Hi brothers,

I am planning my trip back to HK for early next year. I really want to find someone who will spend a few days with me. Preferably someone local who can also show me around too. Was thinking about bringing a regular over from the UK but she is unavailable at the time I would like. Any brothers make any suggestions for me.

Thank you.

I think you can easily find a companion on your first night that will be willing to hang during your trip.

If you meet a girl in a club any night but Sunday you should have no problem, avoid the DHs because they won't have the free time to show you around.  Also in my experience many of the DHs I've been with know very little outside of their neighborhood in HK.

Maybe get lucky and find a WG that is on a two week visa and is free during the day and has experience in HK.

Honestly, just skip the guide girl, sleep in, stay up all night and punt, punt, punt!

I'm in agreement with Jake, especially about avoiding a DH, with a proviso below,

Also probably best to avoid trying to get a local girl - they're too much in demand.  Possible, but require seriously high level game, and quite probably a lot of spending cash just to get her attention.  

But if you go to WanChai you could very well get a visiting WG who either knows HK or might like to explore together with you ...
... in your shoes my game plan would be to
  visit WC bars
  find a girl you get on with, take her ST
  if she's nice upgrade to over night
  then the next morning while you're having a nice breakfast together, ask her if she'd like to hang out with you until she has to work again

That way you have
  a) an exit strategy if she turns out to be uninspiring, and
  b) a good chance of getting exactly the company you want for free

Certainly, if you walk up to a girl and offer to take her time for two or three days, her eyes and ears will go "ka$hing"
But if you walk up after giving her a good time and some cash, and offer to entertain her while she's off duty, she'll see it completely differently

It's all in the presentation

Fallback plan, if you fail to pull a WG, would be to take a DH after all
with the intention to get another DH the next morning
and another the next morning

... there are always a smattering who are off on any given day of the week ... off for that one day only ... and you have much less competition to contend with on a weekday, as HK based guys will be at work.  

WG or DH, you'll need to take the lead on where to go as a tourist - they will know a couple of places, but probably not know how to get there.  If you need suggestions where to go, post a q, the bros are usually very forthcoming with good tips

Thanks for the tips brothers. I may look at WYP seekingarrangements for something that's more concrete though.

The concreteness takes the fun out of it.  darts plan is a good one. I second it. Locking into something gives you the high possibility of locking into something that does notwork out.

Listen to the Bros, Bro.

Forget the dating-sites in HK.  No need for them.  Go to Wanchai.  Have fun.. But be picky in the Sense of leaving the bar with a gal you are having fun with, not just a beauty. Enjoy your time that nite, and then ask her to go fetch her things  and join you for a day of shoPping and siteseeing.  Betshe will be VERY happy to!!!  

I've done it all over Asia.  A great way to see and learn a place.

As the other bros have said I don't think you will easily find a canto lady.  You might find a WG or a DH, but in my limited experience most do not know much about HK.  It is not however for lack of interest. I think you will find many girls keen to discover the place together with you. It's just that they are working so hard that most of them will have had very little experience outside of their neighborhood/working environment.

Happy to give you some travelling tips if you want.

Thanks brothers. I'll have to try then. Although I have zero experience. Must read the forum more. Maybe a brother can help me by being my wingman! Ha ha.

Do beware of WGs. In my experience, you need to make things as clear as you can before things even begin. Also, you should be able to have a hold on them just in case they turn around and try to blackmail you in whatever means they can. There are a few pointers that I can offer (sorry if you already know them).

1. If you want the same girl for a few days for the GFE, try to tell her a longer period and then spring on her that you need to leave early due to whatever reasons that you can think of. Of course don't short change her. For example tell her its a 4 day deal for say... $10,000, then on the 3rd day, without any warning, just fake a phone call and tell her to leave (and you catch your flight out). This will avoid her from setting something up and holding you ransom to squeeze extra out of you.

2. If you can, take a different WG back and IF you really could, change room daily. If the WG is nasty, she can come back to your room and make a scene. (this is with experience)

3. Of course the WG is engaging in illicit activities, if you can, get some 'evidence' be it in terms of audio or pictures. Just in case... u may share with us also...

4. Never pay everything upfront. I normally will not even take all my cash and cards out of the hotel. Just in case you get scammed and they want you to swipe multiple cards to 'pay the bill'. At least with one card, once you limit out, they'll have a tougher time getting more from you.

I had my nasty experiences and these are paid in money and ego. There are professional WGs and there are ones who are nasty with thugs to back them. I must say that you do plan ahead! A visit next year and you're already preparing for it!

Ok I have to ask, where do you usually punt, Wanchai bars, walk-ups, hotel girls or a different country?

Some excellent tips like make everything clear up front but change rooms daily really does anyone actually do this, have you done this?
$10k for 4 days, I would be asking for a discount for a 4 day run not offering her a bonus for it.

Like you said you have had some bad experiences but I do not believe this is the norm in Hk, all the girls I have been with have been
great but having said that I have spent hours drinking talking dancing and eating with them before getting down to the $$$$ talk.

So in what way did she try and blackmail you? I would love to hear your story as you are correct that there are risks involved in what we do but it is the exception not the rule

Most of my punts were in my home country in South East Asia. In HK, I've done 2 walkups so far. In China I've done about 5 hotels/ktv.

I've had a freelance pestering me after a ons. I genuinely didn't think that she was a WG and by no means did she hint that she was. We didn't talk about compensation but she came back and demanded. When I refused, she sat outside the door and cried loudly. I didn't want to create a scene and gave her some, a lot less than she demanded but eventually she left. I did change rooms after that night. BTW, that night when she made a scene I had my kids with me. Thankfully I was separated and the kids were too young to suspect. It was not pleasant though.

About thugs, I recall reading a post by someone here regarding a punt in SZ or somewhere in China when he brought a WG back to the hotel and noticed that she was busy texting someone. Soon after a bunch of thugs came knocking on his hotel door. I forgot how it ended but the bro was unscathed. So that did happen to someone here. Perhaps those with better memory can chime in on that case.

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