGP

Ashley Madison started up.  Signed up but nothing yet.

Signedup for AshleyMadison.  Want to see if this is a viable way to get banged.

Let us know if you end up meeting any hot chicks who want to bang.  Bang wit Friends is back in the iPhone.  Upfortunately, no one is down to bang me.

I would suggest widen your amount of friends as it increases your bang with friend chance . But for me too dangerous as my SO is very watchy on every move I make. You know HK girls ;)

Anyone tried their membership and paid the vast amount of $1850 hkd???

Any good stories yet...tempted to enrol

being married , it is better to keep it all arms' length and p4p. Each side knows what they bring to the table and why they are there . the idea of "Mutually Assured Destruction"  that the other participant has a much to lose as you and so will be discrete is optimistic and wishful thinking and naive at best . There are plenty of wacko girls and stalkers and just vindictive ones who could make life tough for you.

also better to have a good time with a professional and keep your emotions out of it, use the big head for thinkin' and the little head for fxxkin.

Keep on mongering

Sounds very solid advice just the thought of having a civvie who is attached sounds more attractive to have sex with....and the site is very blackmail prone I believe for both parties like a sequel to that Michael Douglas movie not basic instinct the other bitch with a knife forgot the name....

Well it is true.

I just heard a story yesterday about someone within my business circle don't know very well but whom I understand has a wife back in the US but lives here, they are legally separated or something to that effect and stay together for purposes of their teenage children . He is not a real player but had a girlfriend here, who of course knew about the wife in the US. The wife in the US did not know about the girlfriend explicitly but always suspected something was up.

The guy was trying to do the right thing staying officially married to the wife for the kids in supporting the family, a real stand up guy, blah blah blah etc. the local girlfriend wanted a bit more, however, and pressed him to "get on with his life" and ditch the wife and marry her. He of course said “nothing doing I got the best of both worlds here. “

The girlfriend forced his hand one day by getting in contact with the wife and introducing herself to the wife as the Hong Kong girlfriend . The wife had a meltdown, took the kids, sued for divorce, and now has a fat divorce check and regular alimony and child support payments coming her way.

The guy, his fortune cut in half and is now burdened with more child support and alimony that he was previously paying out to support his wife and kids. He actually saves less money than he did before and he also works in the financial services industry which, unless you are one of the superstars, is not as lucrative as it used to be so his income side of the balance sheet has also taken a hit.

He then decides to marry the other girl in late 2007 right at the peak of the market crash. Over the ensuing for five years his job went nowhere and he netted no money after his hard work and paying his former family support, and of course the girlfriend now wife is not happy about this -- she was expecting the good times to be continued and to be supported in a manner similar to the manner in which he supported his US-based wife and kids.

So now no one is happy, the guy, his new wife, his old wife and kids (as alimony and child support payments have shrunk).

Keep it P4P. you pays now or you pays later.

Keep on mongering  

Interesting case....but these facts are based on people who make hookup a a regular thing, where I more prefer see it as a one night stand or two night stand.

Checked some profiles usually they mentioned about the lack of attention or a more sexual sex life the latter is more interesting Bro Jchow (previous post)enrolled the fee....any updates?

Banging for money is ok but sometimes u r lookin for cheap thrills...I gave up on skout too much of a hassle

I can't speak for the Hong Kong version, but I've had success on A.M.  You have to be careful though because they make a fake accounts to use up your credits.  Use you best judgement to determine if a profile is real.  If a girl initiates contact with you (and your profile picture is not even public), chances are... it's fake.

Care to share about ur profile? Are u Caucasian by any chance? How was the meet and where they all one night stands? Seems its a moneymaking site with loads of fake profiles ....

I'm Asian and my profile is rather truthful.  Remember that the girl has to believe that you're a real person as well.  For me specifically, I have a handful of real pictures that are private and my profile is a summary of what I'm looking for and why.  I find that saying you were recently in a serious relationship opens up a lot of opportunities for many reasons.

So far, I've had responses from a few ladies.  The key thing is that once they respond, the rest of your conversation is free.  So essentially, buying 100 credits gives you 20 "chances" to score.  I've spent 60 credits and got about 5 responses, one was looking for financial benefits and 3, unfortunately, were on the thick side.  Mind you, I'm also very cautious with who I send a message to.  They need to have an interesting profile and at least some private pictures.  Public pictures are preferred, but when it's too good to be true, I won't message them.  Let's be realistic here.

My success on the site has actually led to a nice fwb situation with an Asian girl about my age.  After chatting, we met up for lunch one day and that eventually led to "movie nights" at my place.

If you're interested in one nighters, I recommend CL in Hong Kong.  I've had success with visitors looking for a "tour guide".

I assume your single and not married? Addison is target group are mainly married people...so no movie nights at my home lol

Venue is rarely a huge problem.  If anything, I think girls prefer hotels, which are quite plentiful in Hong Kong...except on friday and saturday late nights, lol

Apparently Singapore is not amused by the concept of a site facilitating philandering.  At least overt solicitation of fooling around

http://www.usatoday.com/story/ne ... ey-madison/3483083/

Prudish in Singapore, even if by appearance only .............

Che'lu

One thing about these type of sites is...... what if your other half is playful as well..... and also heard about the same site......

I did sign up for the site (HK version), but only to see what the hype was about
From what i saw, most seem to good to be true, so if any of you did have good experiences with it, please share